I love my husband but he has treated me bad. He has cheated on me although I have been faithfull. He says he cheated because I verbally abused him. Whatever!! We are on the verge of a devorice.
I know I need time to heal because I'm hurt real bad.
However there is one thought that eases the pain: spending time with my ex. I havent seen him in 5 years but when I speak to him he makes me melt. I have known him scince I was 18 I'm almost 30 now. He has be emotionlay supportive of my bad relationships. We contact each other about 2 times a year. He is doing well for himself and was engaged. Howerever he broke his engagement after hearing from me recently. I wonder if its because he has alway had hopes of us being togeter. I'm nervous though because I had children on him and he alwasy says that he was supposed to father my children. I love my husband but he's a jerk but I have kids by him.
Should I take the chance and make a date with my ex or try to work it out with Mr. Unfaithfull
2007-09-10 16:26:40 · 6 answers · asked by LIN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Finish your problem with your husband before you even think of hooking up with your ex.
2007-09-10 16:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Belen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are married and have children.i know your husband has hurt you by cheating but it sounds like you have the intent to cheat also,so what does that make you? your ex is your ex for a reason so be honest was it his fault or yours that you broke up?did your husband cheat because you are still in love with your ex?you need to grow up! you cannot have it both ways! talk to your husband and see if your marriage can be saved.if you want to work it out leave your ex husband out of it.if you find you are in love with your ex and he with you have a talk with him and see if there is a future for the two of you and your children and if he is willing to be a good loving step dad to the children.if not then either stay and work things out for the kids sake or if you will not stay away from the ex give your husband custody of the kids.good luck.
2007-09-10 16:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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