I mean, I don't know him at all, and we've never spoken because he just came to my school from private school, (although he lived in the same Washington town before) but anyway, we make eye contact, and I really want to get to know him, or go out. The problem is, a lot of other girls like him. So I really need help with talking to him. I mean I can't just ask him out, can I? thanx!
2007-09-10 11:55:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first of all in the world today, more and more women are asking the men out. For instance, I liked this guy and I actually gave him my number and asked him out and now we are married! So if you really like him that much, ask him out for dinner or something like that. Don't go to a movie, because then you don't have a chance to talk and get to know each other and then you wont even get to know if you really like his personality or not!
2007-09-10 12:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by jt1107swt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him out like that but he might think your a little desperate. so talk to him about your town and your old town. tell him the things that are the same and different. small talk is so important. and if all else fails flirt and dress a little skimpy. keep in mind that guys do like sexuality. and if the other girls at your school are jockin him your gonna want to keep ahead of the pack. but never lose your dignity.
2007-09-10 19:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by sayles s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to talk with him. Get to know each other as friends, really good friends, then your on your way to going out! Sounds easier said than done though right? Just start out by saying "Hi" then working your way from there
2007-09-10 19:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control how people feel about you. Just be yourself and let him fall in love for the real you. Being yourself would definitely set you apart of the other girls who are throwing themselves at him. If he's not interested, move on honey. There are millions of available bachelors on the planet.
2007-09-10 19:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Xine Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you got competition so let me give you some advice:
When you make eye contact instead of turning away real fast give him a sexy little smile then slowly turn your head. If he turns his head quick just keep staring and he will notice it. You just need to go up to him and say" hey if you wanna hang out some time, heres my number (give him number,etc.)" and your done. Good Luck!
~Mark Changalang
2007-09-10 19:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by mark_changalang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could always bring up a conversation with him...i like a guy who is just as popular! try to bring up a conversation, then move on from there. make sure to talk a couple times before you ask to go out...that would be too much of a hurry! hope i helped!
2007-09-10 19:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by fencerluver16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty tough and i know what you mean but i think that you need to walk up to him and say somthing flirty! Then talk from there! body contact is good!! =]
good luck
2007-09-10 19:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont understand how you know if you like him if you dont know him ..i think its more like you like the idea of likeing someone like him ...so move to the necxt stage and try to find out more about him.. sit close to him if you get the chance just to see of you can here what his likes and dislikes are you have to be an private investigater if you want to know if someone is for you...private is the key word while you are doing you investigating..dont even tell your friends what you are doing
2007-09-10 19:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can just make someone like you. If you ask someone out and you made him like you somehow, most likely, it wouldn't last long. Just talk to him a lot and you'll get there.
2007-09-10 19:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by Saru 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be friendly and get to know him as a friend then start flirting with him and be cool with what ever your doin make him feel comfortable around you..good luck!
but i want you to know you cant make some1 like you thats their choice and not everybody clicks like that
2007-09-10 19:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋