Here's the deal. I work with this girl 21 I think. Her new boyfriend starting working with us (same department) 3 years ago. Anyway I was being nice to him because she had just invited me out after work. Well, he started getting really friendly and obviously being too interested in what I had to say. So I just stopped talking to him. He kept trying to talk, but I avoided him like the plague.
He never said he liked me but would always look longingly. His girl is so boring, like just bland. And me and him share some hobbies. They got married, and he still looks and even after they were married he still tried to hangout at work. Now she's angry and is trying to spread rumors that I want her man, along with other stupid ones. She had a friend or partner in crime to help. Her guy looks embarassed everytime he looks at me. I can't stand her.
What should I do about these rumors and situation.
2007-09-10 07:08:24 · 3 answers · asked by word_scratcher 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ignore the rumors and keep your relationships at work on a professional level only.
2007-09-10 07:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all down get stress yourself over this. It looks like that she's jealous of you. Plus she seem to be alittle insecure about herself if she's worrying about you. If she was a woman she would have confronted you in a decent manner. But now it's your turn to shine. Be the better woman. Talk to her and tell her the full load. Know that her rumors and her attitude don't affect you in any way. That don't mean get up in her face and do the finger pointing and neck roll........I would recommend the two of you sit down in a quiet area and talk. Tell her that those rumors aren't true and you don't see her husband nothing more than just a friend.
2007-09-10 07:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lady B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore then and make yourself happy.
2007-09-10 07:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica Ann. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋