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She's always yelling at me and slamming things! I have no clue what her problem is!!! One minute shell be happy than shes like screaming and slamming doors and she freaks if I say something that doesnt sound completely happy!! Were 4 years apart and I have no clue what ive done to her! Shes ALWAYS fighting with our parents too......... Ive heard of sibling rivalry but my god...... :/ What should I do??? Ive tried ignoring her but that just makes it worse...

2007-09-10 06:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

8 answers

Sounds like she needs outside medical help. Has she been checked for bipolar disorder? I suggest discussing this with your parents so they can get her to a doctor for a medical evaluation. If she medically checks out okay, she may still need counselling. Definitely discuss this with your parents and don't try to handle the situation alone.

2007-09-10 06:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 1 0

It is obvious she has some issue going on with her and she is using you and your parents as a punching bag to vent. When she yells at you next time ask her if she needs help. If that doesn't work...... cry like you broke your leg or something!!!She will be so shocked it will stop her cold. Then, you yell and scream at her for hurting you all the time. YOu will have to cry a few times for her to get the picture 100% b/c she is so used to getting her way. As for your parents maybe they too are just accepting her behavior and really they should walk away and when is calm let her know she needs to grow and communicate not act like a 2 year old.
Good luck

2007-09-10 13:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You don't mention your ages.

The younger siblings will naturally act-out to get their way. The only thing you can do is tell her, "Look, if you are going to act that way, I don't care to put up with you! I will only be around you if you behave and be nice." Then walk away... go to your room or go for a walk around the block to blow off the stress. If you refuse to get baited into her game, she will eventually get the idea.
A walk around the block is generally a good idea in any pressure-cooker situation. It will help you to keep from transferring that stress into other situations like school.
You can also offer the carrot-and-stick approach... we've just gone over the "stick". You can also "reward" her in some way... perhaps allowing her to wear something of yours, play a game with her or take her shopping or something like that.

Other than that, I would suggest finding as many legitimate ways to limit the time you spend around her. Go study at a friend's house or something like that.

2007-09-10 13:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0 0

Dont deal with her period. You may need to speak to your parents about a psych evaluation for your bipolar sister.

2007-09-10 13:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Durr 3 · 0 0

Sounds like maybe she has some real mental issues - maybe she needs help.

2007-09-10 14:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by MaryBerry 3 · 0 0

Tell her that she can't have things her way and that you will no longer speak to her until she acts like a big girl.

2007-09-10 13:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0 1

it could b any number of things for example she is bipolar, drugs, boys, she is a teenager, she is just a *****!

2007-09-10 13:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0 0

I would just tell her to shut the ____ up! and break her toys!

2007-09-10 13:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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