How do girls find boyfriends in university?

Question

I've never been on a date at university. I really hate university type social activities (drinking, clubbing, parties) or social organizations. I am, however, very outgoing in class, and get along very well with people. I simply don't care to socialize outside of class. I'm in 4th year, so my classes are small. Do university-aged guys tend not to ask out girls they know only from class?

Answer 1

First off .... try going to the petting zoo section of the University to find friendly young fellows, who are safe to touch. NEXT ..... you do not have to worry about not liking the " usual " college activities, you have stated that you in fact are out going which is a real plus. You are obviously highly intelligent, most likely an attractive young woman, and I would guess that you have a heart of pure gold.
I am a sophomore at the University of Wisconsin, I am 53 years old, I see this behavior everyday, and I can tell you my dear that this is NOT a difficult thing to do. The right people / person will come along for you, all in good time.
I have made many female friends at the University since my arrival last year, and they affectionately like to call me " OZ " the all knowing, all wise & powerful ... LOL ... this is true. I wish you well on your quest for happiness.

Sincerely,
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Answer 2

I am sure that most men with any courage in your classes would ask you out if you give off non-verbal cues that you are approachable. If you want to meet men, you need to get out of your house or dorm room. If you are not into the collegian or social activities you mentioned, then you are severely limiting your avenues to meet people.

I can understand and laud you for not being one to hit the nightclubs or the sorority/fraternity parties. You might want to open your mind up to other social activities on your campus. If not, then you might want to look outside of your college to meet men.

Answer 3

go to a social club like chess club / environmental club or any of your interest and start talking to people! also when you get out of tutorial go to a person and say “what did you think of the tutorial question” bang. a new friend! you can do that in uni too! :)

like uni, we take responsibility for our study, we take responsibility in making relationships with others. and once you get to know people, there might be a guy in the crowd who is for you. be patient. take people at as a friend first, not a potential lover cuz you don’t wanna be too caught up in it and look too full on!

good luck and most importantly have fun meeting new people!

Answer 4

Girls should be looking for education at university, not dates.