Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

2007-09-10 12:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 59. My "partner" (whom I love as a very good woman) is 60. Age is no matter, I think.
But I have no physical desire for her, and can't perform!
Advices? (doctors and psychologists only please: I DO love her and want to please her)

2007-09-10 12:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by just "JR" 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are planning on ordering thank you (TY) cards with an imprinted quote, but will be handwriting our TYs specific 2 the gift/guest. However, we had a cultural wedding reception with specific events that took place during the reception. My parents told me earlier that my husband & I would not have our own speech as the two dads would have a toast & then we would be going table to table toasting to all the guests & thanking them. During the dinner, my dad told me in five minutes, I should get up & make a speech. I'm pretty sentimental & like taking time to really craft what I want to say 2 be meaningful. I spent the next five minutes wracking my brain & my husband's brain. We thanked everyone for coming & that they were all here because they've shared special moments with us. My family really came together 2 make everything happen & I regret not specifically thanking them then as I really wanted everyone at the reception 2 know. Is it tacky to have a special insert in with the TY cards?

2007-09-10 12:19:50 · 5 answers · asked by yup 1 in Weddings

Im 14 and my boyfriend will be 17 on the 19th. We have been together for almost 2 years, and we have gotten through a lot together. For a while I thought that we would probably have to break up, because we were fighting quite a bit and stuff. Then, we took a break and it only lasted like 2 days. We talked everything over and we have been doing really good ever since then. We are really close and stuff, and after all that it would be really weird for us to break up...I mean we know everything about each other, and my parents like him and his parents like me, everything is great. So how long do u think that we could last honestly? I love him to death, and I know that he cares about me a lot.

2007-09-10 12:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by kw_711 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 12:19:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She wants details, I'm just going to work and maybe have a beer at the bar one evening after work.

2007-09-10 12:16:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 12:15:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im thirteen.eigth grade.Bcup boobs,small ***,i get attention from, guys but not the kind i want,like im the girl who they`ll hook up with and do things with,but wont ask out,whats wrong with me?

2007-09-10 12:14:08 · 1 answers · asked by Dee bella<3 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband's family have been treating me bad for a long time when my hubby is not present. Everytime I tell my hubby he say's that it cannot be true and that I am over reacting. My in laws treat my hubby's bro wife nicely and my hubby says that they treat her well because she always telephones them etc., but I do not. sOMETIMES MY HUSBAND TELLS ME NOT TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THEM BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING HE CANNOT DO, he says that the only thing he can do is argue with them but then they will never speak to him again, he says how i would have been the cause for a family break up.Sometimes when I complain he even tells me never to speak to his family again, making me look like the enemy. please give me advice

2007-09-10 12:12:00 · 16 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

That is, some men---why do they feel the need to be abusive?

2007-09-10 12:11:52 · 11 answers · asked by Apryl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 12:10:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married for 4 years. He's really sweet, well almost always sweet. We met at the park, he was jogging, I was doing yoga. He is obsessed with exercise. We used to exercise together, however, In February, I got a new job. It's been really stressful. I work long hours. I've gained 22 lbs since I've got my new job. Which I know is horrible, but I'm trying to work on it. I guess I eat when I'm stressed.....and I haven't had time to exercise. Anyways, I'm going to try to lose some weight! But my husband is being insensitive. He is constantly complaining about my size. I'm 5'6" and since my weight gain.....ranging around 140-150. He calls me names "porker, marathon eater" ect. I'm no way fat! However, I'm not really fit anymore, I got some flab on my stomach. I'm thinking he never really like me for me, if he cares so much about my size. Is this normal husband behavior?

2007-09-10 12:09:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I've known one of my best guy friends for about six years now, and we're always sort of flirting, but that's just the kind of guy he is. I've helped him through a lot and he's always been there for me. Recently, he's gotten a bit more friendly, if you know what I mean--grabbing my hand, putting his arm around my waist, finding any way to touch me, really. The other night, we were hanging out (I was facing the computer, fully focused on the screen, and he was on the couch against the wall faced towards me), and he tells me I should stop being boring. So I turn the chair around, and ask him if he knows anything better to do. Right then, out of nowhere, he gets up, stands over me, looks right into my eyes, and kisses me! We made out for at least half an hour, and that night I realized I had true feelings for him. He told me that he only thought of me as a "hook-up", but was really attracted to me and loved me as a friend. Is there any chance of him asking me out, ever?
-Hali

2007-09-10 12:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by haliangel123 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 12:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by p@nKiss 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is a police officer and why'll on the job he cheated.what can happen?

2007-09-10 12:05:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 12:04:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well the thing is, my teacher was all nice to me and stuff and would let me do anything. She'd also help me out on stuff from another class. Well she got an intern, and that's when she started being a b*tch towards me. Anytime the intern was around was around, she was like that towards me, or anytime one of her teacher friends was around, she'd act like that. Well I guess her teacher friends started accepting me because she started acting nice to me around them, and even they'd speak to me. I guess he didn't want anyone knowing that she's nice to me or even hardly speaks to me..apparently I'm just a loser to her. I'm a good student, I do all my work and stuff, but I'm just not the rich popular type, but I am popular around the average crowd. Well this year, I saw her once outside, and she said hey to me in a nervous voice, then kept looking at me as I walked by her. What's up with the way she was acting all last year and why would she speak to me after all that?

2007-09-10 12:03:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what is a boy sign when they hug you? What is a boy's sign when you hold hands with them? What does it mean when a boy kisses you? What does it mean when a boy talks to on the phone till 3:30a.m. What does it mean when he massages your back and your neck.

2007-09-10 12:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ran into my ex in our old university town for the first time in 3 months since he broke my heart. we dated for 3 years and he broke up with me over the phone after he graduated, he had met another girl too and kissed her, but they arent together now but it still hurts that he would move on so fast. he has tried sending me messages but i just get mad at him for cheating. he wanted to get together when we were going to be in this town at the same time but i said we dont have anything to talk about unless you want to apologize to me.he said he misses me and isnt over me yet, but doesnt want to get back together because we arent right for eachother. it breaks my heart.we fought at the bar then the next day he emailed me saying i looked good and he wanted to kiss me but we were fighting. how can you love somoene yet not want to be with them? I feel so worthless, like i ask myself whats wrong with me that he doesnt wanna be with me? seeing him made me realize how much i miss and love him.

2007-09-10 11:59:19 · 4 answers · asked by 47skittles 3 in Singles & Dating

anymore. How do I get him to understand that we need help each other when times get tough as oppose to him "shutting down"? I am a talker, a lover, I need affection when I am stressed... he wants to play video games, study and basically be left alone. We have two wild young boys that are just about to drive us both crazy. Again He leaves it all up to me to handle....

I just wish he could see things my way. I feel like Im running on empty and the person who Im supposed to count on most is MIA when things get tough.

Am I the only one who married into this kinda deal? Is my hubby being a jack *** or are most men like this? I just dont know anymore!!!

2007-09-10 11:59:08 · 20 answers · asked by Just trying to make it 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and I want to marry him and he wants to marry me. But nothing yet. When we first went out we knew that we wanted to get married and now he says it but tells me it takes time and i know it does but everyone around us is getting engaged and married. i hate it. i guess i am jealous of what i dont have and i hate seeing people around us having it all. his cousins are in their 20s and they are either married already or engaged and i dont understand why they have it and i dont. what makes them more special then me. i know this sounds selfish and everything. i just love my boyfriend very much and would love to marry him. i just dont get why everyone around us is doing it and we arent. he told me he doesnt want me to settle for a cheap wedding or lousy wedding ring. which is amazing. i am just starting to think the wedding isnt coming anytime soon.

why do some people get married at age 17 and others have to wait til age 35??

2007-09-10 11:56:51 · 17 answers · asked by litlmizbeautiful 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 11:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What was it that made it really memorable? Did you go somewhere? Did you make a tradition you still do? (i'm trying to figure out what i'm going to do with mine.)

2007-09-10 11:55:58 · 6 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, I don't know him at all, and we've never spoken because he just came to my school from private school, (although he lived in the same Washington town before) but anyway, we make eye contact, and I really want to get to know him, or go out. The problem is, a lot of other girls like him. So I really need help with talking to him. I mean I can't just ask him out, can I? thanx!

2007-09-10 11:55:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it really depends on the guy, but I'm just curious. Because for some reason it seems like guys prefer curvy over fit (by curvy I mean not really fit, just kind of average size). Why is that? I'd like a guys opinion (girls can answer too though, 'cuz I know ya'll will :p)

2007-09-10 11:55:11 · 18 answers · asked by Shortii 2 in Singles & Dating

I think about my first love, even after 38 years

2007-09-10 11:53:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 11:52:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want a long relationship. im sick of having relationships for only a couple of months. i want to get serious and have a long relationship.
im talking to this guy and im sure we will begin to go out soon....but how can i make it last? i always end up screwing things up. help please!

2007-09-10 11:52:38 · 21 answers · asked by blondebaby11 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for last 5 years incl. 2 years living together.. Now I'm not attracted to him anymore while he's still crazy for me.I even forgot how he looked like when I travelled alone for a few months and didn't miss him at all..
He may be a great marriage material with great job, endless affection for me and reliable personality etc but we have different vision for the future. I want adventurous life while he's conserve and doesn't like activites.
but he's my best friend and we're living together and all my social circle in this country has been developed with him.
Practical things like shared flat contract etc makes it difficult as well. and I don't know how much it would hurt him if I break up with him...he'll be destroyed as im his only and the first love of his life..
Also there's no specific reason to break up either.. I am not seeing anyone nor going abroad..
but what should I do?? I dont see my future with him, i feel there must be someone right for me.

2007-09-10 11:52:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I embarres my self i feel like the momment it happened and beat my self up for it for along time.How do i get over feeling like this

2007-09-10 11:48:39 · 1 answers · asked by hollister cutie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships