what should i do if i feel that i been abused by the other person because of my being helpfullness?

Question

this is about financial,my friends though that i easily listening for what problem they have and i give amount after talking. my question is if ever i don't give any money cause i need this for our monthly allowance.
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Answer 1

Tell them you thought you where friends and friends don't take advantage of ones kindness and if you ever want to be friends again they owe you an apology and promise to never act that way forwards you again.

Answer 2

Everything has a limitation, even friendships. It's ok to help your friends with their financial problems, but sometimes you also have to save some for your personal needs or for emergency purposes. Honestly tell them that the money you have left is already budgeted for your week's allowance and that the the one you lent them last time was just an extra money.

Answer 3

There is such a thing as being too helpful. Sometimes people need to figure things out for themselves and then you don't feel abused....I went through something like this where I was helping my sister's friend who was evicted she was to look for work but after living with me for a month she looked for a job one day......the rest of the time she was on the computer looking for men I had to tell her to find somewhere else to live because I could not support her I had to take care of my son.......

Answer 4

Keep being helpful whether they like it or not because you have to answer for yourself and what your actions are come judgement day.

Answer 5

I think what you might be searching for if I understand your question is "co-dependent" or being too nice. search that word out and study it .

Answer 6

Stop being helpfullness.

Answer 7

try to talk to to them tell them i didnt mean to say that if it hurt u and say ur sry

Answer 8

i dont understand your question