I am 59. My "partner" (whom I love as a very good woman) is 60. Age is no matter, I think.
But I have no physical desire for her, and can't perform!
Advices? (doctors and psychologists only please: I DO love her and want to please her)
2007-09-10 12:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by just "JR" 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your reduced desire can actually be attributed to your age believe it or not.
As a man grows older, there is a reduction in their testosterone levels. It's something that diminishes over time and is rarely noticed until around the age you are.
I'm 42 and can see a marked difference in my sex drive as compared to my younger years. You may want to see your physician about this instead of a psychologist as all indications are it's merely physical.
Being in love with her is a plus, now it's simply a matter of getting your "other partner" out of the barn. There are a variety of ways to do this but depend on your physical health.
Another factor may be high blood pressure, the onset of diabetes, or, if you smoke, the narrowing or your arterial walls as a byproduct of your smoking. There are many factors here, some of them can be frightening, most are simply a result of time and can be helped through diet, exercise, and medication.
There's just too many potential factors to be specific.
Go see your doc. Good Luck!
2007-09-10 12:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by wentfishing2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Google up these words - DHEA, male menopause, HGH precursors.
The internet is the wild west - maybe we can't believe everything that a marketing professional puts on his webpage - but I can tell you this: I have been looking up this stuff TOO, and I'm only 47 (although women my age tell me that I look 36... and they didn't know my real age.
2007-09-10 12:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-04 23:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Velasquez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Viagra should help, it comes in 5mg 15mg and full strength 100mg....warning the 5mg are only to stop you peeing on yer slippers.
Ray. West York's. U.K.
2007-09-10 12:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry im no doc .. why dont you try viagra,, or what about a bit ov foreplay.. or buy some mags and keep the vision of the beautiful hot babe in your mind to get you going,,, ill bet that works you hot sexy devil.. dont give up .. use lots ov oils too.. you need the mental stimulation to get the physical working .. mags def..
2007-09-10 12:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try sex
2007-09-10 12:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right age doesn't matter (jn this case i dont think)...Is something on your mind perhaps?
be interesting to find out how others answer.
2007-09-10 12:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
find a partner who you find physically attractive.
2007-09-10 12:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Stick it in her pooper.
2007-09-10 12:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Will S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋