Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

My sister and her boyfriend broke up recently. and my sisters boyfriend told me a bunch of stuff about why they broke up and who he dumped her for. Anyhow should I tell my sis about this stuff I know?

on one hand he told me not to tell, but on the other she should know about this stuff.

What should I do?

2007-09-10 16:53:27 · 24 answers · asked by Jeff J 1 in Singles & Dating

My step-sister sweet sixteen is this weekend and I have no idea what to get her. I want it to be something really good, but not to expensive. She is kinda of a girly girl, but she is really into basketball (because she plays for her school). She likes a lot of rap music and r&b. So any ideas will help. Oh the gift should probably be no more than 60 dollars.

2007-09-10 16:49:14 · 2 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family

some women agree to sex., but after starting they whisper softly "no "..some of them really mean it " they firmly state :STOP ! or NO ! ..but what about those who say "no honey hehehe" or - baby stop it tickles maybe im not ready yet ".....

dont we all know a girl /woman who says 'no' while we kiss-touch-caress. and she gets 'dis-appointed if we stop ? Ive even had a girl ask" why did u stop ? when i replied .."coz u said no ' ...she answered back.... I didn't really mean NO!

IS "NO" just a clever way to have a defense later if she gets busted by spouse or a bf..she'll be able to say " i told him no- but he keept going.."

Should the Law be changed ? once 2 ppl agree to sex - done deal ! no rape charges-if 1 partner has a change of mind'..

2007-09-10 16:48:19 · 8 answers · asked by billybadazz 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so heres the thing...awhile back my father took me to dinner and asked me how would you feel if I asked a lady out ...which wouldnt be that bad i guess...but my thing is while my mother was alive he treated her like **** ...name calling ...hitting ...i grew up in that..when i was older i fought him back i was a rebel against him...could be labeled as a bad daughter i guess since i threatened to kill him and fought back ..but i was protecting my mother..she fought back and left but then got sick ..came back and shortly later died of other reasons....i was kinda cruel...my father regrets how he treated my mom...i see it hear it in his voice but i feel like its to late...i told him to go out if he wanted to but i dont want to see it or it to be at family functions...ect...i'm not a very violent person..and tend to keep things inside dealing with him..but i dont know if i could take seeing him being nice to someone the way he should have been with my mom..am i wrong...am i being selfish

2007-09-10 16:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do u guys like it when a girl goes up to u and asks u out or do u like it when someone comes up and asks for them OR would u rather go up and ask the girl urself?

2007-09-10 16:47:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not just 'goodnight' or 'sweet dreams' whats somethin really sweet to say?

2007-09-10 16:43:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-10 16:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am a 32 yr old woman and my husband is 41.. We have 3 children.
I love to get on the net and do stuff like this or maybe just play games. Well , my husband HATES IT!!! He is so jealous of me on the computer it causes fights.
Please, dont tell me to teach him the computer. I have tried. He has no interest in it. In his mind being on the computer is nothing but a BIG PORN PARTY....
He is a redneck dummy.
I am so fed up with his bitching.
Anyone else have this problem or have a solution for it?

2007-09-10 16:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by stacie m 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 16:38:49 · 1 answers · asked by tiffany_skidmore 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-10 16:38:19 · 15 answers · asked by boyet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A couple has been dating for almost 2yrs, One discovers a trail of evidence that the other has been unfaithful,She even spoke with the other female, and both her BF & the other female deny any wrong doing, Yet that other female gets so defensive, its almost hysterical to hear how she tries to present herself as being Mary Poppins?Especially when she has a past with this guy as giving him a STD more then once!Without going into Gory detail about the evidence and how she knows they are lying, should she go with what she has in evidence or should she just leave it alone?

2007-09-10 16:38:02 · 9 answers · asked by Skinz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he runs the roads wi9th a 46 year woman who has a 15 year old daughter. his grandmother pays everything but child support. the grandson has a 5 year old daughter...any clues..anyone???? the grandmother takes up for him NO MATTER WHAT HE DOES...DRUGS..DRINKING ..WHATEVER...ANYONE

2007-09-10 16:36:07 · 10 answers · asked by princesswhitepaw 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 16:34:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my husband but he has treated me bad. He has cheated on me although I have been faithfull. He says he cheated because I verbally abused him. Whatever!! We are on the verge of a devorice.
I know I need time to heal because I'm hurt real bad.
However there is one thought that eases the pain: spending time with my ex. I havent seen him in 5 years but when I speak to him he makes me melt. I have known him scince I was 18 I'm almost 30 now. He has be emotionlay supportive of my bad relationships. We contact each other about 2 times a year. He is doing well for himself and was engaged. Howerever he broke his engagement after hearing from me recently. I wonder if its because he has alway had hopes of us being togeter. I'm nervous though because I had children on him and he alwasy says that he was supposed to father my children. I love my husband but he's a jerk but I have kids by him.
Should I take the chance and make a date with my ex or try to work it out with Mr. Unfaithfull

2007-09-10 16:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by LIN 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has like 9 saved searches. I don't know how this personals thing works. I should be worried huh? How do I approach him with this because he will accuse me of looking in his private email. What should I do?

2007-09-10 16:22:12 · 15 answers · asked by loom28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you came early from school but forgot to tell your mom that today was an early day and as soon as you walk in the livingroom you find your mom in the bed with another guy and another girl kissing and making out what would you do? PLEASE BE HONEST!!!

2007-09-10 16:21:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are planning a very small wedding with less than 35 guests. Only family and about 10 close friends. My fiance is inviting a friend who has a girlfriend and will have a baby with her by the time of our wedding.
The girlfriend went to the same high school we all went to but we only knew her name and weren't friends with her. We have never met her formally or spent time with them together- do we need to include her in the invitation our wedding is very small and on a tight budget?

2007-09-10 16:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by CarolinaAngel 2 in Weddings

Okay... so I am trying to decide on my wedding date. I have finally decided that it will be in June...but I don't know if it should be 6/6/09... or 6/5/10... The reason I'm thinking in 2010 is because I am in my junior year of my b.s. degree and will graduate april 2009, so I don't know if I will have time to plan it. But I'm in school right now, and I've been doing some extensive planning and research. I already have my guest list pretty much made, I have found some locations that I need to visit, I have a budget planned out, I have found invitations I like, and flowers and favors picked out... I also have a menu picked out... Do you think going to school full-time and trying to plan a wedding (while working 20ish hours a week) will work? Otherwise, if it was in 2010, I would have that full year of planning. Other things to consider is that I will be moving to Chicago from Michigan after I graduate...so I can either plan a MI wedding from MI or from Chicago... ask for more info

2007-09-10 16:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

husbands. Every time I think of her I can't help but think of depressing thoughts. I think she brings my husband in a bad mood too. She is like a dark cloud on a rainy day. She want's all attention on her and want's to treat us as though we are puppets.

2007-09-10 16:15:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you were younger, would your guardian "kiss your boo-boo better"? Did you feel like it worked or didn't it?

2007-09-10 16:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by Dominus 5 in Family

I've been really shy & have had some slight depression/social anxiety forever...comes from a history of overbearing, perfectionist parents who are highly accomplished & nearly impossible to live up to.

All that aside, I don't think I'm beautiful, but don't think I'm ugly. I've never had a b/f & I'm 21. Given that I've always been shy (& have recently been putting A LOT of effort into breaking out of the metaphorical "shell"), I still don't have a lot of friends and I'm obviously not the "clubbing" type (I'm pre-med).

How do I meet worthwhile guys? How about just good-looking guys who can be in a casual relationship (no, I don't mean sex)? Guys NEVER approach me...ok, well some do but they're usually *under* my league/the kind of guys who would never dream of approaching even ave-looking girls, yet think they have a chance w/ me b/c I'm shy. It kills my confidence...
I wanna meet a great guy, but I have like 5 friends or something....plus I don't wanna be the one to ask...

2007-09-10 16:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 4 years, dated for 2 before, he had a really bad temper. I always thought if I loved him more and was there for him more then I could help him get better. Well he has gotten worse over the years. (I'll spare you the boring details, let me know if I should add them). I do love him and we share two wonderful boys together. So I just don't want to give up. But i want to decide things together, and not be afraid to talk to him about things. Do you have any suggestions on what I might be able to do, so things are better between us? BTW he won't agree to go to counseling.

2007-09-10 16:13:20 · 16 answers · asked by justall4ofus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I feel jealous because they did everything right. They didn't have kids out of wed lock. They stayed married till death. I wish we could see more of that again but at the same time I'm jealous because I've made so many mistakes that they haven't. Puts me almost to shame.

2007-09-10 16:12:54 · 14 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, this may seem shallow, but im actually doing this to save a few girls' feelings. i really like all three of them actually but they all have their pros and cons. i selected the one i like best. what do i tell the other girls? i would still be interested in going out with them if this relationship doesn't last.

2007-09-10 16:12:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have many friends and I feel like school's a drag. I'm basically not confident with myself---that includes my looks. I feel like I'm never going to be the "pretty girl" and I don't have the highest grades. Teachers are nice to me, but I'm not confident. I sometimes feel like hiding. I know this sounds dumb, but I'm just feeling this way and wondering if it's NORMAL!!!

2007-09-10 16:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by updo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I both work very hard. He is at work early early in the morning so he is in bed by the time I get home from work. We don't have a day off together because either I am working on his day off or visa versa. I am a manager at Sears so I have a crazy schedule and he works long long days as a computer and electronic engineer. It is a brand new job for him. We haven't gotten intimate in about 3 weeks and can't seem to find the time. I tried waking him up when I got home tonight but that didn't work. Any suggestions on what to do?

We have a normally hot and heavy sex life but this new job of his is looking to damper that. We have been only together for 5 yrs and married for 3 1/2. Is there an end in sight when he gets settled in his new job? How long do I have to wait? AND NO I DON'T CHEAT ON HIM AND HE IS FAITHFUL TO ME.

2007-09-10 16:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by April K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 16:02:06 · 22 answers · asked by 2qt4u 2 in Singles & Dating

I know you shouldn't if you can help it but at what point does it become acceptable for you?

This is meant to be subjective to those that answer.

2007-09-10 16:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by seventhyearfalling 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend messed pretty bad up in the past. I found out from a friend and confronted her at the time. She fessed up, appologised, wishes she could take it back, and wants to move on.

I'd like to move on but I keep hearing inconsistant details about what she did and I'll ask her about it and she'll lie, deny it, or dodge it. She doesn't want to tell me everything... she wants me to accept the general nature of it and move on.

I want her to be completely 100% honest about everything that happened. I do love her but I need to trust her to continue with the relationship.

Months later It bothers me to think that there's still more to the story. It feels unfinshed. Everytime I bring it up, she gets mad and tells me to just move on. If I don't drop it starts a fight.

Do I accept it that it's been dealt with and move on? Or is my need for closure justified? I don't want it to happen again but I don't want to drive her away either. Any opinions?

2007-09-10 15:56:24 · 14 answers · asked by dia0s 2 in Singles & Dating

So i was gonna ask this girl to hang out but what would i follow-up with if she said "yes"? (also, she has a boyfriend so is this kind of cheating?)

2007-09-10 15:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating