I ran into my ex in our old university town for the first time in 3 months since he broke my heart. we dated for 3 years and he broke up with me over the phone after he graduated, he had met another girl too and kissed her, but they arent together now but it still hurts that he would move on so fast. he has tried sending me messages but i just get mad at him for cheating. he wanted to get together when we were going to be in this town at the same time but i said we dont have anything to talk about unless you want to apologize to me.he said he misses me and isnt over me yet, but doesnt want to get back together because we arent right for eachother. it breaks my heart.we fought at the bar then the next day he emailed me saying i looked good and he wanted to kiss me but we were fighting. how can you love somoene yet not want to be with them? I feel so worthless, like i ask myself whats wrong with me that he doesnt wanna be with me? seeing him made me realize how much i miss and love him.
2007-09-10 11:59:19 · 4 answers · asked by 47skittles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its like i get sick every time of him kissing anotehr girl and liking someone else behind my back esp. but i also miss him and love him still...im scared i will never get over it, how can you just get over love, i dont think it just goes away. i feel so worhtless and empty like i wasnt special enough for him to wanna stay with me after 3 yrs. im so sad.if he isnt over me why doesnt he wanna be with me.i know no one can answer that but i am just so upset
2007-09-10 12:00:43 · update #1
Honey I have felt your pain exactly. I nearly ended up back with my ex who I was also with for 3 years and we were apart for 3 months, the whole time we are calling and emialing back and forth still keeping up with each others lives, and talking about what went wrong and how much we still loved each other. Well long story short we finally went out to dinner ( he asked me ) and it was amzing, afterward we went back to my house, were in bed kissing ( nothing had happened yet if you know what I mean ) and I asked him if he had "been" with anyone else.. ( I assumed he hadn't I know we were broken up but I thought this man truely loved me and would have been too upset - ha ha ) and he said yes. I thought I woudl die in that moment. I was enraged and Brokenhearted and humiliated all at the same time. I kicked him out, cried for 3 days straight ( called out sick from work ) I Greived sweetie, I mean GREIVED this man. I thought he was the love of my life. That was 3 years ago. Guess what? He wasn't the love of my life. I am happy and with an amazing man who would never hurt me the way he did. Once I was gone, really gone from him ( no talking, no emails, texts nothing ) I started to get some prespective and see that in fact he was a pretty selfish and crappy boyfreind and I was the one doing all of the work. It's funny too, cuz a couple of months ago I had to be in the hospital for something ( and this jerk works there, but not in the ER where I was - but we are well known there- so I guess someone we know mutually told him I was there ) and he text messages me asking if he can come see me, can he get me something etc. You know I never thought the day would come where I wouldn't care to hear from hi - but it meant NOTHING to me! What a relief This will happen for you to. But you need to shut him out in every way so you can grieve and start to heal.
2007-09-10 12:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Luella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where could individuals your age be? Make a record of areas that individuals you age could move. Then make it a factor to visit this areas. If you might have MTV or whatever else geared in the direction of individuals you age get a few suggestions from there. Go to the library & seem by way of magazines which are geared in the direction of individuals you age & get suggestions. What are individuals your age doing? I realize whilst my son was once in school years in the past & lived off campus the location he lived which was once miles from the school was once full of individuals his age. I wager the hire was once low & but it was once nonetheless almost the colledge. Make is a task to discover individuals you age & you are going to. I suppose the simplest location is the nearest group colledge or University. Sign up for a category if in case you have time to do this & you are going to get your foot within the door. Then you are going to be competent to make use of the library. You can quietly take a seat there & see what different younger individuals are doing. Look for bullentin forums. Get concerned in events. If you simply do that & you begin assembly a hand stuffed with individuals ultimately they're going to invite you to events in which you are going to meet extra individuals & then different events till you might have such a lot of peers you are going to must volenteer at a nursing house simply to have older individuals to your lifestyles.
2016-09-05 09:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-27 23:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋