My boyfriend and i are off to New York in 3 weeks and cant wait, aside from one thing. I have never met his sister and we are due to stay with her and her boytfriend for the 2 weeks we are there. Originally i asked that we get a hotel for the first few nights , just to get over jet lag and get to know each other, but my boyfriend kept forgetting to mention to her that we wanted to do this, so now i feel it is to late to say anything now as it would be rude but i feel uncomfortable as i dont know her and i know that she is a clean freak so i wont be able to relax even more with that, she seems very nice but it is spoiling it a bit but then i dont want to stop my man from staying with his sister, please give my opinions help!!!!
2007-09-10 06:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by shadow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't panic, she might be great. If not at least you gave it a try and you'll have a legitimate excuse next time to get a hotel.
If she seems to be offended when you suggest it, just say, it's a holiday and I want to be a slob and have other people make my bed and cook for me and clean up after me. I'm due for a spoiling and I just couldn't ask that of you. You're so sweet to offer to have us though.
2007-09-10 06:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if I were his sister, I would probably would have been offended a little bit if he came and stayed at a hotel, unless there isnt enough space for you guys.
The only advise I can give you is to relax, be nice and police to her. Also, try to make an effort to keep up with rules as it is her house.
Good Luck and enjoy your vacation.
2007-09-10 06:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 07:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and tell her that you two decided it would be best to stay in a motel.
Chances are it will be a relief to his sister.
2007-09-10 06:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right you should get a hotel, & who knows what kind of a person is she & her bf is, it will be nice if you could stay in hotel with your bf
2007-09-10 06:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and deal, it's only for two weeks...
2007-09-10 06:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋