Is having many female friends ok if u don't want to risk being hurt?

Question

I figure one way not to be crushed by love is to not fall in love and that can be accomplished by being alone, but being alone is also undesirable. I just want to know is it ok to have a few female friends that u can consider potential girl friends if you are talking to one and she just drops you like its nothing. I mean its nothing worse than having someone mean the world to you and then finding out that you mean nothing to him/her.

Answer 1

But thats the trick, see the reason all relationships end, is because the friendship ends. Its like that one friend you had for that one reason, then one when that one reason doesn't mean anything anymore your just not interest. Or better how you only had those one friends during school but not other times. This is sort of what happens alot with most peoples perceptions of how love should go. They base it soley on ether a shallow physical attraction or just for the sake of love, for just feeling for someone, powerful in its own right which is the danger to that one. Why this matter in your situation is that having female friends is the best darn place to start. You'll most importantly, at the least, get more comfrontable with them, as a friend(if you do it right now, most people f it up, but learning experience no matter what!) can be quite powerful, can make you find that relationship were you can trust that you won't have met nothing to her....