Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

you're in a bar with 3 girl friends and a guy walks in you like the look of and start giving him the eye.

He returns the eye contact to you.

Are you looking at him just to be friendly or would you be trying to tell him you like him and that you want him to approach you?

second part of the question.....if this guy does approach you and you are sitting chatting to your friends, will you be inclined to pay immediate attention to the guy to show your interest?

lastly.....do simple lines like can i buy you a drink work as openers these days? - this would be my approach anyway

2007-09-10 07:14:19 · 3 answers · asked by daveslater2005 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf has been keeping asing me to go back to Hong Kong. Well, unfortunately, I can't.........not yet. I told her that I would go back next year. She said no. It turns out that she might go back to her Ex husband next year. I know she will break up with me but I feel hurt!

What can I do to make it better!? Help!

2007-09-10 07:14:08 · 3 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Singles & Dating

i have been having fantasies of this lately. Should i mention it to her. Do women think about being with their husbands and another guy or having their husbands watch?

2007-09-10 07:08:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal. I work with this girl 21 I think. Her new boyfriend starting working with us (same department) 3 years ago. Anyway I was being nice to him because she had just invited me out after work. Well, he started getting really friendly and obviously being too interested in what I had to say. So I just stopped talking to him. He kept trying to talk, but I avoided him like the plague.

He never said he liked me but would always look longingly. His girl is so boring, like just bland. And me and him share some hobbies. They got married, and he still looks and even after they were married he still tried to hangout at work. Now she's angry and is trying to spread rumors that I want her man, along with other stupid ones. She had a friend or partner in crime to help. Her guy looks embarassed everytime he looks at me. I can't stand her.

What should I do about these rumors and situation.

2007-09-10 07:08:24 · 3 answers · asked by word_scratcher 4 in Singles & Dating

or used "other" sources for sexual pleasure??

2007-09-10 07:05:50 · 8 answers · asked by slopoke6968 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am always running into people I work with or am friends with and I always introduce him during the conversation. Even if its just to say "this is my friend Jim" or ask if they have ever met and introduce each other.
My boyfriend never introduces me to anyone and it makes me uncomfortable. If I see he is about to speak with someone, he has such a habit of making me stand there and look like and idiot, and not introducing us. I am reasonably intelligent and I am more than capable of carrying on a conversation.
I figure whats the harm of walking away. H e didnt want to introduce us anyways. I think after 5 yrs I should be introduced. Sometimes the person he is talking to will introduce themselves after awhile into the conversation.
Is he ashamed of me or is he just socially an idiot? I could introduce myself and have even been mistaken for his ex wife, so maybe thats better. What do you think? Is it him or me?

2007-09-10 07:05:26 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

How do you survive burn out? I’m so tired, I’ve been taking care of a lot of people and I can’t seem to find the time for myself, even when I’m alone, I’m thinking of their problems and what to do or say to them. I’m very depressed and in counseling, but I can’t effectively give myself any “me time” I can’t afford to go do anything right now and I don’t even feel like doing small things like cleaning my house. What do you do when you’re burned out and can’t afford to go out?

2007-09-10 07:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went out for a date with this guy who had recently broken up from a 4 years relationship and he claimed that she found somebody else to make him jealous so that he asks her to marry him but he left her..and he goes "im fine but i havent met anyone special and if u havent got that,u know,there is no meaning...".Did he just tell me that im not that special thing to him?or a bunch of bull...t?note that he has the reputation and is really a playboy...

2007-09-10 07:00:38 · 3 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Singles & Dating

and of course you were really happy and all that...
did you think though at some little point,
did you have any shadow of doubt in your head,
that what you are doing might well be wrong?

2007-09-10 06:58:57 · 28 answers · asked by Girl About Town 2 in Weddings

I asked my lady friend out and she said she would love to go out with me! But first she said she doesn't want to lead me on because she is also interested in two other guys that she is interested in and has been dates with them both in the past. She said she would love to date me as long as it doesn't bug me that she dates or hangs with the other guys. We are great friends by the way. At least she was honest with me..most girls wouldn't admit that. At least we know where we both stand now..that always makes things better and more simple. She wouldn't feel awkward at all after this would she?But if she said yes, that means she is interested in me too right? Any dating ideas? Were college students by the way.
thank you!

2007-09-10 06:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by ee 1 in Singles & Dating

men cheat all the time, do u think it's a sign of lost love or just for the hell of it?

2007-09-10 06:49:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought this was an interesting concept...if a man never looks at porn, is he more likely to cheat on his partner...or if a man does look at porn is he less likely to cheat..? what are your ideas?

2007-09-10 06:39:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 06:31:38 · 17 answers · asked by moo122430 1 in Singles & Dating

Even if Im not sure if I can.....
ie: smoking occasionally...
-things my bf wants me to work on.
?????

2007-09-10 06:30:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 06:30:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I have a crush on, she started a conversation with me, and after chatting awhile i ran out of things to say, I was just sitting trying to find something, it became awkward and she probably felt I wasn't interested or so and it just ended there. I don't know if she's ever gonnal talk to me again anytime soon.

My question is, is it something normal that happens with the kind of feelings I have for her?

2007-09-10 06:28:32 · 2 answers · asked by Hornet One 7 in Singles & Dating

When a woman marries a man....the woman needs to be submissive and needs to let the man be the head of the house. Dont you agree?

2007-09-10 06:27:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i are off to New York in 3 weeks and cant wait, aside from one thing. I have never met his sister and we are due to stay with her and her boytfriend for the 2 weeks we are there. Originally i asked that we get a hotel for the first few nights , just to get over jet lag and get to know each other, but my boyfriend kept forgetting to mention to her that we wanted to do this, so now i feel it is to late to say anything now as it would be rude but i feel uncomfortable as i dont know her and i know that she is a clean freak so i wont be able to relax even more with that, she seems very nice but it is spoiling it a bit but then i dont want to stop my man from staying with his sister, please give my opinions help!!!!

2007-09-10 06:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by shadow 2 in Family

She's always yelling at me and slamming things! I have no clue what her problem is!!! One minute shell be happy than shes like screaming and slamming doors and she freaks if I say something that doesnt sound completely happy!! Were 4 years apart and I have no clue what ive done to her! Shes ALWAYS fighting with our parents too......... Ive heard of sibling rivalry but my god...... :/ What should I do??? Ive tried ignoring her but that just makes it worse...

2007-09-10 06:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Can a family member like me?
theres these three guys - related long distance. 3rd cousins.
my dads second cousins.

and they all wink at me with the left eye.

1st guy: Winked at me and checked me out. made me feel awkward. He is WAY OLDER THAN ME.

2nd guy: Just winks at me with left eye. Sometimes looks at me. About 10 years older than me.

3rd guy: Winks, checked me out & stares at me, I can see from the side of my eye, but when i looked back at him, he turned away.

whats with these guys?


There much older than me.. + we are family relateddd long distance.

2 OF THEM ARE MARRIED. The second guy is single.
SCARES ME.

2007-09-10 06:26:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im not shy, Im just a person of not so many words, is there anything I can do to be more out spoken?
Please help me find ME.

2007-09-10 06:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by PoPtArT 4 in Singles & Dating

I have dated this guy for about 6 weeks now and i keep having these dreams that in them he is telling me he loves me. He has never told me that in real life but I love him and definaly dont want to tell him becasue i dont want to freak him out. i think i should wait until he tells me... what could these dreams mean? help

2007-09-10 06:19:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-10 06:13:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

came over to our home, unannounced durring our visitaion. SD saw her out the window, opened up the door and said "Hi Mommy." My husband heard her say this and started to walk towards the front door. Before he got around the corner, he heard SD yell, "Daddy!" By the time he got to the door, Baby Mama was running off of property and jumped into the passenger seat of an unknow vehicle with SD on her lap (no car seat or seatbelt) and they peeled out of the edition. There were skid marks left on the road. My husband called the cops, but they said there was nothing they could do b/c it was her mother. My husband called her...She picked up the phone, screamed “Take it up with the courts, B!^@#!” and hung up on him. They did go to court and the judge ordered them to take a parenting class ($100!). She has a long history of eratic behavior, but every time we take her to court, she lies on the stand, judge believes her and we wasted another day that we could be working. What to do...??

2007-09-10 06:04:32 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

What kind of menu are you having at your wedding? What kind of food, drinks, desserts and courses are you having?

Where are you having your reception? How much are you paying for it.

Thanks for Sharing.

2007-09-10 06:04:25 · 14 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

well i had a dream that me and him got married, and lived together...and i told him about that,...when i was explaining it i said 'it seemed so REAL ya know' and he said 'it will be soon'

does that mean he wants to get married and get a place together?

2007-09-10 05:59:41 · 50 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married 10 years together for 16 and we went out to celebrate last night and spent the evening talking about how we've grown together as people,. How we've been a good influence on each other and how great our son is.

How is your marriage/relationship after say 10 years or so?

2007-09-10 05:58:28 · 20 answers · asked by St.Anger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Got any stories about getting your own back?

2007-09-10 05:55:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I cheer to the creators of the Play Station rock games. Keep rock alive!

Also to the Potter author for making it the last Potter book. Cheers, "No more Potter, overrated c--p!"

2007-09-10 05:53:45 · 2 answers · asked by Sandra G 2 in Family

I watch this kid whose mom is married to an abusive man. She refuses to leave this nut because he has her scared to death of leaving. He has threatened to burn her parents home down-also he told her if she left she would lose her son. The son is 7 years old and has serious issues with soiling his pants. She comes to pick her boy up and tells me everything this man does. She said he uses drugs-he drinks and refuses to work. She works as a manager at a fast food place. I have told her she needs to leave. I have showed her in the phone book and online resources she could tap into for help and support in leaving him. I don't know what else to do for her. She thinks she is doing the right thing for her son by staying. What else could or can I do to convince her she needs to take her son and leave? I worry about them both.

2007-09-10 05:52:19 · 26 answers · asked by Stefbear 5 in Marriage & Divorce