Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

well i know most of you dont remember that question i asked about my mother interfereing in my marriage and now my husband and i are sperated because of it. i also think i stated that she is very controlling and bossy. well now she has through my father out of the house and they got into a big arugment last night. she calls me from work early this morning telling me that she through him out and that iam going to have to help her more on paying bills in the house. this house is my fathers too and she has no right to through him out. iam only my mothers daughter iam not married to her. iam not reponsible for staying with her and paying her bills. my husband and i are planning on getting back together and iam not going to be stuck with her for the rest of my life when she has my 28 year old brother living her to who is not working.
my mother causes trouble when my father will not follow her rules or do what she tells him to do. she puts pressure on me anyway to help her pay bills.

2007-09-10 02:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If we have no kids no house the only thing i owe her is 3300 and i have no problem paying it what can she file for?

2007-09-10 02:55:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-10 02:51:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This co-worker and I had trouble about a year ago over other stuff in the office. She is NOT easy to get along with. Others in the office tread very lightly so as not to tick her off. My boss may see this as a continuation of the previous trouble. And my boss is one who thinks that given enough time, most any problem will resolve itself. This surfing the net is like theft, because her job doesn't involve the net at all and we work at a not-for-profit whose budget is skimpy anyway. Thanks for your help.

2007-09-10 02:48:07 · 34 answers · asked by kiqi1988 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

her daughter was addicted to pain pills, she has been in rehab and put in jail because her urine came back positive, my sister is about to lose it, and her husband has been dead for a few years.I'd like to know what if anything I could do to help my sister out. She is just at a rock and a hard place. We talk on the phone once a week, and I let her vent her problems to me, but I feel so bad for her, she didn't do anything wrong, yet she is being punished. Her daughter also, lost her house, and is having to wear a ankle monitor for a few years. Any helpful suggestions would be appreciated, please only ones who will help, not smart remarks. Can you help?

2007-09-10 02:46:25 · 5 answers · asked by mutt 6 in Family

2007-09-10 02:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I believe that for a marrige to be successful both people need to relize its not just about them selves any more it a union of mind body and soul. Both people come into a marrige expecting certain things the key is to be symathetic to each others needs. One person might need more emotional support and the other might need more phyiscal support. Would you agree that meeting each others needs is very important even if it means going out of your way to make the other person happy?

2007-09-10 02:44:53 · 18 answers · asked by Tim H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that Smt. indira Gandhi's husband's name was Feroz Khan & Indira was married to him secretly through love affair, changed her religion & converted to Islam & had a new Islamic name too. What was that ? Also, when this created stir in Nehru's house, after a lot of infighting between her & father, the matter was presented to Gandhiji, who after a lot of thought, put a condition for acceptance that Feroz should change his surname from Khan to Gandhi, of his mother's father's surname. He agreed & after sometime he was killed in mysterious circumstances. Who killed him ? Later,she rturned to Hindufold & Gandhiji's trick worked(man of truth). It is said that Indira's sons were named Rajiv & Sanjeev. The latter was caught while stealing something in Engalnd & so, his passport was forefeited there. India's ambassader there arranged a bogus passport for him at new name Sanjay & sent him back to India. So, he became Sanjay from Sanjeev. Is it true ? Were they so much unprincipled ?

2007-09-10 02:42:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-10 02:42:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-10 02:40:54 · 23 answers · asked by bubba gumps light 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl in the clothes store, and she asked if she could help me. From there we started talking, she was smiling and talking, and at the end I got her e-mail address, but she says she is hardly ever online. How do I differentiate myself from just being in her eyes another person trying to get with her... how do i draw her to me? And let's assume that she is never online, and this is the only contact i have for her.

2007-09-10 02:39:13 · 3 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

He says he hates lesbians & when he says he does its like he is telling the truth just the way he is telling me!, But when i talk about them doing sexuall stuff together & stuff like that he smiles & kinda laughs as in he loves them! But the thing is when he says he hates them it sounds do seriouse so why does he smile? & the smile looks like he likes them? what exactly makes him smile? Because iff he truely hated them he wouldnt smile right? what makes him smile when i talk about it to him?

2007-09-10 02:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-10 02:36:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I hope that someone could help me figure this out, or give me some direction to this drama.... I have only been married since Dec. 2006, and like clockwork about every month or so, when a disagreement heats up, my wife picks up and moves out- then eventually comes back after a week or two.
She doesn't really argue, and at most threatens divorce, and just packs up and takes off. The last time she did this was this past July, when she left a week before our baby was due. I called, asking her to come back, and at that time she refused to even have me around in the delivery room when the baby was born. After the baby was born, she moved back with me, as though nothing happened.
I really want this marriage to work, and for the most part we are happy, but I don't know how long things can last with this drama of her leaving like she does. Its as though I am constantly afraid of telling her how I feel or being at odds with her about nearly anything, fearing she will leave again

2007-09-10 02:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by Norac 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They hook up once or twice a month for an encounter . She says the sex is amazing everytime, but I told her that the this relationship will get old and he will not want to see her anymore when he gets tired of the sex. Isn't this true?

2007-09-10 02:33:07 · 6 answers · asked by MeGaStar 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married, and my wife and I haven't made love in some time because we had a kid together last year and it ruined our sexlife.

We live with my sister-in-law. She is a nice girl who is driving me crazy because I want to have sex with her. (She has a booming bod and always walks around barely clothed, not thinking anything about it.)

I am going to resist my temptations obviously because I love my wife, but I cannot get her out of my mind!

When we hang out innocently, I just want to jug-hump her senseless!

What can I do to stop feeling this way??

It is driving me nuts, help!!

2007-09-10 02:32:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To be honest, I only like African American, I just can not be attracted to any race. Most of girl at my school are white, there are many girls that have nice personality, but the looks, they are not my type. Iam not sure I can live with the girl who have nice personality but not my type of looks, But many people say personality is important than the looks. So should I forget about the race , how cute they are. I just choose girl who have nice personality? are there people who date like this

2007-09-10 02:31:39 · 17 answers · asked by neuken 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner and I had been dating for 6 months when I met Mr. X. Mr. X. was married and I sensed very quickly on that he was not happily married, though he did not come right out and say it. I began to grow increasingly upset with my man over various big and smaller issues. One day it hit me, I was falling for Mr. X. I knew I had to cut off ties with Mr. X and I told him why. Up until this point he had been very nonchalant and I had no idea he felt the same way. We immediately stopped talking out of respect for our partners. We did not see eachother or talk for 6 months. I recently saw him again as I began working with another coach from the same company and realized the feelings have not gone away. Mr. X has seperated with his wife in the meanwhile (while we weren't talking). Now I am confused, torn and unsure of how he is feeling? Do I bring something up? Am I just being silly and should try to fix my relationship? Does he need space? I don't know what to do?!

2007-09-10 02:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by leelee c25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been going with this dude for 8 months now and i really like him. we talk almost all the time.a few months ago he had to go to military school so we write each other and everything he writes me all the time.we really love each other and everything.the only prob is he don't know what i look like and im really nervous about sending him my pic.i have low confidence and everything and im scared he might not like me but he says he anit worried bout my looks he love me for me not the way i look.what should i do?

2007-09-10 02:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had to put up with a lot of "baggage" since I have been going out with my boyfriend the last 10 months. He used to say things like "if and when I get married it will be forever as I don't believe in divorce because of my parent's" and he really wanted to buy a house and was looking into buying with friends "because he would rather do that than buy with a girl because so many of his relationships haven't worked out." This used to make me feel pretty bad but it was the early stages so I gave him the benefit of the doubt. He also hasn't told me he loves me as again he says he will only say it when "he truly means it" and "it's a big deal" for him. He tells me he is falling in love with me "so much" but never lets me know how he feels about me really. All the above has made me sceptical that it may not work with this guy and he may never fall for me. However recently he has started saying "when we get married" and now wants to buy a house with me? What is going on?

2007-09-10 02:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-10 02:21:42 · 14 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just need some advice. My mother has emailed my step-father saying that she wants a separation. She hasn't been honest with me either. I have a feeling that she went back to an old boyfriend from her teenage years (who is married)!

My mom has never been happy. After my father died she got married to my step-father only after one year. They've been married now for about 7 years and now she says that she's not happy. My step-father is a good man and recently walked me down the aisle on the happiest day of my life; I refuse to abandon him. But now my mother and I aren't speaking with each other because we just fight and all the conversations are useless.

I believe that marriage is forever. I can't imagine treating a person as if they are disposable. My mom is also leaving her two cats and dogs; I think her behavior is disrespectful/disgusting. She just got on a plane and left all of them...and now she's not going back.

It seems like all I can do is pray for her?

2007-09-10 02:21:36 · 7 answers · asked by CaymanSunrise 3 in Family

I have a buddy whose girlfriend and other roommate left the apartment at the same time and now the rent is on him. I was wondering if anyone out there knew how i could help him out. I personally do not have the money and am doing what i can to help. Does anyone know of any labs that pay to be a ginuea pig or any other programs that could help? I want to help as much as possible because he is my best friend and risked his life to save mine.

2007-09-10 02:17:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-10 02:14:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

instead putting that $ into our holiday fund? do you think it's destroying the romantic side of relationship? the guy will take it for granted and wont make effort?

2007-09-10 02:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by cheek 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-10 02:05:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never been on a date at university. I really hate university type social activities (drinking, clubbing, parties) or social organizations. I am, however, very outgoing in class, and get along very well with people. I simply don't care to socialize outside of class. I'm in 4th year, so my classes are small. Do university-aged guys tend not to ask out girls they know only from class?

2007-09-10 02:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to have a relationship between a man and a woman solely for mutual sexual pleasure without any emotional attachment and baggage?

2007-09-10 01:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by I, the Ocean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After all, it's a fact that most will cheat with a member of the same sex. Who would want to have a bisexual as a parent? Just wondering.

2007-09-10 01:57:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am married too, but don't love my husband any more. Do you think it's so wrong loving a married man?

2007-09-10 01:57:34 · 27 answers · asked by Erani G 1 in Marriage & Divorce