He's 26, I just turned 18 yesterday.
He's a famous tattoo artist. I'm an accountant.
We're together for 3 months already.
He doesnt call me at all?
He doesnt text me at all?
when i probed him, he said he was really busy and keeps apologizing.
We meet once a week? i would stay-over at his place.
He works in the day, has lion dance in the night.
Totally no time for me.
But what i dont get is, not even the time to text me!
He doesnt have any other Gfs.
What is he thinking?
2007-09-13 10:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not thinking. He doesn't have to, girls like you just let him have it, so its not a priority to maintain a relationship, just enough to put out to get his manly needs addressed. Lots of guys like this-----surely u know! A mans right there if hes truely into a relationship (like a fea, u can't get rid of him). This guy ain't cause he ain't.
2007-09-13 10:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is thinking that you are willing to give him sex after just 3 months and he has not had to work too hard to get it.
He is also thinking that as long as you keep putting out, why should he have to make any kind of effort.
He sounds like a loser. You sound confused about what a relationship is.
2007-09-13 10:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to be that hes very busy and not really into having a committed relationship right now. Try talking with him and telling him exactly what you expect out of a relationship. If he cannot provide you with that and meet your need then maybe its time to find someone that can.
2007-09-13 10:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on,you are 18 much younger than him.Find a guy closer to your age w/more free time. Once a week won't cut it if your 18 or 48.
2007-09-13 10:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by hotdogseeksbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are laying the ground work for your relationship, so if you are cool with seeing him 1x a week and not getting calls and text then fine.
If not then talk to him IN PERSON and tell him what you need, if he is willing to accommodate you and find a balance between work and you great. If not, then get out b/c it will not get better with time, it will get worse.
2007-09-13 10:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Modern Manners 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this bothers you....
He must know it bothers you and therefor think's you're very keen on him.
What you need to do is turn the tables, don't call him, when he wonders why you haven't called he'll call back and when you answer just play it cool.
Like you're experiencing, absense makes the heart grow fonder, and it's so so so true!
Just give it a try babe, don't be so avalible and he'll soon be at your feet!
2007-09-13 10:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying or hiding something and EVEN if he isn't..
Ask your self, Is this the way I deserve to be treated? Is he giving me everything I need?
Girl you can get better, even being by yourself and looking for someone new is better than you feeling miserable.
2007-09-13 10:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by SARAH W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should break up with him, but i have no clue what he's thinking. maybe he's just always been like that and no one ever told him...talk to him but if he still doesnt change, break up with him. even though you really like him ((which i'm assuming you do)) you should do whats best for you and get someone who will treat you better
2007-09-13 10:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by kaylieandkyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a boyfriend on the side.
2007-09-13 10:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ghimraab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋