Please help. Friend crisis.?

Question

My BFF, always plays with a girl 4 years younger. she gets 2 have sleepovers with her at least twice a month. the last sleepover i had with her was a year ago and i invited her. she says she wish she could spend more time with me, but yet she always spends more time with the little brat. and whenever i am hangin' with her alone, the brat gets jealous and cries. we're teens. we can't play with 8-year-olds, and yet my BFF does. what should i do? should i dump her? am i jealous? help!

Answer 1

you are jealous, and should be old enough to know better.

Answer 2

instead of getting mad and frusturated about you could either
1) all hang out together
2) talk to your BFF about it and tell her how you feel NICELY and CALMLY.

you're not really jealous more conserned, but you deffinately shouldn't dump her..that would be stupid she's supposed to be your "BFF" definition: best friend FOREVER.

dont get upset about this.
it's not that big of a deal.
i mean
its like 20 yr old hanging around a 24 yr old.

just because the numbers are lower, doesnt really change anything.

i have a friend that is 17 and a friend that is 13, age doesnt matter.

and if your friend isnt making an effort to hang around you, then your the one sending her mixed singnals or she's just plain blowing you off which also isnt cool and you need to TALK to her about it.

Answer 3

im sorry darling but you have the case of the 'jells' a.k.a. your jellous cmpletely!!!!
dont worry everyone goes though this stage in their life...

ok.....you need to just let your friend be, some people are still known to be hanging out with little kids but have you ever considered that she might want to hang out with her???
just give it time and shell come to her senses and hang out with you eventually....hang in there dont loose a friend!!!!