OK..so heres the deal...My fiance' shares an office with this girl..I talk to her through myspace/EMAIL, she seems nice enough. But she posts all these SLUTTY pictures of herself and her friends...in barely there clothes and teeny bikinis...(even for her main shot) and she is SO conceited because of course she has all these random guys telling her ooh hot body..hot mamma...wow..etc...
All I can think of is my fiance fantasizing about her and or her friends...asking her if she got any new pics up...how do I deal with this? HELP...plus I feel that she is being phony...because she will ask to have lunch with me...or talk to me..and she will drop little hints about my fiancee... but I cant ask her anything because of course she will run and tell him...and he will think i am spying on him..plus that is his coworker and i would never want to mess anything up at work for him.BUT if she wants to be my friend..then she should tell me something if she has something to say
2007-09-10 05:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my advise...first quit talking to her at all...and 2nd, do you really think your man would be interested in a girl like that????
He is marrying you...not some s l u t who wants to post those kinds of pictures...those are not the marrying kind of girls that a guy wants to bring home to mom and dad....
remember you -- by far...are much better than her...thats why he asked you to marry him and not the s l u t
2007-09-10 05:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by sunbun 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you have every right to feel worried if she is posting slutty pics then why wouldn't she try and strut her stuff in front of guys It is all about trust do you trust your fiance enought to know that you are the only one that he loves? If so then you have nothing to worry about and you have a great man!
2007-09-10 05:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by moringurl20 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
think about it like this... If he wanted a s1ut, he wouldn't be marrying a lady. Don't worry about it. If you think that slutty girls turn your man on, dress slutty for him once in a while and have a ride of your life time. Trust he is into you. the other girls are something to look at while you are someone to hold
2007-09-10 05:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Scorpio 2009 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is going our of her way to try to be your friend I would certainly question her sincerity. It sounds to me like she is using you to get closer to him. I would go to lunch with her and become "friends" with her just to get a good feel for what she is up to. You also might invite her to hang out with you and your fiance so that you can see how they act around each other. I think you will be able to tell
2007-09-10 05:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by golfinggoddess 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a skank. My motto is: keep your friends close, but keep your enemies even closer. Perhaps she is trying to be all "buddy, buddy" with you so she can move in on your man. You should always be careful for women like this. I would become "really good friends" with her and watch that floozy's every move!!! LOL! But really, that's honestly what I would do. And to the first answerer, how can you not be a little insecure about a hoochie like that working with your fiancee'? Good luck girl!
2007-09-10 05:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by I♥TX 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
does she have these slutty pics of herself up at her workplace? also, does your husband access her my space page? does he really ask if she has new pics up? my advice is to cut off the friendship w/ her, she's bad news, and a bad influence... and, your husband should not be accessing her pages, either... forsaking all others was the vow, that includes looking up chicks to see what they look like in private when they are not at work...!
2007-09-10 06:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Other than the fact that she's a slutbag, has she done anything to question your fiancee's honesty? Does he go on and on about her? Does he "hide" communications with her?
2007-09-10 05:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think that if he wanted to be with her he would be. These kind of girls normally don't attract men who want to settle down. They just amuse them, they are not taken seriously. It takes time in life to learn this and know it.....just know it. You will be fine. I wouldn't have any more lunches with her...leave her at work.
2007-09-10 05:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rein 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
The problem is not with the office girl; it's with you. Why do you not trust your fiance?? If you have good reasons, you need to rethink your relationship with him. If not, stop worrying about it. The only one you have to trust is HIM.
2007-09-10 05:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by missingora 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I view pictures of hot women and my wife will also give me her opinion of whether or not women I've looking at is hot or not in her book. My wife's 39 and is very secure with who she is and in our relationship that she doesn't feel threatened by my looking at other women and i'm not when she looks at other men.
2007-09-10 05:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋