Why pretend you like sex more than you actually do?
What about being honest?
Or does that not count when it comes to sex?
How many of you have surffered from the marital sexual drought? You know where the wife or husband couldn't get enough before you were married and then after the vow decided they don't like sex as much. Isn't this false advertisement in a way?
2007-09-13 10:45:11 · 13 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess no one is open minded and creative when it comes to sex any more. That is just sad.
2007-09-13 10:59:31 · update #1
Many false advertisers here on Y/A.
2007-09-13 11:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure, My ex use to be the same, but when it came down to it, I was raring to go, and he couldn't get it up.
But to be honest I think that has something to do with the fact he couldn't get me off and so I was never satisfied but he was.
And about the marital sexual drought, I guess it's just where the couple have become stuck in their ways, or have got bored of each other, imagine knowing you'll be with one person for the rest of your life and that the sex will always be the same, how much can somebody varies sex? Wouldn't the thought of having the same sex every night be a bore?
I think it's the most interesting when you're just about the have sex with somebody new and the excitement is there.
So, in conclusion, I think having sex with one person gets boring in the end, so they may have a huge sexual appetite, but after a while it's boring. Like anything, you have to vary it. And it's hard after marriage because you're stuck with one person!
2007-09-13 17:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never pretended to like it or hate it I am pretty much an honest person when it comes to everything in my life both my marriages were different so therefore my sexual appetite was very different , also there's the point that as you mature your appetite's change and it changes differently for every human being , so no it's not false advertising it's just called growing up and having your thought's , feeling's , emotion's change .If your relationship doesnt change with you then yes you will hit a rutt.
As to the boredom issue please get a clue , if it become's boring spice it up , I have to agree with Midnight Winter Wolf , as for DiJeet H dude you have issues seriously obese chicks and fetishes? lmao that gave me a laugh.
Remember people sex , marriage , life is what YOU make it not what every other Tom Dick or Jane is doing , you dont have to keep up with the Jones's.
2007-09-13 18:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making very broad assumptions about people based on your experience. I am completely honest about my appetite, drive and everything else. We have never suffered a "drought" in over seventeen years of marriage. If someone falsely represents themselves to their prespective mate, that is certainly an issue but your intimate life requires work just like any other part of the relationship.
2007-09-13 19:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, hold on here...
Your life...including your sex life is what you make of it!
If it is old boring and stale or non-exsistent...who's fault is that? Mine? The neighbors? NO! YOURS!
I have been married for 12 years and to be quite frank our sex life is STILL SIZZLING!
Why? Do you ask...
Because we "PLAY" together...we make love where ever our hearts desire...
At the park..we did it on the picnic table, blanket and the slide!
On a deserted road...on the hood of our car..under the full moon!
In the kitchen, NOT on the table, but the floor...
In the shower!
G people...live a little! Have fun!
If we, I am 40 and he is 38, can do it...so the Hades can you!
ENJOY IT!
YOU BUNCH OF PRUDES!
2007-09-13 18:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that's true in some cases but I truly was wanting it like every day a few months ago and well he was stressed with work and other things and was not in the mood so I think on accession yes its true but I have a hard time believing that is the case for people 24/7
2007-09-13 17:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband has never cared much for sex, so I knew what I was getting into.
For normal people, sex is often more exciting in the beginning; but just because something is exciting for a while, doesn't mean that it's gonna stay this way for the rest of your life.
2007-09-13 17:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are on your own on this one. Hubby and I enjoy everything about sex from the initial flirting, to the gentle caressing and foreplay and then dang it's getting hot in here....
2007-09-13 18:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's why i'm not getting married!!!!
perfect example!!!!! you make me want to holler!!!
when people get married, expectations change. you will hear things (well from what I'm heard) like...
Your my husband! Your suppose to do A & B!!!!
Your my wife!!! What's wrong with you!!! Your suppose to have sex with me!!!
and the list goes on...
Good luck to those happily married and those that aren't, don't do it!!!!!
2007-09-13 18:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree...and it's kinda sad. I'm not married yet but God I hope there's no sex drought~!
2007-09-13 17:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋