To be honest, I only like African American, I just can not be attracted to any race. Most of girl at my school are white, there are many girls that have nice personality, but the looks, they are not my type. Iam not sure I can live with the girl who have nice personality but not my type of looks, But many people say personality is important than the looks. So should I forget about the race , how cute they are. I just choose girl who have nice personality? are there people who date like this
2007-09-10 02:31:39 · 17 answers · asked by neuken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have doubts or you would not have asked this question. Why not be friends first, see how you feel going around together and take it from there?
2007-09-11 11:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♦♣ alex ♠♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband at first when I met him was NOT my "type" in looks department at all. Not unattractive or anything, just not what I usually went for. But we had a lot in common and had a great time together, so I went out on a few dates to give him a chance and get to know him. Now I love him more than anything, I think he's the handsomest man ever to me, we have been married for a year next month and our baby girl is due in December. Looks will fade but the bond we have will last forever. But you sound younger, high school? maybe. Things can be different when you're at that age - but I would still say personality and if you have fun together is more important.
2007-09-10 09:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by mommakat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're right forget about looks, personality is important. don't get me wrong looks are too but it's not like the girl looks like freaking shrek. if you only look at looks they might have a real shitty personality. I date like this. i would go out with a certain race you can say not because i am racist i'm not at all i myself am very mixed, but just the fact thats what i liked. i'm now dating an indian guy and i love him more than anything in this world. he's sexy and he's an amazing person. i say just go for it and forget about race, it may turn out better then you expect
2007-09-10 09:43:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ämelia ☮ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried dating anyone else? How do you know you only like African American? I've found in my years of dating that race has very little to do with compatibility, so long as you're open to being attracted to that person, regardless if they fit your preconceived ideas of attractiveness.
2007-09-10 09:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just the personality you should be looking for. Looks are the first thing you notice about someone if you are attaracted to them or not. But you want to look for someone that makes you happy! So if their personality makes you happy try to forget about race. There is nothing wrong with trying something different. If it's not what makes you happy, don't bother : ) Good luck!
2007-09-10 09:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Sooner or later you stop looking at a girl and have to talk to her. And no matter what she looks like, a boring dipsh*t is still a boring dipsh*t, and a psycho hosebeast is still a psycho hosebeast.
A 5 with a good personality is worth a dozen 10s that you'd rather kill yourself than talk to.
2007-09-10 10:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
great personality is rare nowadays.... if you're asking me, you should date this girl.... however if you two get deep with the relationship... do you think you won't be highly prone to cheating her for another girl with your type of looks?
i know looks does not have to be the basis of relationships... but face it.... that is what you see immediately in a person... and more and more people cheat nowadays.... if you are having these doubts then maybe you should save both you and the girl a heartache by not dating her...
just my thoughts...
2007-09-10 09:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can date someone who is outrageously cute or good looking and six months later find out we can't stand them!
It takes time to get to know someone, and i'm sure that during your lifetime you will meet a lot of girls you'd like to date.
If so, ask them out!! Have fun and enjoy being a teenager right now....
take care, too
2007-09-10 09:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you've got the rite idea!!!!!!!! Beauty is skin deep, but mean goes to the BONE!!! I don't undertand RACE, a woman is a woman, race has never crossed my mind. But I've crossed many racial lines in my life!! And enjoyed them all!!!
2007-09-10 09:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i dont think thats a good idea... coz later on, if you keep on dating this girl you will soon realize that she really is not your type... i dont mean to be shallow but you must balance everything like looks and personality. do not compromise because later on you will regret it... try to find someone who's really your type and has a nice personality. dont settle for anything less.
2007-09-10 09:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋