2007-09-13 10:38:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's no time limit.....when it feels right you go for it.Sometimes people are with someone for years they get marrid and it doesn't work out.Sometimes months and it works out great.You never know....every couple is different go with your gut.
2007-09-13 10:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by flexduty 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If only it were as easy as a simple equation to say okay it has been enough time.
You need to ask yourself why you are getting married- and b/c I love him is really not the answer. You need to ask yourself what are his faults and when you know what they are, can you live with it. Can you appreciate the faults that he has, like we do with our girlfriends, and not hope to change them. And of course what do you want to achieve in your life- b/c marriage should assist in that endeavor not slow you down.
That is a much better recipe that any "time" limitation.
2007-09-13 10:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Modern Manners 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you want to get married, why wait?
The amount of time you wait before marriage has nothing to do with success or failure. You either choose to do whatever it takes to make it work (i.e. self help books, counseling, mediation, etc.) or you choose not to. You can make that decision at any time.
2007-09-13 11:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by atomzer0 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good idea to date atleast a year before tying the knot. Some people think it's a good idea to wait longer but I think a year is sufficient. I would encourage you two to live together on a trial basis. That way, you will be able to tell if you can manage their living habits!!! Good luck!
2007-09-13 10:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Violation Notice 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say date a yr or 2 then be engaged for 2 yrs...by then you should be sure that you want to be married to that person.
2007-09-13 10:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not about the years it's about love ,you both being finacially set and ready to make this commitment to each other. it's not easy being married so think about this really good before you say "i do" . good luck.
p.s when you are ready your heart will tell you.
2007-09-13 10:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when the time is right,that is when you get married,it doesnt matter how long you have been together,you will know yourselves when the time has come to make the commitment,,xx
2007-09-13 10:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year would be about all I could handle. After that - sh1t or get off the pot.
2007-09-13 10:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not time limit, but minimum would be at least a year.
2007-09-13 10:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50...I think that is long enought...that way you know the person really good
2007-09-13 11:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋