i used to like this guy but it never worked out.. we we're freshmen last year & both shy and never really talked.. but now im over him and kinda starting to like someone else.
now its a new year!!!! anyway the new guy i like is a freshman (im now a sophomore). and i have one class with him, uumm i was at the sotre like last week and he wa sthere too and he kept looking at me an dsometimes he would be in the same isle as me.. he also looks at me when i pass by him in the hallway..
btw we have a school dance tomorrow but idk if hes going.
so the question is, should i go for it, i dont want it to end up like it did last time with the other guy.
2007-09-13 10:12:55 · 46 answers · asked by umm hey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should just jump into a relationship. Yes, i think you guys are building a relationship and I know your excited but you need to cool down and go with the flow. If hes at the dance. FLIRT GIRL! Be yourself and be pretty. Talk to him as much as you can. Or if thats too much maybe say "hey" with a smile and walk right past him and make sure you butt looks awesome haha. Guys love the butts. Basically just listent to your heart and youll be fine.
2007-09-13 10:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go for it. Not all guys are useless and dissappointing. lol, but the same thing happened to me. I went out with a guy who was a jerk, and I was scared to go out with anyone else because I thought that the rest of the guys would be like that. But then I tried a year later, and this guy and I have been going out for a year now. So I say try it, and see how it goes. You never know what will happen! Good Luck!
2007-09-13 10:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by ashley j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest with you
you're still young, and even when you're older things don't turn out the way you expected it
now I'm 14...yeah, I'm young, but i understand that a LOT of relationships don't work out at this stage in life
even though we know that things don't work out all the time
sometimes it's worth the risk
who knows, you guys might end up getting married
go for opportunities that seem right for you
if you don't like the guy (I'm not trying to be mean here)
but hey, it's life....some people don't mix
Go For It
& Best Of Luck
2007-09-13 10:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cody F-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "go for it"? Talking to him at the dance? Flirting back? I'm not sure what you're asking....
The advice I received from my Mom and the advice I plan on giving my daughter, is let him come to you. You are a busy girl, with a life and friends. You don't need to go chasing some guy and calling him all the time. Guys seem to like the girls who make them work for it a bit more.
2007-09-13 10:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means you should go for it.So he's a little shy,sometimes shy people need a little nudge.He likes you,but he's afraid of being rejected,I know,because I used to be like that myself.
You want to go to the dance,then go.It doesn't matter at all if he's a freshman and you're a sophomore,what does maybe one year in age have to do with anything?Go girl,and dance one for me.
2007-09-13 10:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by old_ge.ezer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if you like him, just because a guy looks at you dose not necessarily mean that he likes you, but of corse we all know that. Some times its good to take chances, isnt that what life is about. I think yes because you should always meet new people and maybe if he likes you that would be good because one point in life is finding a soul mate, and you never know he might be the one. ( But i highly doubt it) after all your in highschool. But get out there and meet as many people as you can while you can.
2007-09-13 10:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. It's obvious he's interested in you. Don't think about the last guy. Why not ask him to go to the dance with you? He's probably very shy, especially if you're a year ahead of him at school. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2007-09-13 10:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go for it! You are really young....seriously date and meet and be friends with all the people you can before you get too old and decide to settle down! These will be some of the best times of your life and later on down the road whatever happens you will be able to look back and laugh. So seriously go for it! You will be glad you did!
2007-09-13 10:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lecia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my opinion, your problem truly was in the communication department. I don't see anything wrong with making non-committal conversation with him to gauge whether or not he's interested in you. I figure some guys are just shy, esp. in high school when the pressure of dating and such is truly and obsenely high.
Let him know you think he's interesting, just by saying "hi", making some general contact. Show him your sense of humor, share a common subject--anything to get him talking to you. You never know, he might just blurt out his interest in taking you to the dance in spite of himself.
NOTE: a guy staring is not necessarily indicative of actual, real, viable interest. a dude's stared at me for three consecutive months (and counting) and STILL hasn't gotten up the courage to say a word to me. then again, our circumstances never put us in enough contact to talk, so...maybe I should cut him some slack. or send him a "do you like me--yes or no?" note like they used to do in school. ha!
2007-09-13 10:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your friends and maybe you'll see him there.
You don't want to be the chaser....be chased!
You can be a little flirty but don't ask him out.
Other than that, nothing's wrong with you as a sophomore going out with a freshman...
Have fun! These are some of the best times of your life!!!
2007-09-13 10:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by JL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋