Should i tell my mom?

Question

my stepdad is always hitting me and my little sister and leving bruises.a few days ago i walked into my little sisters room to wake her up and i saw him touching her innapropriately.he threatened to hurt us if i told anyone and i dont want to upset my mom because shes pregnant.we cant go live with our dad because my stepmom doesn't want us there and i dont want my little sister to grow up in a foster home.by the way i'm 15 and shes 4

i could live with my bf-hes 23 but i don't know if that would be a good enviroment for my little sister

Answer 1

You need to go and see your counselor at school if you are afraid of him. They will see to it that you are protected and get help. Whatever you do you need to tell someone.

Answer 2

I am so sooo sorry. This absolutely breaks my heart. My advice- get involved in a church (a spirit filled church, not catholic), and tell your mom right after. Even if you don't believe in God, or you don't like Christianity, this is a wise thing to do. Why? Because if it is a good pastor, he or she will get the help you & your sister need. They'll tell the police (which is what should really be done), and GUARANTEED they will get you a place for you, your sister, AND your mom to stay. Please, don't go live with your boyfriend. I am begging you, get involved in a GOOD church, even if it's just until your family can get away from your stepdad... though I think you will find that God can really make you feel at ease in this situation.
I feel like a fool the way I answered your other question, I hope this answer helps. I'm going to go edit my other one. Also, i'm sorry to anyone who got offended when I said Catholic churches aren't spirit filled. Even if they were, they're notoriously terrible for this kind of situation.

Answer 3

Please tell someone you can trust. A teacher, a friend's parent or an abuse hotline. You cannot keep this a secret. Does your dad know what is going on in your life? Your little sister is a baby- she needs protection immediately. You know that if you reported this to the police- your step-father would be arrested and would likely go to prison. If getting him out of your life and protecting you and your sister is a goal for you- call the police at once. Please- don't get married to escape the situation. That is one of the worst reasons to get married. Don't let his threats keep you from making that phone call. Cowards always threaten people they think have no power. Sorry you are living in such a horrible situation. Please don't put off getting help for one more day. I will be praying for you and your sister. Now pick up that phone!

Answer 4

You need to tell your mom now that you are being abused and that your stepdad is touching your sister in an inappropriate manner. If she is pregnant, she is bringing another child into a dangerous environment. If you cant tell your mom, tell a teacher, doctor, anyone, just dont ignore it.

Does your mom know that your boyfiend is 23? He is a little old for you and could possibly be brought up on charges for being with a 15 year old.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Ok, first of all you're too young for a 23 year old bf. And you sould definatly tell your mom about this. If you dont want to tell her, tell someone else, like a guidance counceler or teacher. e has no right to do this to your sister, or to beat on either of you. He deserves to be in prison. Dont feel like you have done anything wrong by telling, he is the one doing wrong! Tell her. Today.

Answer 6

he would have major charges and jail time if u decide to turn him in or u can let him be free and then u will be hurt the baby and ur sis there is the police to help u and something called restriction order wich keeps people away if u are afraid of them or hate them now go and tell mom and tell the police dont be afraid of that man cuz he will hurt u more if u let him free. wow ur bf is 23 thats cool anyways

Answer 7

Tell your mother. It shouldn´t affect the baby and you can´t continue living with him. It is against the law for him to touch you and your mom probably didn´t know and will be relieved to find out before you get pregnant or something because of your stepdad. Make sure to tell her when he´s not there.
Do it QUICK before something worse happens!
If your mom doesn´t believe you go to the local police department and see if you can tell them.

Answer 8

hun what are u doing posting this question?, call the cops! he cant and wont hurt u. its worst if u guys dont get any help. explain to the cops everything he said, and what worries u. and the protection of ur little sister. u can also tell ur dad. i'm sure it'll piss him off so bad he'll punch his lights out. but u have to talk to somebody dont be scared.

Answer 9

First and foremost is to do the justice to your sister and yourself. Report the matter to the authorities.
Once this has been concluded, you may then consider taking the next path of your lives.
No one should live with fear and cruelty.
Relocate if you have to but please save yourselves.
Be strong and never give up, even when the odds are against you.
Take care and Best of Luck !!

Answer 10

If this is real tell your mother, relative you trust, or a school oficial. Your sister and you need to be removed from this child molester. They will talk to everybody to get to the bottom of this. They will find you a safe place to stay. Might even be with relatives.

Answer 11

First off, get rid of the 23 year old boyfriend. (I don't bame you for that; I blame the unstable home you're parents have given you). Second, tell your mom, and call the cops! Sorry, but that was probably not the first time he's touched your little sister. Do it for her...PLEASE!!!!!!!!