...about my bro hitting his gf...even though i don't like her?
2007-09-10 15:36:12 · 11 answers · asked by Chicago 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's my big bro
2007-09-10 15:36:35 · update #1
Yes I think you should call the cops if you see that happening. I don't really see what else you can do.
2007-09-10 15:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not right for anyone to hit anyone smaller than them, no matter who they are. You should tell your family first and have them on your side before confronting him. He might listen to you but since he is hitting another woman, I doubt he will respect your opinion. If you have backup when confronting him, he might listen a little closer. Show him pictures of what happens when woman get abused and the statistics. Tell him he is NOW ONE OF THEM. Domestic abuse is the most common cause of murder in young women. Even if you don't like her, I would never put that on anyone. I was abused by my ex and he eventually raped me and scarred me for life. All because I "thought I loved him". I only realized I stayed so long because I felt I had no one else to turn to and no where else to go. I depended on him. I will not do that again. Your big brother might have to learn the hard way...with a jail sentence. I hope for his sake that it doesn't come to that. If he really loves her, he wouldn't hit her. If you really love him (it doesn't matter if you hate her) you will do everything in your power to save her life and his reputation.
2007-09-10 22:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by April K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might say something to him.....or tell his gf that it isn't worth her getting hit. I'm sorry girl but if your big bro is gonna do that to her once hes gonna do it again and again and again until somebody says something or the girl leaves him. Take a stand and tell him that you think its wrong.
2007-09-10 22:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by audiek08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man should never hit a woman no matter how mean and hateful they are. It is just not proper. My ex b/f hit me one time. I hauled off and slugged him and told him to get out of my house. I dare my husband to hit me. Do you and your Brother realize how much trouble he can be in for abusing her? all she has to do is go to the police with bruises or wounds and your brother is in jail. Doesn't take much now adays. No matter if she deserves it or not.
2007-09-10 22:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a women we should be against domestic violence. Always!! even if you dont like her. Consider you consequences, because its no fun when the rabbit gets the gun! Meaning: what would you do if it were you?
2007-09-10 22:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Shananigan Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um hello, get off ur lazy *** and tell that girl she doesn't need to take that **** from ur brother. and ur brother needs to get his *** kicked, get her away from him. knock some sense into her thick head if you have to.
2007-09-10 22:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like your brother's behaviour, tell him he is wrong. it's not important whether you like the beated person or not. your brother's behavior is important for you
2007-09-11 00:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by dattusing p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should --- i believe she does not need to make a complaint now --- report him to the police and see what they can do ---- best wishes
2007-09-10 22:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop, does the girlfriend not like it, or are they playing around?
2007-09-10 22:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeehhh...yeah?? hello hes abusing her...no matter if you like her or not it would kinda be nice if you did something about that..
2007-09-10 22:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋