My heart is broken but he could heal it, what should i do?

Question

Alright, so in my 15 years (yes a teenager asking for relationship advice, how pathetic) i have only ever REALLY liked three guys. The first was for 6 years. I like him because growing up, he was the nice guy out of all the jerks. But then the jerks matured and he turned into the biggest jerk of them all and broke my heart. So then about a year later i fall for my best guy friend. Big woops. He was the perfect guy when it was just the two of us, but a moron who enjoyed tormenting me when he was around his guy friends. It took me two years to get over him, cause i knew i didnt want to be with a person like him anyway. So my redemtion came in the form of the new guy, who we shall call Chuck. Now i went to a new school and met Chuck half way through the year. He has never said a mean thing to me since i have known him, and he is flirty, funny, nice, and a football player. ;)

So the new year is starting and we have been flirting alot! I really want to tell him how i feel, but my past experiences has really given me a low self esteem. I am absolutely terrified of risking my already broken heart to another guy, but what if he is the one to fix it for me? I mean all my other friends have had boyfriends and have gone through the motions, but i have never had a guy like me. People tell me i am absolutely gorgeous, but i dont really believe them. I also come across as very cold to people who dont know me or see me walking down the hall, this tends to drive him off a bit. And no, im not one of those desperate air headed girls pining for a girlfriend, I actually do care about ym grades and am on the high honor role. He, is confident, popular, hot, funny, got tons of girls who are friends, popular, amazing student, popular; you get my point? Please any advice on how to get over my fears would be amazing!

Answer 1

Look outside the box, serious, I can't tell you anything better then that, but let me explain. See what you need to understand is that your still looking for purpose. Simply as that, but right now theres something you can put in its place thats sssooo easy, that well help that lost feeling you've got. (We all do, I used drugs so I don't look down on you, so talk about easy...) Its LOVE! Not the best representation simply because love for lovesack doesn't make a good relationship. But the reason I tell you this, is because from your typin your one smart 16 year old, and I want you to see the big picture. That way maybe, just maybe you won't fall for the same type of pitfalls you were carful to point out YOU havn't fallin into. But understand this romantic game of hoping to find love means nothing, its about what you do with that love. Were actual if everyone was honest some pretty lovin mofos, but i digress. Now you can use that very truth on this fella your talking about. See if he's popular that means he can play the "socializin" game pretty well, so your looking for that way in. Simply talk with this guy, relate with him, but the whole time realize it isn't that love-dove thats going to keep him for the long haul, but that friendship that relationship, without that its not going to work, and as you even found out, even with that it doesn't work. But just keep your mind around this romance is simply part of love, it isn't all love. Love is simply that frist step, thats easy, the rest if you ask anyone whose made a marriage last long enough, is pretty fin hard;) but it comes down to you both finding one single purpose.... good luck thou, those young years basically all you can go for is that old fashion romantic love, but hey your young, this is when you learn!

Answer 2

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