and of course you were really happy and all that...
did you think though at some little point,
did you have any shadow of doubt in your head,
that what you are doing might well be wrong?
2007-09-10 06:58:57 · 28 answers · asked by Girl About Town 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I really didnt. I was completely focused on what was happening at that moment.
2007-09-10 07:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For sure! Not at the church though. On our honeymoon. I sat in the hotel one night and wondered what the hell I just did.
It's a big step, and I think that alot of people will have thoughts like that. I felt the same way after the birth of our first baby. Walked in the door with him & bang...what have we done? Our lives have just changed forever.
I must say I had just turned 19 when I got married. Everyone said we were away to young and it would never last. We will be celebrating 31 years this Christmas, and we've had a terrific marriage.
2007-09-10 14:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by tess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when some people get married they think PERFECT, PERFECT, PERFECT! is this the perfect mate, am i at the perfect age, is this the perfect wedding. for me you know and you just know. i had been married twice and still to this very day am the best of friends with my ex. no matter what happens and what feelings you have to go through, be advised in the worst of situations some feelings may take a whole year to get over. and things that u do may take the same for the other person involved. be the best u know how to be and if you did your best then everything else will follow. so in the best of situations you can say i did the best and you will transfer that energy to get the best back in return. when your standing at that alter stop thinking about all the WHAT IFS. be happy baby boy.
2007-09-10 14:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 29 years ago, my mother walked into my dressing room and said, "it is not too late to change your mind". I don't know why she said it, but I stood at the altar and wondered what I was doing. Like I said, that was 29 years ago, and here I am still married to the same man. I think a lot of normal have doubts.. I mean, it is supposed to be for the rest of your life. That is a long time.
2007-09-10 14:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by suisse shoggi 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, and I am talking about 29 years ago..yes I did think about that and as quickly as that though came to me, I quickly discarded it out of my mind for the person who was standing to my right was my dad. Long story..we were married for a very long time 15 plus years and we are divorced today yet the best of friends...funny too is that my sister went through this same bullshit..and we are not twins. Her ex and my ex are best friends too funny i know...Good luck to you
2007-09-10 14:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I never did but my dad was standing there the whole time saying you know I can get the car & we can leave right now. it was pretty funny (not that he did not like him, it was that I was only 19 at the time), but 6 years later we are still married.
2007-09-10 15:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had doubts about everything EXCEPT the choice to marry my hubby. No doubts there at all. I have a kind, caring man that I trust, respect, admire and love. Couldn't ask for anything more.
2007-09-10 14:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Momma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that's normal, to an extent. Remember what Ben Franklin said "the only sure things in life are death and taxes" or something like that. You just have to decide HOW SURE you are that it's right. Do you truly love the person enough to take the risk?
2007-09-10 14:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i got married in city hall to a beautiful woman that i only knew for 4 months. we've been married one year in october. when the judge was asking us those questions that judges ask, my wife ( bless her sweeet soul ) fainted. yeah fainted, blacked out , bumped her head on the alter the whole nine yards. afterwards i asked her what that was all about... she said she had so much going on in her head she couldn't take it. so yeah this marriage thing is FOREVER so you better have cold feet, doubts, second thoughts, etc...
2007-09-10 14:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by von99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope; married for the third time, never doubted myself. Most of the time, I feel pretty confident about the decisions I make.
2007-09-10 14:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not one! I was totally focused on my husband to be and extremely happy.
Of course, I didn't get married until I was 40, so I knew it was what I wanted. All of the running around, being crazy was out of my system.
2007-09-10 14:08:57 · answer #11 · answered by haleigh's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋