Can a family member like me?
theres these three guys - related long distance. 3rd cousins.
my dads second cousins.
and they all wink at me with the left eye.
1st guy: Winked at me and checked me out. made me feel awkward. He is WAY OLDER THAN ME.
2nd guy: Just winks at me with left eye. Sometimes looks at me. About 10 years older than me.
3rd guy: Winks, checked me out & stares at me, I can see from the side of my eye, but when i looked back at him, he turned away.
whats with these guys?
There much older than me.. + we are family relateddd long distance.
2 OF THEM ARE MARRIED. The second guy is single.
SCARES ME.
2007-09-10 06:26:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just tell your mom and dad not to leave you alone with these guys because they creep you out. They may just laugh and say, "oh they're ok dear, they don't mean anything by it." To which you reply," that's fine but I'm coming with you."
Your parents love you and I'm sure would never expect you so spend time with someone who frightens you.
Besides all parents know that kids have very good natural instincts about people so they may not even question you.
2007-09-10 06:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The wink might be a regional means of expression. Flirting is something done with any blossoming member of the family... never mind that it is out of bounds.
You can keep yourself at least an arm's distance away from any of them, and laugh off any attempts at flirting with you and tell these old goats to bugger-off.
If you feel the need... tell your parents that these older relatives are majorly creeping you out.
2007-09-10 13:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad or mom. They can help you feel more comfortable and they should know that you have these concerns.
2007-09-10 13:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋