Family & Relationships - 13 September 2007

I would like to find the best card to call Grenada i am in montreal, Canada..... i bought a card already for 5$ and it got me 14minutes....grrrrr

2007-09-13 11:01:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm making a slideshow for my grandpas wedding next weekend and it has pictures of him growing up, my mom n aunt growing up, the grandkids, then his fiance growing up, her kids and grandkids, then pics of both families together. I need songs for all of these sections, but mostly the family part of my mom and us grandkids. any ideas?

2007-09-13 10:55:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I find my self constantly caring what people think of me, and even when derogatory comments are not directed at me exactly, like one about americans or whites, I find myself dwelling on it making absolute sure that I know its not true and people don't think that about me, its gotten to the point that I don't like talking to anyone except my fiance and I don't like going out at all, and I will be starting college soon so I really want to find a way to get past this.


Sometimes I don't even want to check my email or youtube because im just so worried some one will have said something mean and ill have to dwell on it for 2 days.


Also whenever I find myself in a verbal confrontation, I very quickly try to avoid an argument by making it a physical confrontation. I feel much more confortable with physically intimidating some one into leaving me alone than having them insult me and shake my confidence.


I really just want to stop caring what people think, what should I do?

2007-09-13 10:53:58 · 1 answers · asked by morgan m 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad was amazing when I was little. Now he can't let me grow up, and everyone says that. He yells at me and gets mad at me for anything he can, no matter how stupid he looks. He says I never do anything right and make him look bad. I'm almost 17 and don't have to go see him, but some people (like his girlfriend and mom) feel badly for him and say I should just deal with it. Why would I wanna be screamed at every weekend? Am I wrong here? Honestly?

2007-09-13 10:53:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like one of my guy friends and i think i'd like him to go with me to our high school's homecoming dance. Any advice?

2007-09-13 10:52:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I figure one way not to be crushed by love is to not fall in love and that can be accomplished by being alone, but being alone is also undesirable. I just want to know is it ok to have a few female friends that u can consider potential girl friends if you are talking to one and she just drops you like its nothing. I mean its nothing worse than having someone mean the world to you and then finding out that you mean nothing to him/her.

2007-09-13 10:49:34 · 1 answers · asked by Ronell B 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin and I grew up together and have been very close throughout most of our lives.
However, I have a huge issue with her that's making me think I don't need her in my life.
I'm gay. She doesn't have an issue with that. But, she votes for and supports political candidates that want to take away my rights (such as marriage,etc.)
I'm very offended over this and everytime I look into her eyes I see a hypocrite that doesn't really support me and my lifestyle.
Should I kick her to the curb?

2007-09-13 10:46:32 · 10 answers · asked by donholbrookjr 1 in Family

Why pretend you like sex more than you actually do?
What about being honest?
Or does that not count when it comes to sex?
How many of you have surffered from the marital sexual drought? You know where the wife or husband couldn't get enough before you were married and then after the vow decided they don't like sex as much. Isn't this false advertisement in a way?

2007-09-13 10:45:11 · 13 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 10:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 10:38:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok im in grade 8 and theres a bunch of girls from my soccer team at my school and a bunch of guys and theyre always talking about how much weed they smoked, or what they snorted on the weekend. then this girl who is one of my really good friends comes up to me and shes like "kim (a soccer friend) asked if i wanted to buy a caffine pill" and im like "whats a caffine pill..." and shes like "oh its this awesome stuff you snort and then you get super hyper and then you totally CRASH and throw up!" and now im scared because a close friend of mine is getting addicted to drugs and i dont want her to get all screwed up from drugs... why are so many people doing it?!?! whats so great about getting messed up by this ****?!!?!?! frick im scared for her i want her and all of my other friends to stop!!!!!!!! CRACK IS WHACK! but why doesnt anyone believe that anymore?

2007-09-13 10:38:32 · 2 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4 in Friends

I was asked out on a date and of course I declined because I'm married. I wear my wedding ring everyday! Honestly, I don't flirt and I don't wear provocative clothing...Is it that people expect married people to cheat or do these guys just like to see me squirm out of these uncomfortable situations???

2007-09-13 10:38:00 · 14 answers · asked by Violation Notice 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He's 26, I just turned 18 yesterday.
He's a famous tattoo artist. I'm an accountant.
We're together for 3 months already.
He doesnt call me at all?
He doesnt text me at all?
when i probed him, he said he was really busy and keeps apologizing.
We meet once a week? i would stay-over at his place.
He works in the day, has lion dance in the night.
Totally no time for me.
But what i dont get is, not even the time to text me!
He doesnt have any other Gfs.
What is he thinking?

2007-09-13 10:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I graduated from my school in june and I thought when I started my new school I might not miss it as bad as i did. But I still do the pain is horrible If i hear a song that reminds me of my old class i feel sad and if i see pictures the same thing happens and i feel like crying . Part of this is because I really liked this guy in my old class and we became really close and i havent seen him since school ended and he goes to a boarding school in another school. I dont know what to do is there anyway to help myself get over it?

2007-09-13 10:31:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

separated men or divorced men with kids get upset when he is forced to or chooses to pay support to his children? What do you expect? Do you expect his ex wife to suddenly decide that because he now has more kids he does not have to be financially responsible for his first family? Try putting yourself in the ex wife's shoes and see how you would feel.

2007-09-13 10:28:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have proximity friends, work friends, old high school friends, etc. I just never hit it off with women in a lasting way, a deeper best-friend kind of connection. I find it much easier to get along with men. My boyfriend says it's because I'm not interested in the things the average woman is in to, such as their children or their soaps. I do like shopping, dancing, parties, games, spa days and chit-chat. Where am I going wrong?

How do I break into the girl club? Thanks for your advice!

Please respect the community guidelines when you answer.

2007-09-13 10:20:20 · 1 answers · asked by backwardsinheels 5 in Friends

are there any shoes that girls are more likely to kick guys in the balls with? If so, which ones? How hard would you kick a guy if you were real mad?

Do you have any funny stories?

2007-09-13 10:13:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i used to like this guy but it never worked out.. we we're freshmen last year & both shy and never really talked.. but now im over him and kinda starting to like someone else.

now its a new year!!!! anyway the new guy i like is a freshman (im now a sophomore). and i have one class with him, uumm i was at the sotre like last week and he wa sthere too and he kept looking at me an dsometimes he would be in the same isle as me.. he also looks at me when i pass by him in the hallway..


btw we have a school dance tomorrow but idk if hes going.

so the question is, should i go for it, i dont want it to end up like it did last time with the other guy.

2007-09-13 10:12:55 · 46 answers · asked by umm hey 1 in Singles & Dating

I wasn't single last year at college (but have been for 6 months now) and this guy would playfully tease me about being in a certain place all the time. College has started back and the first coupla days he kept making eye contact and giving me a funny look/smile. I started commenting him on myspace and he was replying back immediately, and sent me a picture/gift thing on my page and said he took ages to pick it etc. but he has now stopped but still comes online?
At college he never makes eye contact now and is more quieter than usual (he was usually always joking around) but still playfully teases a bit and i caught him looking over from the far side of the room at me then he looked away quickly and he was looking over at break the other day....
Does it sound like he likes me? He's not shy so i don't get why he's kinda 'avoiding' looking at me when i pass etc
What can i do? I'm not gona comment him again incase i seem desperate....

2007-09-13 10:09:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He signed into his email account and forgot to log out. He just left for Iraq two days ago and we never turn our computer off. So I went in his email with the intent on signing him out, but of course I looked at his emails because I'm snoopy and he hasn't cared about it in the past. Anyway, I saw an email for fling.com claiming that some girl wanted to meet him or be added to his friends list or something. I clicked a link that signed me into his account from the email and he has been talking to multiple girls since the 31st of august...basically he told them that he wanted somebody to have sex with and fool around with before he deployed. He lost his virginity to me and we are a newly wed couple...we are also pretty young. He is only 20....but that is no excuse for his unfaithfulness. This is reason enough to divorce him right? Especially if I print off the pages and show them to a lawyer? I left my family, friends, my education, and my job to be with him and this happens. I'm pissed.

2007-09-13 10:07:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My BFF, always plays with a girl 4 years younger. she gets 2 have sleepovers with her at least twice a month. the last sleepover i had with her was a year ago and i invited her. she says she wish she could spend more time with me, but yet she always spends more time with the little brat. and whenever i am hangin' with her alone, the brat gets jealous and cries. we're teens. we can't play with 8-year-olds, and yet my BFF does. what should i do? should i dump her? am i jealous? help!

2007-09-13 10:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by sugarcube713 1 in Friends

my stepdad is always hitting me and my little sister and leving bruises.a few days ago i walked into my little sisters room to wake her up and i saw him touching her innapropriately.he threatened to hurt us if i told anyone and i dont want to upset my mom because shes pregnant.we cant go live with our dad because my stepmom doesn't want us there and i dont want my little sister to grow up in a foster home.by the way i'm 15 and shes 4

i could live with my bf-hes 23 but i don't know if that would be a good enviroment for my little sister

2007-09-13 10:04:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother is disabled (both mentally and physically) and because of this she's been used and abused.....thus she has PTSD, my fathers a very abusive person, who rarely listens to any one. I've been Co-dependent for too many years and tried to help both of them...but enough is enough.
Is there any free or inexpensive family counselors online????

2007-09-13 10:03:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I fear the day my husband and I ever loose our sex life. I have been with him for 12 years and we are having our third child and he rocks my world!!
I cant believe how good in bed we are together and I wouldnt want to miss one night of bliss.
Please tell me its a myth. Because if it isnt Im on my way out the door right now to buy the entire damn sex shop to bring home lmao!!!

2007-09-13 10:03:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The first time was a shocking wakeup call to all parents. Then they keep doing it for ratings. And they are milking it for all its worth. It seems to me that it's not making us more aware of perverts that prey on kids but bring in huge amounts of money to NBC.

Anyone fell unconfortable about that?

2007-09-13 10:01:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-13 09:58:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking sexual abuse. It's hard to remeber everything. How do you gain the memory back

2007-09-13 09:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents are divorced. My mom says the card I got for my dad for his birthday this month is kind of mean. I want to know what you guys think?

On the front it says "We didn't know which card to get for a GREAT dad like you, but we knew it had to have the words super, fantastic and cool in it"

Then when you open it on the inside it says "Happy Birthday from your super fantastic cool kids"

2007-09-13 09:57:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-13 09:55:48 · 35 answers · asked by jessica g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are your expectation towards her? What she should/shouldn't do?

2007-09-13 09:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by ann3lizz 3 in Singles & Dating