I can't take it any longer. Seeing him not ever have a girlfriend, or even kiss a girl, i don't think, drives me nuts. What should he do? He's not hideous, but very shy. He won't ever initiate anything. It's definitely time for him to become a man. Girls would you have a problem with a 23 year old virgin?
2007-09-10 15:26:37 · 36 answers · asked by Chara Pointshot 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Y'all seem confused. I am 23. But I am not the one who's still a virgin. Yes I did through my virginity away early, but whatever. More or less it's not about the virginity. I just want him to get out there and get more social. He lives in New Jersey and has no friends. All of his friends are up here.
Oh an guys, thanks for the stereotypical gay jokes. I didn't feel those coming from across the globe.
2007-09-10 15:44:12 · update #1
i think he shouldn't be your problem at all... so what if hes still a virgin.. is that a problem??? y make it ur poroblem??? its his problem ..right??? so let it be... u can't solve his problem... he has to solve it all by himself... so next time... stick to ur own problem...
2007-09-10 15:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by skeptic 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay, first of all. Who are you to decide when he should lose his virgnity? Maybe he doesn't want to throw it away on just anyone. I can definitely see what he's doing but if you get in the way, you'll ruin his plan. He's not missing out on anything. The only things he's missing out on is ruining his life. So just leave him alone. It's actually great to wait and hold your virginity for the one you are meant to be with. So just leave him alone. It's not like you're going to be there when he has sex. Why would you want to and why would you want to know if he did have sex? Let him live the way he wants to live. He'll make whoever it is he marries feel very special.
2007-09-11 06:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Light/Dark Thinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew a 35 year old virgin once and he was HOT! Same thing, very shy but then all of a sudden lots of girls started to throw themselves at him and virgin no more. Leave it alone, some girl will make the moves on him sooner or later.
2007-09-10 15:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by April First 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
haba!!! you don,t have to worry about him at the age of 23yrs old still a virgin he knows what is good for him for the fact that he is shy and does't have a girlfriend definitely can't do any harm to you or him. or maybe he is a christian beliver type. and geeting near to a girl who is not your wife is a sin.
i don't know whether u are a christian or not , while not accept jesus christ as your personnal lord and saviour and avoid the things of this world anything sin, leave along when he is mature enough to date, he will. i pray God should help you
2007-09-10 21:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by james p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing you lost your virginity at age.....6? what is so wrong about people still being virgins at 20 to 25 to 30? this world is so messed up that people think its right to loose their virginity at 13, oh right just give it away as if its not special, i think its rude that youre denying him as a man, so if he went to go bang a girl that makes him a man? i dont understand how it drives you crazy, its his problem not yours
2007-09-10 15:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A real woman would like a man that did not have sex. So, your friend did not have sex yet so what. When it time he will get his nut off but as his friend give him some tips on how to asks a girl on a date, like taking a girl to a coffee shop or going on a lunch date.
2007-09-10 15:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with a 23 year old virgin!!!! Personally I think that's great......Maybe he doesn't want to have sex maybe it just doesn't appeal to him. And if he does have a problem than he does need to learn how to be more outgoing and he has to show everybody his awesome personality.
2007-09-10 15:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cheyenne S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most women would be very happy. My girlfriend married a 25 year old virgin and they are still happily married.
2007-09-10 15:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound very concerned for your friend, but I think you're working on the wrong thing. Help him get over his shyness. Let him be the judge of when he looses his virginity.
2007-09-10 15:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
depends what chicks you're asking bro.
l'd say, you SERIOUSLY gotta shake that dude up. like, force it on him. surround him more and more with girls. just open him up. think of him not as a boy, but as a closed flower. it takes a bit of time for the petals to unfurl and the blooming to begin. haha, that really sux though. well i'm 17 and i'm proudly a virgin, and denied every try i've had on me (even though its lost me like 3 gf's from it = / sex ain't the whole world. remember. i'm waiting til i know i could afford to take care of a kid (got MAJOR spermm count = / = /
2007-09-10 15:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Take him to a club. Horny girls will dance all over him. All you have to do is get 2 girls to come home with you and him. Hopefully they will connect, they will make out at least. So that covers the kissing. And if he gets lucky he will have sex with her, and if he is a LITTLE bit lucky he will get her number and they can hang out again some other time.
2007-09-10 15:33:15 · answer #11 · answered by Southern Comfort 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋