2007-09-13 09:18:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We've been together for 15 yrs. Three kids. I don't work, he's got a good job. We've been in counseling for 3 yrs, but he doesn't always go or want to do what has been suggested. The only thing that's holding me in the marriage is lack of personal funds. I have $1000 saved up.
2007-09-13 09:20:48 · update #1
I live in Michigan.
2007-09-13 09:23:06 · update #2
He used to be very, very abusive. But thru some conseling and medication he's better. Not all better, but better. However, in my case the damage is done. He won't listen at all about how I feel... says I'm living in the past. But he still drinks and will have short rants. Our oldest avoids him, the middle child is developing agressive behavior and is becoming verbally abusive to me. The youngest never leaves my side. Even the dog shys from him!
2007-09-13 09:33:09 · update #3
Start at your bookstore or library. There are some excellent books about divorce out there -- including what to expect in child support/alimony and other issues to consider, by state.
My husband and I agreed to split, and negotiated everything in writing on our own before going to one lawyer to make it official (for $600). Your costs will depend enormously on how much you can work out in advance between the two of you, and how much will be contested in court.
2007-09-13 09:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what all the details are, but if there is ANY possible way of saving the marriage, do so. The costs are astronomical, and i'm not even talking about the financial part. I'm talking emotional wise, and esp with the kids. If there is abuse involved, by all means, get out. But, if is for selfish reasons, or you guys have just grown apart, get some duct tape... you can buy that and get it back together.
2007-09-13 09:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to get a job and obtain some financial stability before taking the step.
2007-09-13 09:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by ruebezahl2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separation, division, legalization and the cost depends on the assets involved.
2007-09-13 09:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not work on marriage and save your money. The lawyers will take more than $1,000. They have to make payments on their BMW's.
2007-09-13 09:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋