Im not shy, Im just a person of not so many words, is there anything I can do to be more out spoken?
Please help me find ME.
2007-09-10 06:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by PoPtArT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Realize life is short and it doesnt matter what people think so if you want to speak just speak whats the worst that can happen. also I am a very outspoken person i have friends like you not shy just dont speak and just being around me brought them out of their shell so i suggest possibly going to a club or bar and just strike up convos with people you dont know so it doesnt matter or become friends with people out spoken they will help cause you will feel more comfortable around them to speak out!
2007-09-10 06:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Yankeefan1986 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things that are interesting, and people that make you feel at ease. if you have something to say just say it, most people speak there mind anyways, and dont really have anything to say.."those who talk the most, know the least" so people might actually be interested in hearing what you have to say since you're not one to be that way..dont look down on that make it a challenge. i have a friend like that and its fun because im always trying to get her to talk and she isnt shy she just isnt one for small talk so when she does its worth listening to.keep up on sports, news, media those are convo pieces. As for finding you only you can do that..read books, take personality quizzes, <---they dont tell you who you are but do give you a little insight in a light hearted way, write your thoughts, do activities you enjoy doing and spend a lone time with yourself that should help you gain a sense of you you are...goodluck hope this helps!
2007-09-10 06:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard. I was very shy as a child and a young adult. I was always trying to figure out how to fit in. Then I realized that most people are interested in people who are different from everyone else. Being the same as everyone else is BORING! Be different. Do things, and say things that you like, or think. You'll be amazed at how many people will find you interesting and want to be around you.
2007-09-10 06:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by redcocacolacat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am 56, a retired elem teacher and have done great referring people to take the $5 Myers Briggs Test online, it is GREAT, really great. I am an extreme extrovert and talk too much and my grown daughter is an extreme introvert so we have a hard time, I took her INFP score on this test and researched her personality and it explained so much to me. It shows tons of stuff and we are all 50/50, with good and bad with no personality better than another. there are 16 types. The results tell you what you are asking under personal growth once you have taken it. The free ones are pretty worthless but the $5 one is great. It tells you careers, people to date, how to parent and marry and all kinds of wonderful things that will show you what you are good at and how to improve on your bad stuff and for me that would be to shut up so people like you can have a turn to talk :) good luck
2007-09-10 06:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by I Love Jesus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok it seems like u might be a bit shy but in your question u said your not. this is a hard question to answer so here goes nothing.
Try being more socail. get out more go on trips. its like your saying ui dont get out much. i am kind of confused on what to say has the only way of not having those words would be to be shy....
hope this helps
2007-09-10 06:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mark ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 08:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL - im the same unless im writing emails, txt's or letters..
I find that a couple of alcoholic drinks does wonderful stuff for my self-confidence..
If your not old enough to drink alcohol, then just carry on with education, keep yourself to yourself and enjoy life a little later on when you have the pennies to go socialise ;-)
2007-09-10 06:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kind of shy but when i start talking with some 1 i take off,get a friend that talks more u will see u will do the same
2007-09-10 06:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find people who are like you..you need people who will listen to what you have to say. Don't try to be like everybody else..sometimes the most out spoken people don't have a clue what they are talking about!
2007-09-10 06:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a journal and write. When you have your thoughts taken down, you notice that certain ideas and feelings are more recurrent and prominent than others. Getting to know yourself and establishing who you are is the first step in cracking the shell.
2007-09-10 06:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by highball116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋