Family & Relationships - 13 September 2007

ok, so homecoming is coming up...again...and i am so far dateless...again...how do i go about working harder to find a date??? i know...you dont need a date to have a good time...blah, blah, blah...but i want a date...and i am going whether i find one or not...but i want one...and so background on me...im not hideous (at least i hope not)...but its not like im a walking goddess or anything...and ppl do tell me im pretty occasionally...and not just my parents...im not a fat person or anything (not to sound rude)...in fact im pretty dang petite...im not a social reget, but im not exactly a member of the "in crowd" either (i dont exactly want to be)...i hope i have a good personality...some ppl tell me i can get annoying...but i do have friends that like me for who i am and all...what am i doing wrong? an how can i try harder?

2007-09-13 09:53:49 · 28 answers · asked by solemlyswearimup2nogood 2 in Singles & Dating

Is Five months a long time to wait for someone?
I have been going out with this girl for the same amount of time 5 months and we have both said we wanted this long distance to work.
I think there is an added factor and that is I Love this girl and mean it and she in return can only like me a lot.
do i wait for her or is this too much for one person?
She has a guy who texts her a lot from back home (writing flirty messages)and i am worried she might be wanting him back even though she told me she has no more feelings for this guy. I asked her to let this guy know that i'm her boyfriend but this is hard for me. Would a girl actually want two relationships at once? i told her if that was the case to break it off with me and she said she did not want that. What could i do or ask her to find the truth?

2007-09-13 09:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i am 23 and never been on a date. the same thing always happens to me with girl. I will meet them some how it starts with just friendly chatting then she will start to get more flirtly with it. After awhile i will ask the girl out to dinner and a movie, I again have never been on a date so dont know any better ideas. They never say no they will say sure but then cancel on me at the last minute. Then i will see them again, not bring it out but they will still flirt and hint at going out. then when i ask again they will say they have plans that night. I then think that they are just really busy and dont have time. I am a nice friendly guy we will be talking on the phone through out all of this and then they will just stop answering their phone. Now my question do i always fell for this ****. is it my fault, are they just jerks. i try to get insight from my female friends and they all dont know why I am single.

2007-09-13 09:50:49 · 1 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

because they always say no

2007-09-13 09:50:19 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I WOULD LIKE TO KNO

2007-09-13 09:49:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just asked this question, but only got one answer. Would you go out with a girl who was 15 to 20 pounds overweight if you knew she was nice and fun to be around?

2007-09-13 09:47:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you date a woman, are you affectionate by showing her you like/love her by wanting to kiss, cuddle, hold hands. When do you show that affection right away or wait or being affection is not really your thing? If being affectionate is not your thing and you dislike getting mushy, how come?

2007-09-13 09:46:46 · 10 answers · asked by guardianangel2008 1 in Singles & Dating

We split up 4 months ago because i asked for commitment. he told me he had to let me go to find another love as he didn't feel it in his heart. I lied and told him i was over hm last week and how would he fancy sex. i just wanted to be close to him. I've slept with him 3 times and each time i know he only wants sex. He does cook for me still and ask about my life, we go for walks and he tells me he wants me to be in love and be happy. Do you think he loves me or he has definitely fallen out of love???

2007-09-13 09:45:13 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There are tons of females who have noticeable dark facial hair. When it comes to mustaches on a girl, do you guys care?

I have some and I'm dark-haired so it's noticeable, without a doubt. They're not thick hairs, though. I think of taking it off sometime, but I think a guy shouldn't care about that kinda stuff.

So, what's the deal?

2007-09-13 09:42:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy 3 years ago got to know him and know I've fallen in love with him, the thing is we're not together and never have been, I'm not very experience in relationships it's been 11 going on 12 years since I last had a boyfriend, I don't know how to act around him and seem confident bcause I'm not I'm soo scared of mucking things up . it's been three years and I don't know what to do say or think anymore, i feel depressed and tired emotionaly. I don't know why he'd ever want me because I'm not like all his gfs he's had in the past, we love the same things and just seem to connect, i don't know what to do, please help me!

2007-09-13 09:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well there is this guy and its only the second month of 8th grade and he already likes me!!!! he said this to mi friends:" yall her number is like rite here!!!!!!" okayy so he said that and i dont really like him but i also dont want to hurt his feelings hes already like a bro to me !!! what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please yall i really need help!!! ok well thxx

2007-09-13 09:41:58 · 24 answers · asked by lexi 2 in Friends

I've tried everything!! I've tried accidently bumping him in the hallways, saying hi!! Everything i think of doesn't work!! I don't know why i can't get this guy to notice me!! I feel as though i'm invisible or something!! All my friends talk about their boyfriends and for once i'd like to know what it feels like!! I've never had a boyfriend!! I've been on one date in my life!! So please help me!! Thanks!!

2007-09-13 09:41:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 09:41:10 · 40 answers · asked by september_serenade 1 in Family

I can never seem to last a long time w. a boyfriend. I recently just got dumped and a couple weeks ago me and another boy ended it. I can never seem to stay w/ one boy for a long time. which is wat i want the most. I get mad sorta easily but i cant help it. i have a lot of anger in me and i somtimes end up geting mad over stupied things. what can i do to end this misery and have a long relationship??

2007-09-13 09:38:48 · 36 answers · asked by Kelli 2 in Singles & Dating

Just a question for those who have gotten pregnant then got married for that reason, just wondering if it was so it doesn't look bad or were you already planning to get married then decided to do it earlier because of that?...Just wondering, thanks :)

2007-09-13 09:37:19 · 15 answers · asked by Abby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know this doesn't apply to everyone but some women are so cruel breaking a heart because theyare bored or laughing at men who try hard to impress them, and why do men cheat and lie? i mean some people always blame the opposite sex. not interested in ignorant answers like all Men are pigs or all women are dumb because we all know thats not true/, i am curious as to any theories, i believe it is all how people are raised.

2007-09-13 09:37:06 · 4 answers · asked by lost 2 in Singles & Dating

So...i think the best way people can give me a an answer is if i explain the situation. I met some guy when i was a freshman and he was a junior. Now, three years later...he's back in school because he still hasn't graduated. He's been involved in a lot of deep stuff(drugs, drinking, cops, etc) But now he's got himself cleaned up(that's what he says) He say;s he likes me and i like him too. But not enough to date him. I would rather stay friends. How do i make him understand that without hurting him?

2007-09-13 09:32:55 · 20 answers · asked by ღAmorღ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 09:31:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 09:29:17 · 63 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Weddings

She is turning 20. She is a vocalist in a rockband. She loves to read all charles dickens, JD Salinger, Ernest Hemingway, and other such authors. All classics.
She loves all kinds of music esp. death cab.
Loves Urban Outfitters, American Apparall.
I don't want to get her clothes and jewelry like every other year.
What should I get her?
any ideas?

2007-09-13 09:21:55 · 2 answers · asked by JanetB 2 in Family

We would never most likely be in a relationship, he's too much of a player for that. But he always makes me feel soo sexy!!! Like one time he grabbed me by the waist at a football game and told me he loved me in front of a bunch of his girl friends. Seriously his hands were all over me. We both are in cross country and track, so thats how we know eachother. So do you think I should ask him??????

2007-09-13 09:19:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 09:18:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what am i supposed to think about that ?.......am i just being insucure?.........y would he do that?

2007-09-13 09:18:38 · 8 answers · asked by greeneyedphsyco 2 in Singles & Dating

You don't have to do anything or any planning or trying to be somebody you are not.

2007-09-13 09:18:10 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's best to wait until a weekend to ask the engagement question? I thought it'd be better since you'd have all weekend to relax and be together, but I think tonight might be a good opportunity. My girlfriend and I work/are in grad school, but we decided to take a little break from it all and have a date night.

2007-09-13 09:17:58 · 22 answers · asked by j_della28 2 in Weddings

im a 14 year old girl and i really want a boyfriend but i just dont seem to have guys looking at me or anything

2007-09-13 09:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by xrainxdansrxoox 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 1 1/2 years. She has gained 20 pounds since we got married. She is by no means obese, but because she is a petite girl (5 foot 2') it is very noticable. I have never told her that she needs to lose weight. She is still beautiful to me. I have tried things like asking her to go for a walk with me. I also have taken over lots of the cooking and am doing my best to cook healthy. I also do the grocery shopping and do not buy sweets or unhealthy, fatty foods. But nothing seems to be helping. Is there anything else I can try?

2007-09-13 09:15:41 · 43 answers · asked by Joe Schmo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was watching divorce court today and some lady actually married a guy that was STILL MARRIED to someone else. My question is how is that possible? I thought when you apply for a marriage license they check on things like that? If anyone knows how something like that could happen I would like to know. It was just mind blowing to me.

2007-09-13 09:11:57 · 9 answers · asked by baby_grl01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy in his 30s or 40s...

2007-09-13 09:10:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-13 09:09:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce