PLEASE HELP - if my boyfriend gets me an engagement ring from KOHL's is that cheap??

Answer 1

You're judging him because he wants to live within his means?? I think you should reassess YOUR values.

Answer 2

Dear Bride-to-be...
*Where* your boyfriend bought the diamond engagement ring matters much less than the quality of the cut, color, clarity and carat size of the engagement ring. Kohls has a decent selection of diamonds at a variety of price points that your boyfriend was able to afford. Costco, Walmart, Macy's and Kohls all have purchasing power to get very good deals on diamond engagement rings, and so they can pass the price savings down to you.

That being said, don't get too hung up on the diamond ring. The diamond, from the groom's perspective, is a symbol that shouts out that his precious fiancee is in love (whether that is the case or not!), and accordingly, off the market. Grooms should only spend what they can afford to get there. Some grooms spend two months salary on a ring, but this concept came from a marketing campaign by a diamond company. Some grooms spend less than that, but buy the diamond engagement ring online. Yet others opt for sapphires and rubies, skipping the diamond altogether.

It has no bearing on whether you are going to have a successful marriage.

What really matters is that 1) you're really ready to get married, 2) you're in love with your boyfriend enough to want to spend a whole long time with him (belches, burps, bumps and all) and 3) that the piece of rock on your finger is something that you cherish and you're proud of. If you are not proud of the ring, and feel bad that it was bought at Kohls, that's ok too. If it is going to be a sore point for you, then you should express your feelings to your boyfriend. But instead of telling him you thought it wasn't great to buy the ring at Kohls, say to him that you "didn't like the style", and that "you have to wear it!" and that "maybe we can go shopping together?"

But again, get educated. The only thing that really matters is the cut, carat, clarity and color of the stone. And even the carat isn't *that* important. Women don't wear diamond rings with the price tag still attached, and frankly, the only rings that really get noticed are those big big big stones that you see from time to time on some lady. Don't sweat it!

Congrats on your engagement,

Cheers.

Answer 3

If it's the best he can do then accept it graciously. Love and marriage is more than just material goods. I'm sure you know that, but whatever happens between you 2 should stay between you 2. Don't let your friends tell you it's cheap, because it probably isn't. Engagement rings from any reputable place are going to cost regardless if it's from Walmart or Kohl's or Kay Jewelers...If you like the ring and you both love each other then everything should be fine. You can always get another one later down the road. There are no hard and fast rules about marriage and engagement. You 2 do whatever suits your happiness. And speaking of happiness I wish you both all of it in the world. Good luck

Answer 4

are you trying to say that a ring from kohls would not be as nice as a ring from somewhere else for the same money? or that kohls sells cheap things so their diamond rings are cheap and of poor quality as well. ?

haha, i just read all the other several dozen answers and i am not gonna touch this! you are getting beaten up here for asking this!! people are pretty touchy about rings here, arent they!!!

however, if he has not bought it yet, perhaps you and he can do some comparison shopping at all different kinds of jewelry stores in your city to see exactly what your dollar can buy at different price levels at different stores.

i do believe that you can educate yourself about getting the best deals on a ring easily on the internet, and use that knowledge in whatever store you are in so you know you are getting a quality ring at a fair price.

you see, i am the cheapest person on earth, i research until i find out just how far my money will go on a big purchase like this, and i try to be as cheap as possible, spending as little as possible for as fine a ring as i possilby can!!!!!

Answer 5

I dont think so. I just checked out their store, we dont have Kohl's over here, so I didnt know what they were, and the rings they have there look quite pretty. There are some unusual designs as well as some classics. You will probably find they are no different to rings that come from a jewellery store. Just as long as your diamond sparkles, and was given with love, who cares where it came from.
So your boyfriend doesnt have $10,000 to spend on an engagement ring. Neither does mine. But at least he wants to marry you. He loves you and wants to give you a ring.
Maybe one day down the track he will will be able to afford something more expensive, but for now, it is fine.
I certainly wouldnt complain. But if it bothers you, just dont tell anyone where it came from. Say you dont know. It is not anyone elses business anyways....just yours and your mans. Would you have loved the ring any more had he said it came from 'Tiffany's?

Answer 6

All of these people have the right idea. Are you marrying him for a diamond or for him?

Before the last 100 years, people didn't even GET engagement rings. They would just propose. Because you know what's more important than diamonds or money? Love.

If my fiance gave me a piece of chewing gum I would be thrilled.

Also, you can always get a new one later on. My parents have been married for over 25 years, and she's gotten three rings. It's only jewelry!

Answer 7

It shouldn't matter how much you spend on the ring but the bad thing aboutgetting it at a place like kohls rather than a jewelry store is the warranty and quality. You want a ring that will last a lifetime and be covered forever.

Answer 8

EEE Gad girl. Where the ring comes from matters not! Just the fact that he is ready and willing to buy it. I saw the most beautiful 1 1/2 ct ring at Sams Club I have been hinting at!!!! Kohls or Rogers and Holland either way as long as the ring represents that he loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you!!!!!

Answer 9

No, I don't think so. All diamonds are based on the 4Cs ~ color, cut, clarity, carat weight. Here is a link so that you can read up more on it. All jewelers pretty much go to the same buying location for their diamonds. Just because it is marketed through Kohls Department Store instead of through a jeweler doesn't mean that it's an inferior diamond. I say good for him for keeping within a budget! I got my diamond from a catalog and we have been married 30 years on the 17th of this month! If you are happy with it, then that is all that matters!

http://shopping.yahoo.com/b:Education:95718497

Answer 10

Kohl's is really not the place to buy an engagement ring. He really should look at Discount Jewelry Exchange stores in your area or go on line to see: diamondsafe.com, diamond.com, vsdiamondbroker.com, worldjewels.net. Most of these give a 30 day money back guarantee.

Answer 11

No, sweetie. If your boyfriend gets you an engagement ring, it's because he loves you and wants to marry you. Does where he got the ring really matter? I'm certain that he'll buy you the best ring he can afford. If that means it's a cubic zirconia from Wal-Mart, so be it. Just be glad that he wants to marry you.

If it makes you feel better, remember that no one needs to know where your ring came from or how much it cost. Get over it and just be glad he's asking.