but not impossible, just a challenge? without him losing interest?
also, if your playing hard to get, how can you talk to him for the first time w.out seeming really interested (date wise)..?
like, guys what makes you want a girl in this respect?
thnks!
2007-09-10 15:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by rinn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop asking me WHY, cuz its annoying. if your not gonna answer it normally, then dont answer at all.
kthnx
2007-09-10 15:42:56 · update #1
don't be overly anxous. keep him curious but not impossible. if you let it go too long then he will think you are too much to bother with. Make him work for your attention but curiousity become annoyment if you let it run too long of course.
2007-09-10 15:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Media Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. i would like to know the same, why do we have to play hard-to-get in the first place, why can't we just be honest. but one thing that we have to do for sure is, don't be available anytime he calls you. i know it sucks to lie to them and to pretend you have plans but if you're too easy for a guy he will lose interest, he needs to know that he is not the only fun you're having and that even without him you can have fun. i have the same problem, i want to spend every spare second i have with my bf but it doesn't work that way. don't let him think that he is the only fun thing in your life. give him space and have your own space without him and he will respect that. it's not easy but it will be for the best. good luck
2007-09-10 15:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by s_blagoeva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play hard to get, then you will be left behind. There are much sluttier girls-very easy targets. If you are as young as you seem, then no guy your age will waste the time trying to pursue you. So just try to be yourself, if he likes you...excellent! If he's not interested, it wouldn't have worked out...no matter how hard to get you played.
2007-09-10 16:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by D G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl thats easy!
just make it seem like ur interested/ not interested 2getha.
when u meet him or wateva, don't give ur whole life storie away. just keep him wondering and geussing.
don't dress nasty, dress womanlie...but still sexy not revealing.
Smile a little if his funny, but not nasty laugh!!!
the key is to keep him guessing wondering who u r!!!
and wantin 2 kno' more!!!
these days that barelly happens, since when u meet someone u wont see them 'til lik the next life
GIVE IT A TRY THOUGH!!
gud lux!
2007-09-10 15:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you WANT to play hard to get when there are SOOOOOOOOO MANY that are easy to get ? Don't throw yourself at him, or he will think you are a slut. Take it one step at a time and see where it goes...if it is true love, you will both know soon enough. Good luck to you.
2007-09-10 15:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for being so honest most of would say Work harder and harder and play less and less.
2016-04-04 01:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F the games...seriously, no one likes them or respects them.
2007-09-10 15:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The better question is, why would you want to?
2007-09-10 15:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by highball116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont
2007-09-10 15:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Papi Chulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T its ANNOYING........
2007-09-10 15:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋