Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

ok there is a guy im my algebra class that i really like and dont if he likes me, he asked me for help on friday for a question and ireally want to tell him i like him, please help me!!!

2007-09-10 13:26:26 · 12 answers · asked by katya k 2 in Singles & Dating

just like i said he likes me, i like him but i dont wanna ask him out. im waiting for him to do it but he isnt!! what should i do?? is there anything that i can do to move him along with the process????

2007-09-10 13:23:34 · 17 answers · asked by missunderstood123 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend and her companion have been together for 7 years and now live together. He has been separated for 10 years. They have known each other for several years. He still pays for half of the mortgage where his wife and teenage daughter is living even though he hasn't been there for 7 years. His reason for doing this is because his wife would not be able to maintain the house otherwise. He said one day she will move into a smaller house. I can't really say much about that other then damn!! I wish my ex would do that. He also pays 800 dollars for child support. There is always an excuse for the delay of the divorce. I think he is delaying the divorce because he does not want to pay his ex wife alimony. My girlfriend is confused about staying with him or not. Myself, well, I don't know what else to tell her. I personally don't think she should be with him. Sounds like too much drama and a lot of money going out. And, for you women out there be cautious dating men who are separated.!!

2007-09-10 13:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Misty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

After many years of not really knowing or associating with my real father, I feel the need due to our age for us to be close or try to have a relationship of some kind.
For years my mother made me beleive that he didn't care much about being my father and my step father had always been there for me, so I should just forget about a relationship with my real father.
My step father, couldn't ever handle even the mention of my real father, so if I have anything to do with my real father, my step father will not understand and will get upset. So I have to keep it a secret if I have anything to do with my real father which makes hard to build anykind of relationship, if you know what I mean.
How would you work on this if you where me.
I do desire very much to have my real father in my life, but live in fear that if my step father finds out he will think I don't care anything about him anymore and my real father has always known this that is why he has always kept his distance.

2007-09-10 13:22:49 · 1 answers · asked by tljmom 2 in Family

well today i was hanging out with a couple of friends and my friend daniel called me prude. i know what it means but i dont have a complete understanding. how am i suppose to take being called prude?

2007-09-10 13:21:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I argue, sometimes he will REFUSE to speak to me whatsoever, even to work it out. When I ask him if he thinks not speaking to me helps "work it out" (obviously the answer is no) he says he doesn't care, he's not talking to me and he'll stay mad at me for a long time. Just about anytime I try and tell him something like "hey, I want you to help w/ laundry more..." he immediately gets po'ed and says I don't like to do anything for him and he's a burden to me, which is not true at all but he will NOT listen!! How do I argue w/ my husband without it getting this out of hand???

2007-09-10 13:21:24 · 12 answers · asked by SadToday22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

any tips??? boys what make u drool and girls what makes them drool over u?

2007-09-10 13:20:53 · 45 answers · asked by Lauren M 1 in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with him. he ruined my self-esteem after becoming abusive and i know that if i stay with him he's going to cause even more damage to me.

we've broken up plenty of times and i always ended up going back. how do i find the strength to move on without needing him like a drug?

2007-09-10 13:20:34 · 37 answers · asked by Candicexx 5 in Singles & Dating

I know someone( my mom) who gets mad when you tell her the truth. She doesn't want to hear it when she is bossy or overbearing. But then she always ends up looking silly.She gets MEAN

2007-09-10 13:19:54 · 14 answers · asked by Brandy S 2 in Family

2007-09-10 13:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well here is another!!!!!

2007-09-10 13:16:00 · 16 answers · asked by tamburger2003 2 in Friends

I am seriously attracted to a guy from work, and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way, but we can barely talk to each other. We don't really work together, but we work in the same area and we are often pretty much alone in the back of the store. We do the whole across the room, walking by eye contact for too long thing, but I guess both us are too nervous to say anything. We talk briefly sometimes about work related matters, but there is always this strange vibe between us.

I just don't know how to handle this, it's been going on a long time and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me crazy! Don't just tell me to stop being shy or something, I need some real insight.

2007-09-10 13:14:22 · 11 answers · asked by melissa 5 in Singles & Dating

this guy liked me a lot and i like him a lot.
but i am shy around guys i like but other than that i am not shy at all. well now sinc ei am quiet around him i think he is starting to not like me anymore cuz he is very talkative and he never shuts up! lol. well he told his bestfriend that i was too "shy" his bestfriend is kinda like my brother i talk to him about heverything. so thats how i know he said i was too shy. i think he is loosing interest in me.so how do i not be shy around him and tomorrow at skool how can i flirt with him and stuff. plz help cuz i need to do something asap b4 he stps liking me completely!! i am really mad at myself for being so quiet around him, i actually had a chance with him ! :[

2007-09-10 13:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by <3 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband was a heavy drinker 3years ago when i got with him.but he stopped drinking so much.here it is 3 years later and hes drinking but hes hiding it from me. my son found a bottle under the couch and i just found one empty under the sink

2007-09-10 13:13:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want my husband to stop calling me! I love him but he's annoying me with his paranoia. I'm thinking of turning off my cell phone and all the phones in the house too. WOuld that be too cruel?
For more details please refer to my other question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgfKTmpiUYEQ90rIahNP1sDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070910154025AA46M9A

2007-09-10 13:13:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is getting married and her bridesmaids will be wearing black. Is it appropriate for me to wear a black dress-I am the mother of the bride?

2007-09-10 13:11:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-10 13:08:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going away with my boyfriend for the weekend to this apartment. It has a spa in it. It is our 2 year anniversary. He has chosen to cook tea and I want to decorate the bathroom into a nice romantic way. Any ideas?

2007-09-10 13:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that men (not all of course) never seem to forget how to beg for sex but forget other things like B-days & Valentines Day?
*no cursing/names pls.

2007-09-10 13:00:51 · 19 answers · asked by . 7 in Singles & Dating

he smokes, does drugs, takes weight loss pills-even though hes skinny enough.
he keeps telling me its cause he got caught up with the wrong crowd.
i have told him many times i do not like the fact he does all this ****. i told him i dont want to see him die. but he keeps talkign about all of this stuff.
THEN he tells me he sold some pills he bought, because i told him not to take them, and now he said his dad found them yesterday.
so nows hes lying to me about it.
i told him that he can do whatever he wants, just dont talk to me about it, because it just makes me upset.
he then went on talking like nothing happened. so i told him i was pissed off about this stil, so now he wont talk to me.
this is really pissing me off.
what should i do?

2007-09-10 13:00:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mom died and I fell like if i go on with my life that I will for get avbout her. Id ther anything I can do keep her in my heart so i wont forget about her?

2007-09-10 12:59:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why can't women just fess up to it and admit they don't want to pay child support either? I pay it, and I am not behind. Nobody wants to pay and if it's a woman that has to pay it's a sad story, but if a man has to pay it's justice..... just downright evil if you ask me. I think it's more about revenge and not wanting to pay, that's why people want the kids.... (it's about love too, but the child support clouds any opportunity at compromise!)

2007-09-10 12:57:02 · 15 answers · asked by What the heck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im a shy person.. and i have friends but i need more self- confidence.... im really afraid cause i will start high school soon and i want to make friends... last summer i went to this program in which we took care of kindergarten kids and i was really hoping that it would help me.. but instead i embarrassed myself cause i was the person sitting alone in the corner... usually i wait for people to talk 2 me first which is kind of a problem.. and when i did start to talk to the ppl there the next day i would do the same thing and wait for them to talk to me first... if i were someone else i would think that i was wierd lol... and im always afrad that ppl will play nice in front of me and then talk about me behind my back :(... but the over all thing i want to know is how will i gain some confidence so i can make new friends when i start high school?... plz help... thx.

2007-09-10 12:52:29 · 7 answers · asked by just unordinary:] 3 in Friends

Ive been going out with himfor so long that people have stoped trying to hide their gasps when i telthemmy boyfriends age ...or maybe i just dont notice them anymore .I think i felt really embarresed when people gasped that i started cuting them off in a nice way to stop myself geting embaressed now i just try notto mention his age ...but does it really look that bad??

2007-09-10 12:52:24 · 23 answers · asked by amot 1 in Singles & Dating

everyone is saying i'm nasty but i have better *** with him than any 24 year old and he is very generous i'm scared to introduce him to my family cause evryone thinks it's a money thing but i really like him what is a good introduction way to present him to my family without them and his friends thinking i'm some sort of golddigger

2007-09-10 12:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

women can either spend the rest of their life with their man, or when they divorce, they get half of the man's money. how can you deny that women get the better end of that deal?

2007-09-10 12:41:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm single, anyone available if so write me back and some way i can talk to you? and i looking for a guy over 6'0 tall. i want someone smart, funny, cool to hang wit, and someone i can relate to, someone i can to talk to about anything and everything in the world? if interested plz write back thanks lots........

2007-09-10 12:38:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked a guy out that i really like how do i get him to like me more as a friend

2007-09-10 12:36:47 · 3 answers · asked by aire.. 1 in Singles & Dating

It all started on Saturday and we got in a little arguement and I ended up hanging up on him. He got pissed and went to bed. So the next day, he wouldn't answer my calls and then I finally get a text from him saying that I should stop trying because I deserved better then him and he was lying to me.

So last night after several calls and texting, he told me a few of his "lies" and one included him telling me that he wasnt a virgin and that he has been with other women besides me. He also let me know that he has "sisterly feelings for his ex" and that I need to respect that. I was ok with that as long as they were ONLY friends. She lives in ny.

He is a little bit older then me and before we talked last night I felt like we were almost at the same maturity level, but now that he has showed his real self I feel a little immature and unsure about myself.

I have lost all trust in him and I dont know if it will come back. I need other peoples opinions on if I should stay or go?

2007-09-10 12:36:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my guy friend just a car a few weeks ago and we always hang out on sundays and befor when he didnt have a car i would take him places and let him drive my car but now sicnd he got his new car he doesnt call much anymore and he blows sundays off sometimes thats not even what iam like mad at we used to hang out mon-sun and now that he has the car i get to see him on aa few sundays for a few hours why did he do that.i try to not let it bother me but it hurts that he does that i try to talk to him but he dont really listen im starting to think that maby i will never find a true guy that wont use me like this one guy he says he doesnt how can i get over him.

2007-09-10 12:30:00 · 1 answers · asked by sweet_smile872000 1 in Singles & Dating