some women agree to sex., but after starting they whisper softly "no "..some of them really mean it " they firmly state :STOP ! or NO ! ..but what about those who say "no honey hehehe" or - baby stop it tickles maybe im not ready yet ".....
dont we all know a girl /woman who says 'no' while we kiss-touch-caress. and she gets 'dis-appointed if we stop ? Ive even had a girl ask" why did u stop ? when i replied .."coz u said no ' ...she answered back.... I didn't really mean NO!
IS "NO" just a clever way to have a defense later if she gets busted by spouse or a bf..she'll be able to say " i told him no- but he keept going.."
Should the Law be changed ? once 2 ppl agree to sex - done deal ! no rape charges-if 1 partner has a change of mind'..
2007-09-10 16:48:19 · 8 answers · asked by billybadazz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does not matter how she says it NO means no and i stop right away
2007-09-10 16:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women say no cause they are not ready yet. I had a girl get mad at me when I stopped when she said no. She said, "Well I didn't REALLY mean 'no' as in stop."
But this is a very touchy area. If you're with a girl the first time, better safe than sorry.
A good tip is this: If a girl feels really threatened, she won't want to do anything after you try too much. Try staying above the waist (or neck) for a little longer. If she still doesn't want to after 10 minutes or so, then don't keep going.
You can seduce a woman into wanting more than she had in mind by filling her mind with passion. This is achieved in your voice, the words you use, the look in your eyes, and your touch. There's no science to learning how to make a woman want you (its beyond explanation), so you'll just have to practice a lot. :-)
2007-09-11 00:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No means no.If a partner says no respect it and stop. Maybe they like the kissing and don't realize it leads to the carressing and foreplay. If they do everything then get scared they usually don't realize because they are young and hormones on high . But the thought of intercourse could scare them.Don't force anal or oral thats still rape.
2007-09-10 23:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Icyelene R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the fickleness of women these days and the present state of legal cases, I would treat any "No" as if it were a red light and stop altogether. Treating it like a yellow light or even a thinly-disguised green light is to invite potential disaster into your life. No woman is worth that. Don't let your tool do your thinking for your brain.
2007-09-10 23:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No always means no. Period. You hear the word no, stop!
2007-09-10 23:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No means NO plain and simple
2007-09-11 00:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date older girls this one sounds immature. find a girl that will tell you what she really wants, and no won't be part of it.
2007-09-10 23:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DOES MEAN NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AND IF YOU THINK THAT IT DOSEN'T YOU ARE GOING TO GET INTO TROUBLE.
ASK YOUR MOTHER THIS QUESTION!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-10 23:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by specialsuber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋