I thought this was an interesting concept...if a man never looks at porn, is he more likely to cheat on his partner...or if a man does look at porn is he less likely to cheat..? what are your ideas?
2007-09-10 06:39:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if a man looks at porn than he's more likely to cheat because he will probably become a sex addict from looking at other people have sex all the time. And fall in love with the concept of people who are not comitted to eachother having casual sex.
2007-09-10 06:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you see women can never ever explain a guys motives no matter how much experience they have with them. A guy who looks at porn, its doing it because;
A) Their significant other is not around or just not interested in have sex
B) their hormones are going and they need to be satisfied.
In my own general opinion id say that a man who looks at porn is more likely to cheat is a plausible statement. for you see looking at porn (virtual fantasy) constitutes nothing they can or would do in real life. I think it boils down to weather the guy cares or not.
2007-09-10 07:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Brooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. I'm a guy. Men were created with a very high sex drive.
whether he looks at it or not...still doenst take away his natural born high sex drive. Men are visual creatures...and women are mostly audio creatures. Men go by mostly by what they see.....women go by what they hear....
So, no I think it really has no difference whatsoever...because if they are going to cheat...they will. It's in the heart at the very moment they do it. Also...women are just as guilty of cheating too so this is not a stereotypical "man thing" at all.
Good luck
Cheating is still wrong whether you look at porn or not.
It still doenst take away the guilt and shame you feel afterward after you did it. Just like a lie is still a lie...whether its a little one or white lie.
2007-09-10 06:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was JUST talking about this subject. I cannot tolerate porn in my relationship. If your husband is worshipping someone elses body and you don't like it he has disrespected you in the worst way. It's not about you, it's about his broken compass. Love is not about being sexually perfect, it is not about perfect bodies or lust. It is not about your husbands needs, being a husband means he gives up his personal wants and focuses on how he can respect and love YOU. This is the type of intimacy that generates the most fulfilling relationships. Your body will grow old, but it's your spirit he needs to love. If he can't love anyone's spirit, then he does not know love. Sex is petty compared to a healthy marriage in which respect and selflessness takes precedence. Porno is cheap and disgusting. It involves exploitation of women and men for money. It misleads people to believe that perfection is what makes you turned on. He should be turned on by that fact you love him, and respect him and that you are this beautiful bright spirit that has blessed his life with love...and he should strive each day to do things that make you happy, as you should do for him. When we become selfish, we are mislead and unhappy. Yes, he is thinking about other women already. I find this intolerable. And when women say they think it's fine I don't believe them one bit. I think they know in their hearts they are unhappy...it's delusional thinking, and desperate. No self esteem, none.
2016-05-21 04:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if a man looks at porn, he is mentally cheating on his significant other. He is expressing pleasure that should only be given to him by her. I think this would make him more likely to cheat physically, since he is not fully attached to her. He looks for other things to give him pleasure in that way. Again, just my opinion.
2007-09-10 06:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by j c 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think if he is looking at porn, he might be more pron to cheat, but it all depends on the guy. Porn just might not be his thing, but still cheat, or porn might help him on his way to cheating... every guy is different
2007-09-10 10:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think porn has anything to do with it. We all make a conscious decision when we are faced with a situation of possibly cheating.
2007-09-10 06:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does porn have to do with anything, I look at it and I never cheated on my ex
so yeah he might or might not thats on him and not the porn he is not looking at
2007-09-10 06:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by tito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that looking at porn and cheating are correlated in any capacity.
2007-09-10 06:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by The Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it most always has to do with opportunity & chemistry & a loss of control on ones Libido or Horniness*.
2007-09-10 07:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋