He is the sweetest! I’ve had a crush on him since 8th grade. I am a second yr college student and he is a junior. My girlfriend thinks we are perfect together. But I have two matters that are pulling me away from telling him: two of my close friends have had flings with him and I don’t want him acting awkward, which will result in us not being as close anymore. But I think he also feels the same. How do I go about telling him and how might he take it? We are both "adults" now and I want him badly...lol
2007-09-10 05:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let him know straight up or your just gona go crazy thinking about him, and you won't know how he will take it until you tell him.. the only bad thing that could happen is, you guys might start feeling weird around each other if he doesn't feel the same way about you...... you will never know until you tell him the truth... you are risking a friendship tho... good luck
2007-09-10 06:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO NEED to bring up the past, or even feel you have to go there. That was then, this is now. You would be starting your "new beginning" w/him. It has NOTHING to do w/what was done in the past or w/whom. Just don't even mention anything about anyone/anything. This is YOUR personal endeavor w/him & no one else. I sure as heck wouldn't want anyone to judge me on my past. I am a whole different person NOW than I was THEN. Go for it & just remember, this is YOUR chance to build on something that w/make you happy. Too, everyone is different & I'm sure you are not exactly like them to begin with. Why/how can you even compare anyone else w/you! Just be yourself & make a go of it. I DO wish you the best & feel you have everything good to look forward to...
2007-09-10 06:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! Do you really think he'll be acting weird because of his past? Men have no shame. They can have a fat beer belly protruding from their bodies and balding more than a sick dog, and they still think they're the finest thing since sliced bread. Go for him and don't you dare worry about his past getting in the way of his satisfaction--or YOURS for that matter.
2007-09-10 05:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just tell him probably in a letter or if u feel comfortable tell him face to face. believe me I'm going through the exact same thing so the best thing to do is follow what u think Will serve you right.
2007-09-10 05:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you making this hard??
Other girlfriends is overwith..
If you want to date him, ask him..
2007-09-10 05:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats cool
2007-09-10 05:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋