I'm sleeping with my guy for the 1st time 2mrw,i'm really nervous though,i want to but i havent slept with a new guy in a while. I worry he wont like my body or the way i smell,stupid things like that,should i drink alcohol before we go back to his?we are going to a bar anyway beforehand.
2007-09-10 10:18:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, have a few drinks, just to relax, but don't get plastered!
Before you go out have a relaxing bath, using your best bubble bath,then put a nice body lotion on then you'll know you smell good! as for worrying about your body-don't!! just relax and enjoy yourself-if you enjoy it chances are he will too! good luck-hope all goes well!!!!!!!!
2007-09-10 10:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by xxshellxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drinking usually frees up your emotions and makes you more horney anyway. Personally I don't drink, but when having sex with someone who did, I find it more fun. I am sure he is excited/nervous just like you are. He may have the same worries and if you do it because you want to be with him, you will have more fun.
Stop worrying!
2007-09-10 10:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by byroneann 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop getting caught up in all the superficial stuff. (will he like my body, my smell, etc...) just be yourself he likes you for a reason and that is YOU!! Relax have a good time, get caught up in the moment and don't psych yourself out thinking about it so much. He might be feeling some pressure himself so you might not be alone.
2007-09-10 10:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by bm 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you are going to be sleeping with him? Have you both pre-arranged it? Thats odd enough! I think you will be pleased to know that a naked woman in a man's bed who actually wants him is his idea of heaven...you don't have to be Kate Moss - you just have to be up for it, with him. And never pre-arrange - next time just let it all happen!
2007-09-10 10:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first off just make sure you shower and shave and trim everything up really nice have a few drinks to loosen up a little then just be yourself and relax and enjoy whats going on...have fun its not the end of the world just think of enjoying every moment....he may not be what you think;;;good luck
2007-09-10 10:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! Maybe you're nervous because it's planned, sounds a bit calculated to me which would be a bit off putting. Deciding to sleep together should come naturally, not be a planned event. You're heading for disaster if you ask me.
2007-09-10 10:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to have a cocktail at the bar, fine...but don't get buzzed just because you are nervous.
BE YOURSELF. If he doesn't like your body or your scent or your taste then you two aren't a good match...be clean, dress cute and comfy, and then just go with the flow. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself.
2007-09-10 10:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything if youd don't feel your ready yet.
Please don't drink! Never cloud your feeling with alcholo. i;m sure your a beautiful person, and if your not 100% sure he'll like you...maybe you shouldn't get into the sack?
Good Luck! You'll do the right thing!
2007-09-10 10:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nummy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHy plan your first night of passion...?? surely nerves will take control knowing that you are to put your body & emotions to the test!!!
let it be another day for you...and let nature takes its course!!
2007-09-10 10:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by mavircal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
drink some alkohol but not too much,and let it go.sleeping with a new man is the same as it was with those before him.
2007-09-10 10:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋