i have been having fantasies of this lately. Should i mention it to her. Do women think about being with their husbands and another guy or having their husbands watch?
2007-09-10 07:08:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it man! You'll regret it! If you love your wife or place any value on your marriage at all, don't do it!
2007-09-10 07:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
That is bad news. Keep it a fantasy and don't act it out. Marriages have broken up over this. The wife may hate the husband. The husband may get very jealous or think his wife is a bad person. The wife may actually like the other man more than you and leave you for him. Not much good can come from such a situation so keep it to yourself. I could never watch another man with my wife, and I am confident she wouldn't do it anyway.
2007-09-10 08:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same fantasy as well and yes I did mention it ot my wife. She told me sh'e not interested in having anyone else. To this day I still fantasize about it. I'd love to share her with another man and or couple. Tell her while you cuddling her. Tell her how much you love her and then have an open and honest discussion about both of your fantasies. Who knows, she may have the same one. Good luck and have fun. IM or email me and let me know how it works out.
2007-09-11 01:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by willie_mosconi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a monumental mistake that you will live to regret. This is not some chick you met in a bar, this is your "wife", and you shouldn't even consider passing her around like candy. Fantasies are wonderful at times, but they need to remain in the realm of fantasy... unrealized. I know there are segments of the population that indulge in these types of things in apparent happiness...they say they are void of jealousy, they claim there is more openness, and a host of other benefits, BUT...this still seems to be counter to my understanding of human nature to date and frankly doesn't seem worth the risk. If you're wrong, (and there is a good likelihood you would be) this fantasy will destroy your reality. Think it through carefully before you head down that path because you can't unring a bell...when it's done, it's done. There's still time to turn around, (you're still in just the "very bad idea" stage). Good luck to you.
2007-09-10 07:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you and your wife have open communication, then tell her about it and ask her what she thinks. Don't expect her to automatically jump up and do it! She might just tell you about a fantasy she has had and that can sure get the night started!
If you don't have a very good communication between you, keep it to yourself because she might be offended.
2007-09-10 07:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Debi N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that its a very high percentage of women that would like to be with another man and her husband. just happened to a g/f and me one time with my friend while we were out having a few drinks and i just let it go on like nothing serious was happening. i never seen her so turned on before and she thanked me for that a hundred of times.
2007-09-10 07:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by robert d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very common fantasy for men, uncommon for women. I wouldn't mention it to her if I were you...at least, not until you know each other very, very well. It could save your neck, literally!
2007-09-10 16:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Question, are you trying to tap into a womens mind, Maybe its your subconcious speaking, maybe those are your thoughts. Go ahead and talk to your wife about what your feeling, and thinking, thats why you are companions, so communicate together.
2007-09-10 07:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by PoPtArT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no longer a marriage when you introduce other people into your intimate union. My advice---lay off of the porn, and love your wife like you're supposed to. Fantasies like that just don't pop into your head all by themselves---they are born of perversion.
2007-09-10 07:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by mt75689 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not as a rule. I think this is more of a guy fantasy. Women talk a lot about feelings/relationships---I have never been with women talking about explict sexual issues..example...sex act itself.
2007-09-10 07:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by skyward 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
whatever you do don't do it!! you will regret it! turst me out of all the stories i have heard from firends that have given into this they says that they wish they would have never done it! because it made the act awckard and there relationship nonexisting!! just keep it in your mind! that where it should stay anyways!
2007-09-10 07:44:31 · answer #11 · answered by *Loving my two boys* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋