Okay i dated this guy in the beginnign of the summer and then we broke up and he wouldnt even talk to me.. and i had no idea what i did then when he started liking me again we started talking and after a week or so we started dating again and then a couple weeks ago i dumped him . and now its like before he wont even talk to me.. i dont understand this ? whats he doing ? and why?
2007-09-10 09:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by softballxlove3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt dump him both times.. he dumped me the first time and i dumped him the last time
2007-09-10 09:49:42 · update #1
I think he still has feelings for you, and either he's trying to deal with them in his own way, or he's trying to make you upset that he won't talk to you so you'll go out with him again.
2007-09-10 09:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by asdfjkl; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's see, you dumped him twice....and you wonder why he doesn't want to talk to you? Frankly, I wouldn't give you the time of day either if you did that to me. If you don't understand why, then you are in no way ready to be dating, you need to do some more maturing before you go out and do that sort of thing to other people.
2007-09-10 16:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to let it all go now. Why did you dump him? He probably doesn't want to keep doing the back and forth thing. Why do you want to talk to him? Just let it go. You've already tried it twice and it didn't work. Friendship will come with time. Don't try to rush it.
2007-09-10 16:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is young and confused about his feelings. When boys are scared, then often run away instead of deal directly with the problem. If he does not talk to you, then the problem is his not yours. He is extremely immature; therefore, you would better off finding another boy.
2007-09-10 16:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by SuziChi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋