A couple has been dating for almost 2yrs, One discovers a trail of evidence that the other has been unfaithful,She even spoke with the other female, and both her BF & the other female deny any wrong doing, Yet that other female gets so defensive, its almost hysterical to hear how she tries to present herself as being Mary Poppins?Especially when she has a past with this guy as giving him a STD more then once!Without going into Gory detail about the evidence and how she knows they are lying, should she go with what she has in evidence or should she just leave it alone?
2007-09-10 16:38:02 · 9 answers · asked by Skinz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She needs to move on. If this other chic has given her BF STD's what's to say it won't happen again. There are STD's where there isn't a cure and can cost her her life, it's called AIDS!!!! Is she willing to die for this man?
2007-09-10 17:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by guerafla05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on! Why does she want to continue torturing/tormenting herself? Go with your instincts girl! That is why God gave them to you. There are men out there who want a person like you. There really are. It'll be painfull at first, but get some strong support. Try Hooking up with a strong bible believing church as ou go through this. You'll be surprised how much the pastor's sermon will PERSONELLY SPEAK TO YOU!!! You are more than a conquerer. These things can really strip away your self confidence. You know----that feeling that you are a somebody! Well you are a somebody!! You have a Father in heaven that loves you! He is waitng for you to come to him. Unlike our own dad's, he doesn't force himself on you . He can help. Just talk to him like I'm talking now. He doesn't care wher you've been or what you've done. Infact he already knows and still wants you to love.
2007-09-10 17:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by jaly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has evidence that her boyfriend cheated....why would she just want to leave it alone? People will lie and try to cover up their lies.....hoping that they won't be found out...but eventually they do. They look even dumber when they cheat and lie about it.
2007-09-10 16:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's true evidence...she should already be gone! People will lie to the end if it means giving up someone that they want to be with...
2007-09-10 16:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she even discussing it with you or anyone what's wrong with her. There isn't that much love in the world to put up with a pig like him.She needs her head examined.
2007-09-10 16:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on Earth would she stay? They are not married and he is a cheater and a liar. This one is a no-brainer. Time to leave.
2007-09-10 16:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by banana6464 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should just leave and divorce.
2007-09-10 16:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she want to be with someone who obviously doesn't want to be with her??
2007-09-10 17:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it quacks like a duck.....
2007-09-10 16:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋