Ok, what should I do about this guy?

Question

I am seriously attracted to a guy from work, and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way, but we can barely talk to each other. We don't really work together, but we work in the same area and we are often pretty much alone in the back of the store. We do the whole across the room, walking by eye contact for too long thing, but I guess both us are too nervous to say anything. We talk briefly sometimes about work related matters, but there is always this strange vibe between us.

I just don't know how to handle this, it's been going on a long time and I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me crazy! Don't just tell me to stop being shy or something, I need some real insight.

Answer 1

You've been asking this question for about two months now. I thought you might have an answer for that even if you may be talking about a different guy. You should halt beating the dead horse and do somehing else on your own. There is no one who is going to help you Yahoo! Answers.
Besides since you work togather it is easier and in addition to this you have a crush on each other.

Answer 2

Here's the first thing. Find out if he's married, or otherwise involved. If married... FORGET IT. Couldn't be more trouble. If involved... proceed with caution. Guys love a good flirtation. You should make sure that if he's involved you give him just enough attention to make him want you, but not nearly enough to make him think he could have you anytime.

Next... bake something. I know this sounds silly, but as I said in another post, it works beyond all reason. Bake something for the office, then make sure he gets some. Make sure it's from scratch, very tasty, and that he knows you made it.

Otherwise just keep looking desireable. Lavender (and pumpkin pie) are apparently the scents men find more erotic (believe it or not, this is research based). So although you don't want to spritz on the essence of pumpkin pie, a nice, natural lavender water a few times a day will be good. And if you know how to make a nice spicy pumpkin bread ('tis almost the season), perhaps you could leverage one method against another.

Good luck!

Answer 3

one of you need to break this nervouseness, why don`t you try asking him if he`s dating someone, thats the first step, it will let you know where he stands in a relationship, if he`s free, then try asking how do he feel about catching a show or going out for lunch, these are the times to break the ice, and you`ll get to know each other better, then one thing could lead to another, try it, don`t be afraid, he could only tell you yes or no.

Answer 4

Have fun with this... Hide little notes for him to find from you in the store. Just hellos and cutie faces and things. Its harmless and breaks up the day and he could take the ball from there and run with it. Later, you could get more direct with your hidden notes of hints but this is a fun start!

Answer 5

Do something daring. When you two make eye contact for a long time, walk up to him and kiss him. Hell, that is a big turn on for me ; )

Answer 6

Slip him a note inviting him for a coffee and a soft drink, leave your number on it and if he calls go from there if not then move on.

Answer 7

if you got the goods(nice body) flaunt it, be flirtatious, show him that u are really interested in him. He may really like you but he could think it would be useless to try because he doesn't know if you like him back
Show Him That You Care
GO FOR IT!

Answer 8

Get a friend to help, tell your friend to tell the person you like to tell things about you and him. Get his attention.

Answer 9

do something funny to get his attention to talk to u then from their u can think of a nice and funny conversation to talk about.

Answer 10

u should ask him why he keep looking at u like that