Why do men and women Cheat and hate the opposite sex?

Question

i know this doesn't apply to everyone but some women are so cruel breaking a heart because theyare bored or laughing at men who try hard to impress them, and why do men cheat and lie? i mean some people always blame the opposite sex. not interested in ignorant answers like all Men are pigs or all women are dumb because we all know thats not true/, i am curious as to any theories, i believe it is all how people are raised.

Answer 1

I don't think it's the parents' fault, sorry to disagree, because in adulthood a person is responsible for his or her actions. The ones who behave like that don't care about anything except personal gratification, - everything else is less important, like self-respect and respect for others, which go together. There are some who realise that their lives are out of control, who quit their bad living, but always some who don't. It's down to their weakness.

Answer 2

Hum, looks like there haven’t been many female responders to your posts. I cannot tell if you sincerely believe what you wrote, or if you are just a troll, but your “heterophobic” rants simply serve to confirm many of the negative stereotypes that straight people already have about lesbians – such as, you are just anti-social man haters (and since every man is some woman’s son, brother friend or lover, then by bashing & slandering all straight men everywhere, you are also, indirectly, attacking straight women). You are not really helping your (apparent) cause (I.E.; getting people to accept gays & lesbians as normal members of society) by trying to make straight people seem crazy or weird. I’m sorry if you really are terrified of 50% of the world’s population, but if you cannot get along with any straight men, period, in spite of the fact that we are all different, then consider the fact that the one common denominator here is you, so it is logical to assume that you are the main source of your own difficulties with straight males, not us. As someone else has pointed out, men are not monsters, we are just people, the same as you. If you don't like us, or if you are just "heterophobic", then the problem must be you. Take care and God bless.

Answer 3

...I absolutely believe some people are simply sooo misguided and conflicted mentally within themselves?....that they can't possibly make out or comprehend what a good solution or good resolution looks like honestly.
Hence all the bad nasty Karma that afflicts them and everyone they come in contact with resolutely!
These people are know obsessive compulsive anxiety riddled wanderers' of life seriously.
Avoid all cheaters like the plague....what else really?

Answer 4

lost, Yep how they were raised but the biggest factor is that they are sinful human beings. Only faith in Jesus can put people on the straight and narrow !