I have a strange feeling that my guy is cheating with me. There are certain clues that lead me to it. One familiar incident is when he sent me a message on my cell phone but replaced my name with an affectionate one which he has never called before.
I confronted him a few times, he denied it, and told me not to ask him that anymore. He told me believe what i wanna believe but i don't know, part of me believe him, but there's a part of me which don't. I have been betrayed by my ex before so before i get hurt, i wanna protect myself first.
I really don't like to be suspicious of my loved ones, but i know sh*t happens, wat shd i do?
2007-09-10 05:20:23 · 9 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should stop worrying , if he cheats , you'll find out . If you use safe sex it shouldn't matter . Worry and fights won't stop a cheater and it will ruin a good relationship so just relax enjoy you life , if hes worth it you know soon enough. My bf says you should call cheaters .(I don't agree)
2007-09-10 05:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like you are going through what i went through not too long ago. me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 1/2 months now and like 3 months ago i just became so attached and suspicious....i love him so much i was scared to lose him but i realized that was it i was so scared to lose him that i put thoughts into my head and its really not worth it...if you trust him then leave it alone unless you have some real proof but until then try to relax because if he loves you and wants to be with you he will be and if he doesnt he wont...trust me i know every boyfriend but my boyfriend now has cheated on me.....so i hope that helped boost you up a litlle. try to think positive and believe in him...give him the chance...you may be let down but at least then you will know for sure...accusing him of stuff you dont even know is true will just push him away.
2007-09-10 05:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by nikki12022000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too paranoid, otherwise you will be searching for signs and might misconstrue something that is really innocent. My husband cheated on me, but I knew he had feeling for this girl before they actually slept together. Your gut instinct might very well be right (mine was), but don't take any action until you have some more definitive proof. Hope this helps and I am really sorry for what you are going through.
2007-09-10 05:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always trust your instinct. Women aren't usually wrong about these thing. Especially since he got so defensive about it. I'm not saying accuse him of anything until you know for sure, but keep an eye out for anything suspicious.
2007-09-10 05:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by misty_dawn1100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you absolutely feel like he is cheating on you, I would suggest you go the following website:
2007-09-10 05:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by vegetaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing--
Work on your relationship you are in right now..
How YOU can make it better.
Your ex is over, and done.. Forget what happened..
Lose the baggage, drop the drama....
2007-09-10 05:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...your right sometimes it does...not many people get that...that's why they go crazy....obviously he's still around so there must be something there...jus let him know it's not cool...and if you apreciate each other enough to stay together it could be a good thing...he may jus be playin...
2007-09-10 05:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always trust my gut instinct and its never been wrong yet.
2007-09-10 05:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there until you have proof....quit asking and trust him til he proves different......good luck
2007-09-10 05:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋