I've tried everything!! I've tried accidently bumping him in the hallways, saying hi!! Everything i think of doesn't work!! I don't know why i can't get this guy to notice me!! I feel as though i'm invisible or something!! All my friends talk about their boyfriends and for once i'd like to know what it feels like!! I've never had a boyfriend!! I've been on one date in my life!! So please help me!! Thanks!!
2007-09-13 09:41:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didn't talk to him today but we locked eyes for a second and i felt like there was a question but i was the first to unlock!!
2007-09-13 10:05:30 · update #1
I've tried dressing nicer!!! Putting make up on!! basically anything i could think of!! I've been on one date my entire life and it was a disaster!! He wouldn't talk to me!! I came up to him and said hey whatsup? and he just walked away like i hadn't said anything!!!
2007-09-13 10:29:30 · update #2
HAVE YOU WALKED UP TO HIM.. IF NOT THAN TRY THAT
2007-09-21 06:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try drastically changing something about yourself.. for example gt contacts instead of glasses( saw ur pic has it). Or better yet, you may not even have to do that just dress in a little brighter colours, bright colours show personality and makes you look 'not so shy'. Try a little more make up and accessories. But most of all you can change verything about urself but you'l still need to speak to ppl. Trust me i have the same probs with guys, bfs and talking to ppl ( see my questions) but the key i realized is to go up to people and just start talking, then call or wave to them when ever u see them around again. Make yourself seen around guys and stuff. If you've got a good guy frind, ask for his true objective opionion of you and then you'll kow what to improve on. Personally though, i think personality is definitly the key. Just be around, and cool, talk to more ppl, be urself, and dont wory too much about being shy- start out simply with a smile and a good day, then you'll progress..
good luck.
2007-09-13 16:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by californiangel_rhonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wouldn't talk to you? hmmm...how old are you?
Believe me, don't rush it, there's plenty of time for dating, and, you don't have to be like your friends. There will come a time when you can't run from the males fast enough. In the meantime get all A's in school so that you can get your college degree and get a great job later and meet someone at that level.
2007-09-21 04:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOd
i used to be the same way
but i have like this fashion gene thing
and i always wear cute clothes !!!
But hey e-mail me and i'll help i can promise u that !!!!!
nicksgurl9401@yahoo.com
But as for right now get one of those coolio fashion magazines dont dress fancy just cute and casual
and try tlkin about thingshe likes with him !!
GOOD LUCK I'LL HELP U WITH ALL THE FASHION STUFF !!!!
2007-09-21 16:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was a tomboy when i was in school so the guys didn't notice me as a girl who they might want to date. and i was also a little shy. when i was in 8th grade i really liked this guy but he probably didn't know that i existed. my friends would try to give him the hint that i liked him but that didn't work. untill 1 day i decided to go up to him and say "i noticed... ahh.... ahh... that you play basketball." he looked at me and laughed. then he actually made conversation with me. so just go up 2 him and try the same. you never know, it might just work! good luck and let me know how it went. sobe_csws@yahoo.com.
2007-09-13 16:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by me, me, and me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lying to yourself! You haven't tried everything! Speak! . I'll tell you one that worked on me. I had no clue this lady was interested either! If the opportunity arises, while standing behind him, with no else able to hear but him, say just one simple word "NICE". If he turns, just smile and go about your business! If he doesn't he's deaf!!
2007-09-13 17:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation won't take you anywhere, dear... You know how men are... show a little cleavage / buttocks / legs and he will drop like a fly.
Check this out for some more ideas:
http://www.singles-advice.com/dating-advice-for-women.htm
Good luck.
2007-09-21 15:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tedel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont be so jumpy when it comes to him act as if your not interseted and if that doesnt work then start making short eye contact with him look at him then when your eyes meet look away! seriously eye contact is the number one attraction between two people its what sets the atraction and I asure you he will notice you but DONT STARE AT HIM CREEPISHLY that will set a different type of mood(a wtf is this girl crazy kind of mood)!
2007-09-13 16:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by ......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be in that situation that nobody even notices me but now that they do,they are either 50 yrs old or somebody married! be yourself and dont try too hard for guys to notice you...play hard to get but be playful at the same time...god luck to you!
2007-09-13 16:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by LiLMizzUndahstood22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know the dude's not noticing you? just because he's not pulling your pigtails and drawing on your back doesnt mean he's not interested. he may be intimidated by your shyness. just talk to him more
2007-09-13 16:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by PhilJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well send me an email and tell me about yourself and i will try and help you out with what guys like about girls...
2007-09-13 16:48:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋