Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

I am shocked that I found my husband have a profile on richromances.com by chance. I am very disappointed. Please help! what should I do to deal with this. I love my husband....help

2007-09-10 15:51:44 · 15 answers · asked by susanloveal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not sure how much the item cost but i bet it was over $100. He isnt a bad guy he is just 18 and still going through the wild stage. I know it is not cool, but I dont think he deserves a criminal record for this. What should he do? he has a court date coming up. any story he can tell the judge or write the manager an apology letter may help. or do free work for them or something??? I dont know. Please help.

2007-09-10 15:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Ummmm 2 in Friends

My fiance is a huge football fan. We dont have cable where we live wayyyy out in the country. So we came to stay at my mom's...ya know for the whole Monday night football thing. Well, her ESPN is out so he asked if he could go to the Sports Bar to watch it. I told him that we had both promised that we wouldn't go to bars without each other due to some things in the past. This certain bar is one where he was known to pick up women before we were together.
I really don't want to be a b***h about it so I told him to go and have fun. We've been having difficulties involving finances, children behavior in school, and a miscarriage leaving me feeling rather bad about myself.
Now that he went I'm feeling sooo bad about it. I know I told him to go...but I really didn't want him to, and he knew it. I'm gonna try really hard not to pout about it tomorrow but I know it'll be hard.
How do I keep from being a b***h about it when I agreed, even though we had agreed not to do that??

2007-09-10 15:45:05 · 15 answers · asked by Tina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 15:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If guys think she's pretty w/make-up....And I think she's pretty in the morning w/out make-up....Who is right? Me or the guys...Remember this question is from my guy...not me

2007-09-10 15:42:01 · 19 answers · asked by karens lovinlife 6 in Singles & Dating

Everytime i smoke some pot she goes crazy as if i cheated on her. come on i'm addicted to the street, what can i do? i love her but why do she care about what i'm doing and my health and shizz?

2007-09-10 15:40:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jonathon R 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. We have both been thru a bad marriage in the past. He says that he wants to marry me but hasn't yet really made a step towards going thru with it. I know that he is the one for me. He is the love of my life, my soul mate and I will love him no matter if we get married or not but I would feel much more secure about his feelings towards me.

2007-09-10 15:38:42 · 18 answers · asked by scott p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it getting pretty common or is it rare?

2007-09-10 15:37:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...about my bro hitting his gf...even though i don't like her?

2007-09-10 15:36:12 · 11 answers · asked by Chicago 4 in Singles & Dating

They dated for several years when they were young (highschool- early college). She has contacted him occasionally through email during the past 5 years that he and I have been married. Every time she emails him I have written or called her asking her to stay out of our lives. The last time she wrote I called her and asked her why she insisted on contacting him in spite of me asking her not to... she was nasty to me and hung up the phone on me. I want to set this jerk straight. We have 2 young children and we are happy, I just wish I could live life without having to hear from her. HELP!

2007-09-10 15:34:48 · 23 answers · asked by Jade K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but not impossible, just a challenge? without him losing interest?

also, if your playing hard to get, how can you talk to him for the first time w.out seeming really interested (date wise)..?

like, guys what makes you want a girl in this respect?

thnks!

2007-09-10 15:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by rinn 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend are in a ldr for 7 months now almost 8. She tells me she wants to be with me and she loves me but she is sad that Im far and that she has to wait to see me. I love her more than anything and I want her to be happy. I send flowers and care packages all the time to help make the wait easier. But I can feel how sad she is and I dont want her to be sad. Do I let her go or continue work things out with her and find ways to help her get through the wait?

2007-09-10 15:30:41 · 2 answers · asked by JustMe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

his 50's started talking to me,he asked me my age and all this personal info. and he was like you should come to my house and ride my 4 wheeler or some crap like that ive never meet the guy and he then said mabye you and my son can hange out at his house i,so make a long story short he wanted me to come over to his house later i just then went into our car but i never told anybody this should i tell somebody like my parents or the cops it like scared the crap out of me.

2007-09-10 15:30:34 · 9 answers · asked by codye 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't take it any longer. Seeing him not ever have a girlfriend, or even kiss a girl, i don't think, drives me nuts. What should he do? He's not hideous, but very shy. He won't ever initiate anything. It's definitely time for him to become a man. Girls would you have a problem with a 23 year old virgin?

2007-09-10 15:26:37 · 36 answers · asked by Chara Pointshot 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 15:25:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in what ways do you like a boy to court you?

2007-09-10 15:25:30 · 1 answers · asked by spidey 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend has this guy in our P.E. class, and they flirt together for about half the time. Just today I asked him if he liked her more than a friend, and he didn't have an exact answer. She is waiting for him to ask her out, but he wants to remain friends. What should she do? She really likes him.

2007-09-10 15:23:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just had a make over.

2007-09-10 15:23:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she likes to leave them open because she says it lets the cold air come in. well everytime she walks into her room with a towel she forgets to close them. she lives in an apartment complex with many windows facing her window only a few feet apart. it turns out a guy in our school lives right across. i don't know who but he emailed me wanting money. $300 otherwise he said he'll show pictures of her saggy boobs to the whole school. I didn't believe him but their was an attachment with her fully topless. What should I do? Should I tell her? just in case there are people that don't believe me here is the picture i was emailed:

http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2817931090102099492KpNDCk

of course i covered her face and chest... i don't care about the rest cuz nobody will recognize her

2007-09-10 15:23:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have lost one of my brothers,my mother,father,aunt,boyfriends,grandparents,friends....I have had a lot of lossess in my life, but I have unanswered questions I need to know

2007-09-10 15:21:24 · 1 answers · asked by sophie763 1 in Friends

I've liked the same guy for 5 years now, and we've been going to different schools for a little over two years. We were really good friends when we were younger, but I would feel intrusive calling him "just to talk" now because he's really busy with sports and advanced classes.

Plus I'm not sure what to say if I were to talk to him... Kinda pathetic considering we used to be close friends...

I don't want to be annoying, but I don't want to lose his friendship either... (Right now I'm not looking for a "relationship" with him because all the other high school relationships I've seen haven't worked out, and most end bitterly...)

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks!

2007-09-10 15:18:52 · 5 answers · asked by swimmer2 2 in Singles & Dating

im thinking of unity sand, instead of a unity candle, but i dont know how I would seal the container without a lid.

2007-09-10 15:18:36 · 5 answers · asked by Leslie W 1 in Weddings

what do u think is hot in a girl??

2007-09-10 15:18:33 · 5 answers · asked by cupcake 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone know of any good sites? I've googled it myself but they all seem like total crap. Anyone have any experience (i.e. success) with a site? Thanks!

2007-09-10 15:14:49 · 20 answers · asked by justpeachee22 5 in Weddings

2007-09-10 15:14:44 · 40 answers · asked by chrsgnw 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 15:12:42 · 20 answers · asked by winter_smile 1 in Singles & Dating

well how do I stop bein so insecure bout myself.i always think im fat and ugly. what should i do i always think bout starving myself. i need megga advice!!!!!!!!

2007-09-10 15:12:17 · 10 answers · asked by martha s 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are paying for everything and hence we are on a strict budget. If we give a final head count and more people actually show up than expected, we will be charged by the end of the night by the country club. I'm concerned because there are old college friends of my fiance who show up to events uninvited because they consider it an occasion of "free food and booze" and get trashed. He has already talked to some of his friends about how we don't want to get screwed over with extra costs, but I have a feeling that many people will still try. Any suggestions or tips?

2007-09-10 15:10:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we have 5 kids 3 under 2 and i stopped my career to stay home and raise them. but i keep hearing him complain that he's the only one making money and all i do is stay home and hang out with kids all day while he works and pays the bills. and trust me we are busy all day with parks, shopping,etc... so now i got a job and now his comments are now i have to cook and clean and take care of everything cuz your working. i make meals for the whole week so they can be heated up for dinner and they eat lunch at daycare, and i still come home and do cleaning, baths, etc... i want to work cuz i need to get out for my own sanity even part time. so how do i make this family work together, also the babies love daycare cuz the kids and activitys they do, so i don't feel thier getting ignored, and i'm able to talk to adults for a couple hours. is that being selfish?? i don't even drink or anything so i have no outlets help

2007-09-10 15:09:55 · 11 answers · asked by amber l+5KIDS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am just completely falling for this man, and I know it is wrong, but I am looking for every way possible to justify this situation.

Is there anything positive about being with a married man? I don't know what is wrong with me, but I just really feel a connection with him.

2007-09-10 15:08:28 · 49 answers · asked by lala2007 2 in Marriage & Divorce