Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

I have been talking to this guy for 3 months now off and on. However, in the 3 months of knowing him i have never called him....the times that i have, were to return his calls and i didn't return them til a day or two later. I think the real reason why i have never called him is that i'm afraid he might not answer.
I haven't heard from him in 4 days.....should i call him?

2007-09-10 10:23:55 · 5 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, maybe he doesn't exactly FOLLOW me, but he's ALWAYS there. His name is Parker, and he's kind of cute. I'm just getting this odd vibe. Last year we where in the same gym class, and sometimes we'd look at each other, and you could feel something. It was chemistry maybe, but this feeling was so powerful, no words needed.

So he's in my English class now, and he knows my name, and he always sits near me, and he followed me and stood next to me for the fire drill, he's just always there.

Am I just imagining something, or what? Does this guy feel anything like I do?

2007-09-10 10:20:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sleeping with my guy for the 1st time 2mrw,i'm really nervous though,i want to but i havent slept with a new guy in a while. I worry he wont like my body or the way i smell,stupid things like that,should i drink alcohol before we go back to his?we are going to a bar anyway beforehand.

2007-09-10 10:18:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was this girl when I was grade 12 (17 at the time), and the girl was only 13. She used to call me 7 times a day!!. Just plain out annoying. She had this friend that got to know me a bit through her. We talked a bit, but not on a serious level. I figured not only is she too young, but I didn't really want much to do with her since she was a friend of that highly annoying girl. I never really tried to talk to her friend like that... well, not in terms of trying to get on relationship, and eventually we just stopped talking. 5 years later, this friend of the bugging girl is looking so sweet. She's 18 now, but there's such a big gap between the last time we talked, and recently, and I'm regretting that I even stopped talking to her. Currently she's at a level where she is just tired of all boys and she is trying to "find herself" before start talking to any guy on that level again. Is there any way i get get on that level with her and at least get cool with her friends?

2007-09-10 10:17:30 · 2 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

we are not fiancees yet but have gotten matching rings to show our friendship and love for each other. Does this commitment/friendship go on the left hand ring finger or the right hand ring finger? thanks

2007-09-10 10:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by Robin G 1 in Weddings

For teen boys to talk to eachother about girls body like asses boobs and stuff and how hot they are...and point out to eachother what we like about them...We NEVER talk about it infront of them or touch them in anyway (no matter how badly we want too lol)

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touching them when they dont wanna be touched is so dumb...you get pumelled with slaps and then they hate you, then you get in trouble, and then..you feel bad about it..if you have a conscience so if they dont wanna be touched..hands off! it'll be best for both parties

2007-09-10 10:13:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, so in my 15 years (yes a teenager asking for relationship advice, how pathetic) i have only ever REALLY liked three guys. The first was for 6 years. I like him because growing up, he was the nice guy out of all the jerks. But then the jerks matured and he turned into the biggest jerk of them all and broke my heart. So then about a year later i fall for my best guy friend. Big woops. He was the perfect guy when it was just the two of us, but a moron who enjoyed tormenting me when he was around his guy friends. It took me two years to get over him, cause i knew i didnt want to be with a person like him anyway. So my redemtion came in the form of the new guy, who we shall call Chuck. Now i went to a new school and met Chuck half way through the year. He has never said a mean thing to me since i have known him, and he is flirty, funny, nice, and a football player. ;)

2007-09-10 10:09:32 · 2 answers · asked by Katie M 2 in Singles & Dating

A "friend" is married six months ago. They have a baby together. She recently started an account with a popular social network. In her survey/profile, she lists her "type" as slim and 5'10". In parenthesis, she adds that her husband is 5'7". ? I'm wondering if this is a subconscious way of letting potential suitors know that she is "looking". ?
Why else mention her husband's heighth?
Curious and secretly hoping that she is looking to dump her husband. He's a jerk.

2007-09-10 10:07:19 · 65 answers · asked by alikilee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok she wanted opinions and told me to write this. she was arranged to a nice guy and brought him to US. so basically he came to us because of her. he was soo nice sweet with narrow minded brain like clothesand he didn't like her working. she didn't mind. but then he started changing like he had upper hand in the relationship she would cry and ask him what's rong why is be being so distant. she is a real nice girl. she loves him. he treated her like crap in her pregnancy. wouldn't do anything for her. didn't care if she ate or if she is hungary. everyday quarrels made her depressed. she was down all the time. didn't care about pleasing her in bed no more. he would have sex with her and wouldn't even care about her orgasm. or sumtimes she would beg for se'x.and he would say i am tired my back hurts. then she left for three days, comes back and see dirty stuff online.the day she left and she had se'x with him and lateer he went online for dirty pics and movies etc.more details..

2007-09-10 10:04:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, yeah, Im only in 7th grade, so yea, its a little kid relationship! I dont need to know that, and no comments about me being too young please! Anywho, he has liked me forever, and he asked me out one or two times and Ive said no. That was last year, and hes changed and I really like him now! Today he gave me half his sandwich, (because I forgot my lunch) and these stupid 8th graders were making fun of us that we liked each other. He got embarrassed and came up to me and said he didnt like me anymore. I dont know if he was serious or if he was just saying that to prevent being teased. I want to ask him out, but Im scared because I dont know if he likes me anymore..... What should I do?!?!? Thanks!!

2007-09-10 10:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by Rachelll. 3 in Singles & Dating

a sex change ive only been with her for about 6 months we got married very quickly i know but i love her so much what do i do stay or go?????

2007-09-10 10:01:59 · 18 answers · asked by Davie T 2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As far as wording that question, yea, I know it's terrible. But what I mean is, as far as censorship, like ridding of TV and internet blockers, watching R or PG-13 rated movies, etc. This sorts of stuff. I'm not a parent, but I am curious how other parents feel about this. I know parents who try to protect their kids until they are 18, and I feel they are too underexposed to life, then I know parents who don't protect their kids from that at all, and so fourth.

Just wanting to know your opinion on the matter.

2007-09-10 10:01:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok I am 5 minutes away from telling the guy I like that I like him! I wanna do it...then like part of me will hate it because he is older and I am a freshman...And I sit right next to him in a class..so it will be well awkward if he doesn't like me...lol...I am gonna take the plunge I think...why not..what the hell...we only live once...lmao...should I?

2007-09-10 10:00:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I(33) married her(21) 1 yr ago against willingness of my family bcz I loved her truely.Everything ws ok b4 she got this job.I helped her a lot many ways in getting the job.After 6 months of training she came back from middleast,went to her parents home without informing me even.Now she is determined to get a divorce bcz-
1.I dnt knw wt life is
2.Why my family refused her b4 marriage
3.I'm short tempered
4.1day I slap her
5.the other day I scold her
6.I dnt hv enough respect to her parents etc etc.

2007-09-10 09:59:49 · 30 answers · asked by betrayed2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have these dreams that feel so real i mean every touch made me shiver and i haven't been around him in five years and i come to San Antonio to say with my parents all these feeling come up. I mean I'm married to a good man i love him very much

2007-09-10 09:58:45 · 18 answers · asked by A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A few years back I calle dchild services on my younger sister who was 24 at the time, we were very close friends as well as sisters and we talked all of the time, but then she began using drugs and getting high and becoming an alchoholic. Often she would have dealers and just to be blank "crack heads" in her home, and my neice Lindsy had come to me and told me that her mother let a man rape her for some crack! that's when this all had to stop, so I took all her kids to mu house and hadn't realized most had bruieses on there legs and back and stomachs, so I called child services and they brought thier mother to jail and put them into custody with me, and she has been going to rehabilitation, the problem is now that she's out and clean she hates me, annd her children she won't come see them or anything and that makes her 4 kids really mad, I mean it's not my Fault, is it? also my question is the oldest who was raped has been doing poorley in school, and often curses at teachers and has

2007-09-10 09:57:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It was a mutual breakup, due to unresolvable differences, and now she refuses to give him the ring back. bear in mind this ring was a gift to her on the proviso that she marry him, now she is not, surely he is entitled to retreive the ring? Please i need real life experience to answer this, no opinions please, or if u happen to be a lawyer who knows about matrimonial law then thats just what i need. please help asap. (English/UK law only)

2007-09-10 09:57:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If you could make your man thicker or longer, which would you choose, and why?

2007-09-10 09:56:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it in the middle somewhere or at the end?

2007-09-10 09:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by Stephen N 1 in Weddings

A bloom grew in a patch of weeds
Its fragrance sweet and lovely
Admired for persistent growth
In a plain, homely location

For years this plant had spread its joy
Over thistle and poison ivy vines
For years this flower gave its beauty
To weeds and thorny bramble

Then one day whispers on the wind
Over heard by the blossom ‘mong the weeds
A whisper that this bright, fair bud
Was out of place and must be plucked

The flower heard and bowed its head
And sadness filled the weed patch
With but a sigh this lonely sprout
Gave up its lifelong struggle

Never again to grace this weedy place
Never again to spread its fragrance sweet
Both weeds and flowers mourn its passing
And all the green-world weeps

2007-09-10 09:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend!!!!! Who is trying to run my life and job!!!!! I am the manager and she wont listen!!! what shou i do

2007-09-10 09:48:25 · 1 answers · asked by Lisa P 1 in Friends

he was taking adderall at the time & thinks that might have added to his "temporary insanity." This is VERY uncharacteristic of him. he's a nice, gentle caring person that says he had this urge he couldnt control. he is going to counseling & to a psych to try to get to the bottom of this. I guess my question is how can I get through this and is it even possible to get past? Right now, i am really having a hard time with everything but I decided to at least try to work it out with him. I was ready to file for divorce after reading about this incident in the local paper. (he never told me about it, i had to find out from an emailed copy of the article sent to me while I was at work.)

2007-09-10 09:46:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 09:42:17 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I gave her Juicy Couture last year and I want to change it up..

2007-09-10 09:41:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-10 09:39:36 · 23 answers · asked by I dont know 4 in Family

Okay i dated this guy in the beginnign of the summer and then we broke up and he wouldnt even talk to me.. and i had no idea what i did then when he started liking me again we started talking and after a week or so we started dating again and then a couple weeks ago i dumped him . and now its like before he wont even talk to me.. i dont understand this ? whats he doing ? and why?

2007-09-10 09:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by softballxlove3 4 in Singles & Dating

A friend thinks that is why he is without a partner.

2007-09-10 09:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by DoctressWho 4 in Singles & Dating

women... is it ok for a man to slap a woman (not abusive) but lightly smack/slap her in the face during sex? would u mind that in a heat of passion?

2007-09-10 09:34:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got scared as never did, i didn't know what to do, it was in our house, i got home went to her room, thatz what i found, she was in top of him, then i left, i came home late, didn't know if tell my dad, or just forget what happened, itz been a week already, i'm not the same with her no more. what should i do?

2007-09-10 09:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have/had a crush on a guy at work. The thing is we used be close friends and I started liking him as more than a friend and I told hm . I got the since that he liked me too since he always flirted with me and cracked jokes, etc. But, he has a gf in the Phillipines whom he is engaged 2 since I helped him get the ring for her. He only sees her once every 2 years and I think we started experiencing sexual tension since we had a convo about doing it. I called him a dog since I thought he was comn on to me but then he denied he was serious bout it and said he was kidding. He said I should focus on someone else and that we no longer be friends since I was 2 obsessive bout him. I emailed him saying that we were both wrong for talking about sex, he blamed me for being weird. i got mad and told him not to b my friend. he told me not to talk 2 him unless work related. i've been ignorn him, but yesterday, i saw him and he luked at me like he was hurt. I said hi, but i don't know what to do.

2007-09-10 09:31:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating