Why is it that men (not all of course) never seem to forget how to beg for sex but forget other things like B-days & Valentines Day?
*no cursing/names pls.
2007-09-10 13:00:51 · 19 answers · asked by . 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MiladiFair, YOU'RE AWESOME!
2007-09-10 13:35:35 · update #1
Because.. they aren't all givers.. many are takers..
they want to manipulate to get something for themselves.. but, not for her. Maybe if you had sex only on those dates, he'd remember them better.. What you give, you get....
2007-09-10 13:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by miladyfaire 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys have very different sex drives? Sure in the beginning you are into each other - it's called lust - but after a while that wears off and things go to a romantic love stage.. BTW guys peak about 17-18 sexually, but at 24 he should still be on the pace. If you're hot as you say, and I believe u are cz you sound just like one of my g/fs - Find out if there's a reason why he's off his game. Guys don't respond well when they're tired, stressed, sick, or have something like work taking up free space in his head. Of course he may just be bored/tired of you or seeing someone else, but I wouldn't think so. Once a week or less is def, not right. You need to chat to him baby, see what's happening there.
2016-05-21 09:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lana it is basically the nature of the beast. Being a male myself I'm certain that in my younger days I was guilty of these offenses also. But with age, a little maturity and a little less wisdom I have learned what is important to my lady also. So do not just go for my own gratification all the time.
2007-09-10 13:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about birth days but guys do not want to remember valetines day because thats a day where you women expect something expensive like $1,000,000,000 diamond ring,if guys dont give you anything or they give you something cheap but comes from the heart,you women will get mad,thats why men dont want remember valentines day.
2007-09-10 13:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men forget dates because their minds are preoccupied with how to get sex.
If we (men) got sex all the time, then we wouldn't have to beg, then our minds would be free to remember things like Birthdays, and anniversaries.
2007-09-10 13:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jason H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Gf's bday is 6/27, valentine's day is 2/14 christmas is 12/25, our anniversry is 9/28, i think its just the guy's u r dating
2007-09-10 13:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by ??? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Lana. I have been married for many years and my husband has never forgotten a special date, nor has he had to be reminded a day or two in advance.
And he has never had to beg for sex...I enjoy it just as much as he does and don't use it as a weapon.
Maybe you just date losers?
2007-09-10 13:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's because we is men, its what we do! And mostly that happens in the sitcoms about married people but it might happen occasionally in real life.
2007-09-10 13:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have been doing is for decades. But most good Bfs remeber. Only a few bad ones forget.
2007-09-10 13:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most guys are jerk-arses. The good guys will remember b-days and v-day.
2007-09-10 13:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by mechbasket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋