Family & Relationships - 10 September 2007

Men don't care about what you have, but what you can do.
Women care about what men have.

That the major difference. That's why the richest women are single. Men want a Women. That means the tradional definition. Do you agree?

2007-09-10 05:49:36 · 24 answers · asked by bundypolkhigh 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl I've been dating for 9 months now and we've moved into an apartment in college together but we both feel kinda bored of each other and she says its not like it used to be...she met up with her ex before she came here but she cut it short to hang out with me...I found that out yesterday...and I kinda miss my ex in a way too but I don't want to lose the girl I have now either! I have 2 classes with her also...I'm 20 and she's 18 what should I do?

2007-09-10 05:48:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We went to visit his mom last weekend. She called him today and said she doesn't see him much, but we live three hours away from her and its hard to get down there and away from school. He goes down and takes her to dinner once a month. It always seems like he chooses his mom over me when we argue, and his mom is always downplaying me- and it hurts when he doesn't stick up for me. What do i do?

2007-09-10 05:44:57 · 6 answers · asked by lailage 2 in Family

How Can We Get Married In Canada and then I Move to the USA??I Am So Confused..I Call one person and they send me to someone else and on and on....Is There Anyone out there That has recently went through with this? Got Any numbers that i can call That has worked for you?? I`d really appreciate some answers??

2007-09-10 05:43:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Bearing in mind we havnt got alot of money but anyway my partner tested my ring size today wich is k so will take a 10 days to order in but which one will he choose ... just for fun which one would you say youd want on your finger? I said I liked these ones .... A-http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/2306001.htm , B- http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/2323819.htm, C- http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/2322463.htm and lastly D- http://www.argos.co.uk/static/Product/partNumber/2311216.htm ok wich one will he get me (boys) and wich one do you like personally (girls)?

2007-09-10 05:39:41 · 28 answers · asked by ♥ mommy to Ameliá born 23Jul09 ♥ 2 in Weddings

help needed
my cousins with a bloke who drinks really bad and hes very abusive emotionally to her ive tried to talk to her but she wont listen he even put her daughter at risk by wondering the streets with her while he was drunk and she still wont listen to reason and dump him what do you suggest

2007-09-10 05:38:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are stay at home moms doing harm to their children?. My MIL has been convinced by my SIL that children need daycare to be social. My child is only 1 years old.. SIL kids are cold and aggressive and they have no friends. The little boy had to cancel his birthday party because no one wanted to come... Did daycare simply fail in their case?

2007-09-10 05:37:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

on blaming my self what have i done wrong why God took away my mom?I do really miss her so bad i always dream of her almost every night.
What shall i do to ease my loneliness?

2007-09-10 05:35:26 · 17 answers · asked by humanistic_022003 1 in Family

I am a 32 year old man hopefully getting married to a v nice girl in about 4 months. I have been diagnosed with Obsessive compulsive disorder and chronic depression and i have told my fiance all about that EXCEPT one important detail.. One of my psychiatrists told me that he can give me in writing that my marriage will end in divorce once the honeymoon is over (especially if i am not properly controlled with medicines and psychotherapy). Currently i believe that i am about 70-80% controlled (i dont think i can ever be 100% disease free). I have a reasonable job and I am taking the meds and psychotherapy. Should i be brutally honest and tell my fiance what my psychiatrist told me or should i be more diplomatic about it or hide it from her?

2007-09-10 05:35:02 · 37 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK..so heres the deal...My fiance' shares an office with this girl..I talk to her through myspace/EMAIL, she seems nice enough. But she posts all these SLUTTY pictures of herself and her friends...in barely there clothes and teeny bikinis...(even for her main shot) and she is SO conceited because of course she has all these random guys telling her ooh hot body..hot mamma...wow..etc...

All I can think of is my fiance fantasizing about her and or her friends...asking her if she got any new pics up...how do I deal with this? HELP...plus I feel that she is being phony...because she will ask to have lunch with me...or talk to me..and she will drop little hints about my fiancee... but I cant ask her anything because of course she will run and tell him...and he will think i am spying on him..plus that is his coworker and i would never want to mess anything up at work for him.BUT if she wants to be my friend..then she should tell me something if she has something to say

2007-09-10 05:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is marriage a partnership of unequals between husband and wife?why? give examples

2007-09-10 05:32:45 · 14 answers · asked by Black Mamba 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a great marriage when it comes to how to spend money, where to vacation, work/stay-at-home, kids, parenting, religion, sex, sharing housework, letting each other what they like(hobby, class, sport, buy something expensive).

But, when it comes to in-laws, it is total chaos. Luckily they live very far away. My husband just has to tell them stuff way ahead of time or just tell them what they don't need to know. Be it, vacation plans, a bonus, a new car, a course I am taking, any health problems I'm having. Or reasons for any investments we make.
And each time we meet them, I have to 'please be calm, we are just meeting them for a few days'. My husband just refuses to stand up for me, agrees their behaviour is wrong, but insists I take the high road.

I am dealing with it OK, just want to know is it just me or it happens to others too?

Anyone, else ,have it like this. A really, really GREAT marriage, except when it comes to in-laws?

2007-09-10 05:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a married man doesn't even know this woman very much and tell her she's completelly gorgeous and ask if she's married or has a boyfriend.Do you think this is ok?

2007-09-10 05:28:52 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After a 12 hour day shooting pictures I'm more tired than a 12 hour day in a factory. How can that be? My camera is only a few pounds and my two white lighting lights are five pounds each. (I only lift them to put them on a stand) Maybe I'm just too old.

2007-09-10 05:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i wanted to tell someone very dear to me that his sudden distant treatment is hurting me. he said he is all right, just busy. instead of telling him am hurting for being ignored , i just told him, "i understand you" and said nothing. he was grateful for that and even said he is happy that am always there for him. was i right for telling him i understand him when in fact deep within am hurting?

2007-09-10 05:24:47 · 15 answers · asked by stel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a strange feeling that my guy is cheating with me. There are certain clues that lead me to it. One familiar incident is when he sent me a message on my cell phone but replaced my name with an affectionate one which he has never called before.

I confronted him a few times, he denied it, and told me not to ask him that anymore. He told me believe what i wanna believe but i don't know, part of me believe him, but there's a part of me which don't. I have been betrayed by my ex before so before i get hurt, i wanna protect myself first.

I really don't like to be suspicious of my loved ones, but i know sh*t happens, wat shd i do?

2007-09-10 05:20:23 · 9 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 05:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you do EXACTLY the same ,or not,,,,!!!

2007-09-10 05:18:48 · 38 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

a few nights ago, my best friend came over and we had fun taking some sexy pictures with the idea that we'd give them to our boyfriends (both of over a year).
some are pretty PG, while some are more explicit.
right now, we are only planning on sending the PG ones to them, but we'd both like a few outside opinions on them.
take a look. =))

http://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p119/Chelster121/100_3307.jpg
http://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p119/Chelster121/100_3332.jpg

by the way, we are both of legal age, so please, no outraged answers concerning age.
thanks in advance! =))

2007-09-10 05:17:46 · 20 answers · asked by the_beast_underground 2 in Singles & Dating

He is the sweetest! I’ve had a crush on him since 8th grade. I am a second yr college student and he is a junior. My girlfriend thinks we are perfect together. But I have two matters that are pulling me away from telling him: two of my close friends have had flings with him and I don’t want him acting awkward, which will result in us not being as close anymore. But I think he also feels the same. How do I go about telling him and how might he take it? We are both "adults" now and I want him badly...lol

2007-09-10 05:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Singles & Dating

He feels that since it's so long ago, he's cleared it from his mind. Obviously it's fresh in my mind and I'm furious and hurt. I found an email account he had setup that he still to this day spoke "dirty" to her on and tried to setup meetings which he swears he never went through with. He had sex with her twice while he was there. I have 2 kids and another 1 due in just a couple of weeks. I'm devastated!!! I supported our kids and was there for him while he was away and he betrayed me. He wants forgiveness but I don't know what to do. I'm trying really hard to forgive, I don't want my little ones without a mommy and daddy together forever, the pain is overbearing right now and I'm an emotional wreck from the pregnancy. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!

2007-09-10 05:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by blah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it right to go to the toilet in front of your partner. Do you think this kills the sexy part of your relationship?

2007-09-10 05:14:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am caucassian ..my friends think shes too exotic looking and suggest i stick to caucassian women ...i dont know what to do ..
http://www.facebook.com/srch.php?nm=meera+sarma

2007-09-10 05:12:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Works wonders!

2007-09-10 05:11:02 · 41 answers · asked by anil m 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-10 04:56:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to ask, How much money would you give for a wedding gift for someone that you used to work with? My Boyfriend and I are going just wanted to find out what amount would be good. Thanks!

2007-09-10 04:51:33 · 9 answers · asked by Girly Girl 83 2 in Weddings

the problem is my daughter has her biological father's last name and he is no longe in our lifes i am married now with 2 more babies and i would like my whole family to have one name but my daughtter is stuck with her dads name how can i do change this.

2007-09-10 04:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want kids right away, but most people who are married say to wait. Are they on to something?

2007-09-10 04:46:25 · 39 answers · asked by hippi_chk_99 1 in Weddings

Informal poll for moms out there. If you weren't close to your son growing up - how often do you hear from him as an adult? Do you have to initiate the contact or does he more often?

2007-09-10 04:43:54 · 2 answers · asked by l8tr g8tr 7 in Family

My fiance have started our wedding registry, but we can't decide on bedding. Mostly, because we have no idea what the difference between the different types of bed covers are. Coverlet, duvet, comforter, sham. This is a language I don't yet speak. What's the difference? Ok, well, I know the shams go on the pilllows, but other than that, I'm not sure what the best choice for us would be. Any help would be appreciated. By the way, this may be a stupid question, but please try not to be mean. I just want to pick out some nice bedding!

2007-09-10 04:38:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings