2007-09-10 15:14:44 · 40 answers · asked by chrsgnw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if she has sex with you after a week or 2 shes a slut thats all i can say
2007-09-10 15:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
What you should do is, be very very cautious and careful because you don't want to ruin your relationship. A week is a pinch short of moving to 2nd base, usually in a normal healthy heterosexual relationship, 3-4 weeks is when you move to 2nd. However, worry not, because 3rd and home run are shortly afterwards. Home run might take a while, but not 3rd. This is all because of normal psychological adjustments to healthy bonding.
You guys within a month will be having sex, just make sure it's very passionate, with lots of foreplay and not just boom boom, wham bam, BAM all the way in and hard and thank you ma'am, because that will make her not grow to like the experience.
If she likes it, she'll always want it, which is your goal for the first time.
Take it slowly at first and when it happens, she'll want it at least 10-15 times a month, if not more.
Good Luck!
2007-09-10 15:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating a girl for a whole week and u are already asking when you will have sex or when u should try to get to second base, WOW? Obviously, u r very young if you are asking this question! The answer is......you will have sex with her whenever she is ready to! As far as getting to second base, that is something that u need to talk to her about. If u can't have a conversation about things of such nature with her, you are probably too immature to be doing so! Good luck!
2007-09-10 15:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by stephsummers123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A week is tooooo soon. You should at least wait a couple months, to make sure that she wants to go to that extreme with you. Dating is NOT just to have sex, as some guys think, but it is a trial period to see if you get along with a girl good enough, to marry her.
Let the girl decide when she is ready for sex, or you could be charged with statutory rape.
The end result of dating is marriage, not sex.
2007-09-10 15:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex is determined by her. But you can be the determining factor...play your cards right playa. Make her feel comfortable and in control. Be sincere and honest. DON'T BEAT AROUND THE BUSH (no pnu intended). Show interest and desire and if shess with it you'll both score; if not go for at least 2nd base. Second base should be a given.
2007-09-10 15:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by docphi03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, how old are you? Mature adults don't use the term "2nd base". Therefore I must assume you are like 14 and tell you to wait a few years before you start having sex. We don't need any more geniuses such as yourself in this world.
2007-09-10 15:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Momof2grrls 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
WHAT??
Are you dating just to get some sex??
Gotta cool your jets, here...
SEX is the LAST part of the equation, just after being a considerate, trusting, reliable partner, and NOT so you can get a "trophy", and leave her for the next "piece of meat" on the list, after telling everyone how easy was last "5lut"..etc....
No wonder there are so many girls thinking ALL MEN ARE PIGS....
...but...gotta admit they have their reasons....
--(too bad for the rest of us)--
Try being a MAN for a change, and you'll have more than sex...
G'd Luck!!
2007-09-10 15:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well. as far as a week is concerned. its kinda dependent on your age. you're probably under 18 if you have to ask this question... mm ima guess you're between 7th and 11th grade. in which case you're moving a bit fast towards sex. 2nd base (which my people consider mutual masturbation) is also a bit fast. but if you want to, just put your hand a bit in her area, or maybe move her hand close to your's. if she goes for it. woot. if not, then give it another week or so. as far as sex goes, wait at least a month i believe. just try and keep her comfy-- good luck brah
2007-09-10 15:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It will happen when its meant to happen, it'll just...happen lol...and do you really like this girl for who she is? or are you just eager to get laid? ..hm... that wont get you very far in ur love life if thats the case. and you havent really gotten to 2nd base yet...maybe you should wait a while longer to have sex. and seriously, get to know her first, its only been a week, obviously ur not an adult, ur probebly like 13/14. not mature enough yet for sex buddy. if all you want is to do her, instead of actually getting to know her and liking her for who she is, then wow, have fun getting ur butt dumped like THAT! thats just disrespectful.
2007-09-10 15:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't gotten to "2nd base" then worrying about when to have sex is rather premature.
If you are both non-minors, have sex when you both feel the time is right...otherwise, wait until you're mature enough to deal with any repercussions.
2007-09-10 15:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried just explaining to her that the only reason you are dating her is to have sex. She probably doesn't understand your thinking. Clarify things and it will all work out for the best.
2007-09-10 15:37:13 · answer #11 · answered by Info_Please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋